Ouyang Yiyi looked at Han Feng and smiled, then said, "No need to say Xie, as long as you don't call me a cold-blooded bastard in your heart, and you have to send someone to take me with a gun." After that, he smiled first.

Han Feng smiled embarrassedly. Ouyang Yiyi's joke brought the relationship between the two a lot closer and eliminated the previous conflicts a lot. He walked out with a smile.

Sitting in the car back to the city, Ouyang Yiyi and Han Feng sat in the back row. Looking at the scenery outside the car, Ouyang Yiyi sighed: "It turns out that I always thought that Shanghai is the fastest-growing city, but when I went to Beijing today, I realized that the development speed of Beijing was also quite amazing."

Han Feng said proudly: "Is Beijing the capital after all? It is also the seat of the government. It will hold the Olympics here in 2008. Although it will be several years left, the current development and construction must also keep up."

Looking at Han Feng's proud look, Ouyang Yiyi smiled again: "Through your sister-in-law, I have learned a little about you. It seems that you have a deep patriotism and family love. Okay, if you don't talk about these things, do you have nothing to do with us. Do you want to know that I was so determined at the beginning that I refused to come, but why did you agree to have the surgery now?"

This question actually stayed in Han Feng's heart. He kept thinking about it, but he didn't have the nerve to ask it. Now that Ouyang took the initiative to say it, he didn't reply, but his expression had already given Ouyang an answer.

"It was your sister-in-law's words that touched me and made me re-understand the meaning of life and life, so I decided to come to Beijing for this operation. I will tell you now, why did I insist on not coming..." Ouyang said seriously, and then told Han Feng the past he told Chen Xiao again.

Han Feng is a very emotional person, so after listening to Ouyang's story, he was very touched and felt very sorry for the man and woman in the story. Although tears did not fall after listening to the story, his eyes were obviously red.

"I originally thought that after I told this story to your sister-in-law, she would no longer force me and understand what I did, but she did, but what she said later changed my mind. So I was completely willing to come to Beijing, and I wanted to help you from the bottom of my heart." Ouyang Yiyi looked at Han Feng, and it seemed that he had reminisced about the conversation he had with Chen Xiao a few hours ago...

"Doctor Ouyang, the story you just told is very touching. I am also very sorry for the young couple you mentioned. I can understand it very much. You are reluctant to go for surgery now, but there is one thing I must remind you because you made a principled mistake here." After starting the conversation, Chen Xiao pointed out Ouyang's problem directly.

"I have to listen carefully to the principled mistakes and see what's wrong." Ouyang looked at Chen Xiao very seriously. He had discovered that this woman who looked several years younger than him had a special temperament and a contagious feeling in her words, which made people involuntarily accept her way of talking and open her heart to her.

"The young couple you just mentioned are a pair of young people born and raised in the United States. They have received Western education since childhood, and the minds are instilled with the Western way of understanding marriage and love. But you use their tragedy to trap the young people now. This is inappropriate, because they are authentic Chinese and authentic Beijingers. They have a complete way of thinking and treating feelings with Westerners. This is the principled mistake I want to point out to you!" Chen Xiao talked happily and began to explain his own opinions.

"So what?" Although Ouyang Yiyi had to admit the facts Chen Xiao said in his heart, he did not think there was any essential difference.

"It is precisely because they have a fundamental difference that you use the way you treat Westerners to judge the current way of dealing with young people and their future attitude towards life, which is unscientific and irresponsible!" Chen Xiao pointed out the key to the problem in a blunt way...

Ouyang Yiyi looked at Chen Xiao very seriously. Although he did not fully agree with what Chen Xiao said, it was entirely out of politeness.

"Western people are much more open to sex than our Chinese people, and their feelings towards marriage and family are completely different from those of us Chinese. For them, it is indeed much harder to accept a life of a sexless marriage, especially young people, than our Chinese people. And they also attach great importance to autonomy, or in other words, sometimes, when dealing with feelings, they are selfish."

"But don't forget that for Chinese people, when dealing with feelings, the obvious difference between them and Westerners is that they have a so-called sense of responsibility. This sense of responsibility sometimes transcends many things, making the originally impossible feelings extremely solid." Chen Xiao continued.

Ouyang completely agreed with what Chen Xiao said: "I admit that Chinese people are indeed very different from Westerners. Chinese people pay more attention to human feelings in marriage and love. Especially the sense of responsibility you mentioned may be to the person you love, or maybe because of the children they have married, but no matter what it is, sometimes it can continue a relationship that cannot be continued."

But his words immediately changed: "But do you think this kind of relationship that can only continue to live together because of a sense of responsibility can really be happy? Even if it can be maintained, what's the point?"

Chen Xiao said with some grievance and sighed: "Happiness? Doctor Ouyang, I really want to know, what exactly is your so-called happiness? Can you explain it clearly? And what kind of results are the meaning you have been emphasizing? "

Chen Xiao's words silenced Ouyang. These in-depth topics are indeed not so easy to answer.

"I don't know others, but I know my own parents. In my junior high school year, my father broke his leg due to an injury. I didn't quite understand it at that time. Later I realized that the injury at that time basically paralyzed his lower limbs and also lost his sexual function. But my mother did not choose to give up this relationship and life because of this." Chen Xiao began to convince Ouyang with his parents' personal experience.

"In terms of education, they are definitely not as good as the young people you mentioned. My family's living conditions have become very miserable since then. But when I saw my father and mother together, I can still see the smiles on their faces. I can tell you with certainty that it is their heartfelt smile. At that moment, they are happy, and their meaning is to enjoy this happiness."

Ouyang fell into deep thought. He had to admit that the degree of loyalty to feelings is indeed obvious different from that of Westerners, especially the social opinion and the thousands of years of Chinese moral traditions, which made marriage quite sacred in the eyes of many people, and no matter what, they would try their best to maintain it.

He also knew very well what Chen Xiao was discussing this topic with him, so he immediately adjusted his mindset and found the topic again to refute Chen Xiao: "I believe what you said, but maybe it is because your parents' thoughts are relatively simple that they can maintain that kind of sexually asexual marriage in this way. But what about young people today? They have all accepted a lot of influence from the West since they were young. Their understanding of sex, feelings, and their understanding is completely different from their parents, so they cannot use the way the previous generation treats feelings and marriage to cover their performance. This is also your principled mistake."

Chen Xiao had to admit that Ouyang was not only an excellent doctor, but also had outstanding eloquence and knowledge. If he had been given to Han Feng, he would definitely not be able to say these words. Although his mind was also very fast, such meticulous analysis and speech were what Han Feng lacked the most. What he often could do was to use the so-called loyalty and heroism to solve the problem.

"You are right. The responsibility of our fathers towards feelings is completely different from that of young people nowadays. I also admit that many young people nowadays have become weakened and their sense of responsibility has been reduced due to the influence of the West. But this does not mean that all children are like this. At least the current patients and her lovers are definitely not so casual, but very serious about their feelings." Chen Xiao knew that it was impossible to convince Ouyang with other people's examples. He could only impress Xiaoyan and Han Feng's real experiences, and this was her last solution. If Ouyang could not be moved by it, she might really have no choice.

In the following time, Chen Xiao told Ouyang Ting how he met Han Feng, how he became a family, how his family changed, how he and Xiaoyan began their relationship and relationship, and what stories happened to them during the interaction process.

When Ouyang first heard it, he had a little disdain and casualness on his face. Because of this kind of young man's love, he heard a lot of it. In his concept, he always believed that it was an impulse expression and could not last long. But then Chen Xiao's remarks became more and more touching, and the experiences of Han Feng and Xiao Yan began to deeply touch him, making Ouyang start to be moved by the infatuation of these two young men, especially Xiao Yan.
Chapter completed!