85, but love green tea bitch 32(2/3)
The food inside.
"Hey." Gu Tong sighed, "How much money did he leave with you? He is also investing in a small company. He has at most a few hundred thousand left. He will use a few hundred thousand to marry someone who has been in talks for so long and has a good education.
, for a person who looks so good and thinks about him in every way, the value you create for the family in the future will be much higher than these hundreds of thousands. It may be money you can earn back in a year, but he uses this money to buy
gained your trust."
"Zhang Ying, I can see your temper. You won't spend his money at all. Ji Huai can only make a sure profit from this transaction and will never lose money!"
Zhang Ying was thinking about her words.
Over the years, she has been working part-time, and her income is not bad. She studied for graduate school with a full scholarship, and the school and the state provided subsidies during her graduate studies. All the money Ji Huai gave her was put together and saved.
If it's not enough, she will add some herself. She dares to say that she didn't spend Ji Huai's money.
"In the past few years, your most precious youth has been wasted on him." Gu Tong continued.
Zhang Ying doesn't agree with this sentence, "I don't think this is right. He has also spent his time on me in the past few years. We both want a good ending, to be able to find someone we like, and spend a long time with me in the future."
In the years, we walk hand in hand."
"Whether you love me or not, it's actually not that important. As for marriage, find someone with better conditions, good in all aspects, and live together. It's too much love, but it's humble. I don't like it." Gu Tong shrugged, not caring about this at all.
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Zhang Ying didn't refute her, thinking that what she said might be right. After falling in love, it's easy to have random thoughts. Maybe it's better not to be in love and be more relaxed and comfortable?
She has reservations about this view.
It wasn't until later that she completely changed her mind.
Because...she and Ji Huai broke up.
She had not left school after her defense, but she and Ji Huai were living together, and their upper and lower teeth were still bumping together, let alone two people. They had quarreled many times in just half a month of living together.
The two living together was originally a trial marriage stage. They did not live together originally. Zhang Ying still lived in the dormitory most of the time, and Ji Huai was also at work, so there were not so many collisions.
Now we often stick together, and because we have been in love for many years, we have long passed the passionate stage, and even sex is not that new.
Now we live together, with different daily schedules, different living habits, different lifestyles, and even different food tastes. There are constant frictions, and they have accumulated a lot of grievances for a long time. Ji Huai is busy at work, so he falls asleep when he comes home.
Lack of communication.
The conflict eventually escalated. Zhang Ying found out that a female colleague in his department was pestering him to chat, and she became jealous. Ji Huai caught a doctor who had confessed to her before and made sarcastic remarks. Both of them had bad tempers and would not let anyone go.
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At the end of the quarrel, everything in the room was thrown all over the floor by the two of them. Zhang Ying stood on the bed with a bad look on her face. During this time, she had really tolerated Ji Huai for a long time.
Ji Huaihan said with a look on his face, "Don't bear it."
When we quarreled, we were very competitive and very angry.
Doesn't it mean breaking up when you hear this?
Zhang Ying cried and yelled, "I can't bear it anymore, right? I'll take the blame myself!"
As soon as he finished speaking, he slammed the door and walked out.
Ji Huai scratched his head in annoyance: "..."
The reason for the quarrel is to facilitate communication. It seems that the heat was not controlled this time?
Gu Tong was shocked. Seeing her eyes red and swollen from crying, he became even more suspicious of the existence of such a thing as love.
"These years of youth have been fed to the dog?" Gu Tong was indignant, "Can he find someone better than you in the future? I think he can't find it. Just wait until he becomes a bachelor. Wait, he will come back and admit his mistake!
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Zhang Ying was also very angry. She wanted to pay him back the money he had given her over the years the next day. Gu Tong stopped her, "What should I give you back? How much have you spent on him over the years? This money is for
No, you are even more at a loss!"
In the end, she didn't listen to Gu Tong and called Ji Huai back. In fact, she wanted to take this opportunity to let the other party contact her. The man was so hateful. If he didn't admit his mistake this time, she wouldn't forgive him.
his!
"He's made a lot of money, okay?" Gu Tong held up his forehead, "You're really stupid, so stupid, okay?"
"Ding." Zhang Ying's cell phone rang, and Ji Huai called her the money again.
It's so obvious, doesn't it mean that she doesn't want it anymore? The two have completely broken up. Do they need to compensate her for the "loss of youth"?
Zhang Ying broke down and cried, adding another hundred scenes to herself.
Gu Tong stood aside and didn't know what to say. This went against her knowledge and gave her the feeling that if they broke up, both of them would lose in this relationship, and this benefit would become irrelevant.
It's urgent.
"Don't cry. It's okay. There will be a better little brother in the future." She hurriedly comforted Zhang Ying, and it was quite uncomfortable to see the other person's dejected look.
She also secretly inquired about Ji Huai's situation. The other party had a roommate who was also in the capital and was still in contact with Ji Huai. She learned that Ji Huai had been drunk these days and was not doing well.
Gu Tong looked at the two of them and really couldn't understand it. Everyone gets what they want in a relationship. Men are all toys. If this one doesn't work or behaves well, let's replace him with the next one. There are two-legged men in the streets, and each one is more gentle and considerate than the other.
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"Don't be sad, honey. It doesn't matter if your aunt urges you to get married. You can go on a blind date when you go back. If you go on a blind date, you will meet a better brother. We have excellent conditions. Who is Ji Huai? He doesn't have what he wants?" Gu Tong comforted her.
Next, I felt like both of them were children. One moment they would post on Moments, and the next they would like this one and the other one. They would also be very annoying when commenting on Moments. They only posted to Moments for each other to see.
Things that may seem very childish to outsiders, but the two of them don't think they are childish at all.
Zhang Ying remembered that her mother Zhang had mentioned to him some time ago that she could get married first after graduation, which made it seem like she had no one. Ji Huai must have felt that no one wanted her.
The Zhang family heard that the two had broken up, and Zhang's mother's blood pressure suddenly shot up. Why was her good son-in-law gone?
Thinking back to the thirty-three-year-old cousin who was still on a blind date this year and still hasn’t gotten married yet, she is already turning 40. The other people who have been on a blind date haven’t gotten married yet. Zhang Ying is about to follow in her footsteps.
Yet?
The elders in the family have all gone to see a Feng Shui master. Is it because the Feng Shui in the family is not good?
"What's wrong with Xiaohuai? You broke up with me, what do you want to do?" Zhang's mother said to her, "If you try to trick your cousins, I'll serve you like a feather duster!"
"Mom." Zhang Ying looked at her with a serious face, "Don't get married for the sake of getting married, okay? Breaking up before marriage means that it is inappropriate in the first place. If you get married in the future, you will have to divorce. If there is still a child, who will the child be given to? After the child,
What about our mental health? Who is responsible?”
Zhang's mother was choked and muttered after a while, "I'm not asking you to get married casually. Of course you have to find a good family."
"You are forcing me to get married now."
"Mom, I saw that your cousins are not married now. What will happen in the future? How old are they? You don't know, your little sister Hua has been preparing for pregnancy for three years and she didn't get pregnant. How old are you this year?
?When I went to the hospital, I was told that my fertility had declined and the chance of artificial insemination was low. I shed tears at home and regretted it."
"And Xiao Man, are you pregnant? You've lost two or three, and you can't keep your body at all. Do you think you're still young? Can mom harm you? I'm afraid you young people haven't thought about what you will do in the future if your brain gets hot for a while?"
"When your aunt comes back this time, please keep her mouth shut. I asked you not to delay. Do you think she is joking?"
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Mother Zhang could talk about this and that all day and night, about the daughter-in-law upstairs, the old girl downstairs, the sister-in-law who was the cashier in the small supermarket... there were always examples to support her point of view.
"Why don't you talk about the daughter of the security guard in the community? She got married at the age of sixteen and gave birth to three children and three fathers. At the store in the community at the door, didn't her daughter get divorced after two years of marriage? She took the children with her.
Just came back, and there was the aunt who got married on a blind date. It was only after she got married that she found out that the man owed millions in foreign debts. Is it because she met a scumbag when she was older? Or was it because she didn't get to know each other well before marriage?" Zhang Ying is not covering up her words.
, with an indifferent expression, "If you think your task is to marry me off, then fine, you can decide on the candidate. Just notify me of the marriage when the time comes. I won't raise the child if you give birth to it. You can bring it back and raise it with the man."
Said, the condition of my marriage is that he leaves me alone."
"I'll get a divorce if you don't care!"
"How can you call this marriage?" Zhang's mother looked worried.
"Then what is marriage? Isn't it about finding someone you like and go hand in hand with? I live a good life alone, why should I find someone to suffer? Am I looking for abuse or money? I don't want to get married, right? Mom, you always
You can't force me or influence my judgment." Zhang Ying said seriously, her relationship with Ji Huai is not dead yet, okay?
Zhang's mother didn't dare to speak anymore. Zhang Ying had a leisurely life. In order to prevent herself from wandering, she focused on her work and occasionally chatted with Ji Huai on WeChat. Anyway, no one took the initiative to admit their mistakes.
The looming relationship is disconnected and very ambiguous.
But everyone agreed that they had broken up, and there was no hope of getting back together. During the Chinese New Year, there was a wave of blind dates.
The girls from the Zhang family are really an exception. None of them can get married. All four of them are in their thirties, and the youngest Zhang Ying is already twenty-six.
This also makes the elders of the Zhang family more experienced than ordinary matchmakers.
Zhang Ying went to her aunt's house to pay New Year greetings. Well, she was assigned a blind date for no apparent reason. She didn't know about it at first, but she politely sat at the same table to eat.
The other party was tall and elegant, wearing glasses and his eyes fell on her from time to time. My aunt said that she liked her very much. Even though she didn’t have a house yet, she had a good job and could afford it in the past two years.
Zhang Ying resisted getting angry and declined, saying that she didn't want to find a partner yet.
That man was quite polite and sincere, but at first glance, he was not as tall as her dog man, not as handsome as her dog man, not as well educated, and his voice was not as nice as the dog man. He was totally worthless! Anyway, he was just that.
She felt that Ji Huai, the dog man who made her angry, was inferior to him everywhere.
The second cousin told her to forget it if she didn't like it. She was still young and didn't have to worry. The third cousin told her not to be so picky.
She made an excuse and went back to her home.
On the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, Zhang Ying went to her second aunt's house to pay New Year greetings, and a blind date came to her on the way. She thought it was her third cousin's blind date, but in fact, her third cousin also fell in love with him, because although he weighed more than 200 pounds, he was
My family has three apartments, my parents have pensions, I have a good job, and I drive a nice car.
But he thought his third cousin was too old and fell in love with Zhang Ying. The third cousin was so angry that she told him in a strange way that Zhang Ying had a boyfriend that she had been dating for several years.
The other party's attitude changed slightly.
Zhang Ying didn't say anything. They could say whatever they wanted, but it was best not to look down on her, so as not to make everyone's faces look bad.
To be continued...