83, but love green tea bitch 30(2/2)
If you study in a different place, you will lose all benefits. Sometimes people are still extremely selfish, especially men in this situation.
"Ji Huai will still give me advice, right?" Zhang Ying spoke with trust, and then said melancholy, "Actually, I haven't thought about it. My mind is all messed up. Graduate school seems to be quite good, and working with him is also a good idea.
It's good, after all, I'm already twenty-six after graduate school, and my mother wants me to get married before twenty-five, and preferably have children within a year."
Because her aunt and cousin had delayed marriage until they were thirty years old, or even in their thirties, Zhang's mother only hoped that she would put important events in her life on the schedule. She didn't know why, but their family's "customs" seemed to be different.
Marrying late, Zhang's mother was very worried.
As parents, they hope that their daughters will find a good man to marry, have children, and live an ordinary life.
Gu Tong: "..."
Then she didn't know what advice to give.
In the cafeteria.
Zhang Ying looked at Ji Huai opposite and asked cautiously, "What do you think of graduate school?"
She felt a little guilty when she said this, because she had agreed with him before that he would stay and work in the provincial capital, and she would join him in the provincial capital after she graduated, or they could go back together and work for two years to save some money.
Just get married.
Ji Huai paused while drinking the soup, "Do you want to go to graduate school?"
"It's not... it's..." Zhang Ying looked confused and avoided his eyes, "I just want to ask, is Gu Tong taking the postgraduate entrance examination?"
"It's time to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination." Ji Huai continued to drink soup, and seemed to have no special reaction.
She pretended to be casual and said, "Gu Tong is going to be admitted to a university in the capital."
"The capital is good." He replied, eating the vegetables in the bowl, and when he saw a piece of lean meat, he picked it up and put it to her mouth.
Zhang Ying bit her tongue and said, "Then will you take the postgraduate entrance examination with me next year?"
"I don't want to take the exam. I don't like studying. Besides, in our major, there is not much development in graduate school." Ji Huai rejected it, and then said, "You can take the exam if you want. I support you."
Zhang Ying: "Then we are not in a different place?"
"I can work in the city where you go to school. Besides, there is still one year left. I'll save some money. Where can I go to develop? I can stay there after you finish your studies or come back." Ji Huai didn't hesitate and said it very casually.
, "No one cares about me, I will go wherever you go."
"You need to know the school information quickly and decide which school to apply to. I can help you find information."
Zhang Ying was so moved that she never expected that her boyfriend did not object and fully supported it, but her parents objected.
Zhang's mother said earnestly on the phone, "Yingying, you are already twenty-six after you finish graduate school. Have you forgotten what your aunt said to you when she came back?"
Zhang Ying looked up at the sky.
Oh, her aunt came back and told her that she should get married early and not be like her, who is unable to do what she wants now. If she wants to have two children, she should get married early. This is not to say that it is feudal. One of the most practical problems is that she is too old and physically unable to keep up with her.
The child is still young and has a lot of troubles.
"We are an ordinary family, and we can't hire a nanny when we have a baby. Tell me, when you come back to find a job, you will also go on a blind date. Sister Zhang next door, after finishing graduate school and then a Ph.D., she is forty-two this year.
Don't scare Mom if you're not married." Mother Zhang felt her heart was not feeling well, and they didn't know what was wrong with their family's genes, so none of them wanted to get married.
Isn’t it nonsense to not get married in a small place?
The parents did not see their child getting married, and they would not rest in peace at the thought of her being childless and all alone in her old age.
"You should get married within a year or two after finishing graduate school." Zhang Ying thinks it's totally fine. "It's fine before I'm thirty."
Although it is a bit late for Xiaofang to get married at 30, she can do it a little earlier.
"You just want to marry me? Your sister, Xiaoyi, has been on a blind date for thirty-three years and is not married yet. Do you know what people introduce you to them now? They are either good-for-nothing old bachelors or second-married people who introduced them.
Things are getting worse and worse." When Zhang's mother talked about the girls at home, she felt worried, fearing that Zhang Ying would follow in her footsteps.
"I have a boyfriend." She had no choice but to use her trump card.
"Where is your boyfriend from? Does he have a job? Or is he from the same school?" Zhang's mother successfully changed the target and threw away the series of questions.
Zhang Ying briefly talked about Ji Huai's situation, "He is preparing for an internship and will graduate this year."
"One is studying and the other is not studying. He has been out of society for several years before you graduated. You have to think clearly. Having a boyfriend doesn't mean anything. It doesn't matter whether you get married or not. If you insist on studying, your mother will definitely not stop you.
It is good to read more books, but you must not be like your cousins." Zhang's mother gave many instructions, and you can feel her worry from her words.
Of the girls in the family, four of the seven children are getting married when they are close to forty years old, but one of them just refuses to marry, which makes everyone afraid of her.
Zhang Ying said she wanted to go to graduate school. In their opinion, that might be a sign. If she doesn't get married in her 40s or 50s, that would be really worrying.
"Mom, they are them, and I am me." Zhang Ying was flustered by what she said. If she breaks up with Ji Huai a few years later, she might become a non-marriage person.
Although, she thought it was okay and she was quite free not to get married.
Mother Zhang said helplessly, "Your cousin Xiaoman told your second aunt the same thing before."
Zhang Ying: "..."
"Mom is old and doesn't understand this. You can make up your own mind and think it over clearly. Of course your dad and I will support your decision." Zhang's mother agreed, but in the end she still supported her unconditionally.
"Well, I understand, Mom."
...
Zhang Ying hung up the phone and called Ji Huai. She talked about the previous chat with Zhang's mother and said worriedly, "Senior, do you think I will be next?"
Her aunt came specifically to tell her about this last time. A woman's golden period is still relatively short. This is a fact. Giving birth to children as you get older is more harmful to the body and is not good for the children.
The whole family didn't want her to follow in their footsteps. Every time they caught her talking about this topic, it was said that it was a bloody lesson.
"It's just a postgraduate study." Ji Huai was still confused, and then spoke to comfort her, "Auntie is too nervous. How old are you when you graduate from postgraduate study? As long as you want to get married and have children, you will run away before you are thirty, right?"
Zhang Ying supported her chin with her hand and stretched out two fingers, "But I want to have two children with you, so it's a bit difficult."
Ji Huai laughed out loud and thought for a while, "Then we can get married after you finish graduate school, okay? There won't be any delay."
"But it's not kind of me to leave you to struggle alone."
"Someone has to pay first, and others pay later. Why are you so anxious about important things in life? Just let nature take its course." Ji Huai looked at her and coaxed her through the screen, "Don't think so much, they are them, you are you, you
There is me."
Zhang Ying was so happy that a smile appeared on her face, and she forgot all what Zhang's mother said.
Well, what does it have to do with her? Does it mean that you get married too early if you don’t go to graduate school? Does your marriage become happy if you marry too early? Everything is wrong!
Gu Tong had no idea what kind of expression she had on her face as she witnessed the whole process. Bowls of cold dog food were stuffed into her mouth and she was forced to accept it.
In fact, she wanted to say that it would be nice to have a doggy man to show affection to.
Chapter completed!