Chapter 1313 : Chapter 444: He's Ready (2)
"Haha, Master Lan, I don't agree with what you said. Of course, as you said, in terms of innate resources, a child from a poor family may not be compared with the so-called second generation of officials, second generation of rich people or children from a higher level of you, but who can say that growing up in adversity and striving for a career is not a kind of experience? Only those who truly grow up in shock waves and striving for a career in adversity can have the most priceless spiritual quality in the world and have the most noble and strong beating heart in the world. I think the greatest happiness is in the process of striving for a career in adversity, and
It’s not what you get in the end. In other words, what’s important is not the result, but the process. So, I think the best parents should not hand over everything ready to their children. On the contrary, they should take back everything and leave it alone for him to blank. At most, they will only teach him the ability to seek, let him fight, struggle, explore and strive for it. As for the more falls and more storms in the process, it’s no big deal. And if we really give the best to the children, think about it, will they develop the indifferent laziness from birth? Maybe you can teach him the most
Good kung fu gives him the smartest mind and huge wealth and power. But can you give him the quality of being strong and unyielding? Can you give him a heart that is strong and can withstand all kinds of pressure? Can he let him laugh at everything when real crisis and pressure come one day in the future, and he will be calm in everything, regardless of good or bad times, and will not collapse because he cannot bear pressure? Perhaps you will refute me, saying that even children from aristocratic families can also experience, polish their mood, and bear heavy pressure. But what I want to tell you is, no, it is not the case. Because they have been developed in their bones since they were born.
There is a sense of dignity and pride. Even if they deliberately self-pressure and temper themselves and their family intentionally train, deep down, they always think that they have natural superiority. Everything they do now is just for their own superiority in the future. That's all. And I want to correct a mistake that life is not for enjoyment, but for creation. Therefore, in a person's life, the greatest pleasure is also to create, to create a brand new soul, to create a true self, rather than lying on the side of the beautiful dream teeth with the nobleness of looking down on all living beings, and to die comfortably in lazy fatigue." Liang Chen shook his head and said.
"Since that's the case, why did you agree to marry Yutian? Do you want your son to die comfortably in the laziness and fatigue you mentioned? Even if you have the ability, you are inaction?" Lan Tianfang was silent for a moment and asked slowly.
"Haha, I was forced. Sometimes, if the oppression is too strong, I can only go with the flow. The head of the Lan family, in fact, I am not a person who is unchanging." Liang Chen said with a smile, but his tone was quite a bit difficult for Lan Tian to figure it out.
Chapter completed!