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Li Yajuan said: "Just now, Deputy Director Chen Wenyun came to you and said that he would like to invite you to dinner at 5:30 in the evening. It will be in private room 336 of Qinghe International Hotel. Also attending is Wang Yifan, Director of the Human Resources Department.

Yao Jinxing, director of the Urban and Rural Planning Editing and Examination Department, Wu Shiyong, director of the Urban and Rural Development Department, and Su He, director of the Qinghe Branch of the Construction Bureau."

Xiang Tianliang was stunned when he heard this, "Sister Li, are you kidding me?"

"Can you make fun of the leader? It says on the letterhead, you can see for yourself..." Li Yajuan cooed.

It was really written by Chen Wenyun himself. Xiang Tianliang said curiously: "No, since ancient times, subordinates have invited their superiors to dinner. Is the sun going up from the west? It makes no sense for superiors to invite subordinates to dinner."

Li Yajuan smiled and said: "The superficial reasons are very good. This time you cooperated with the relevant departments to destroy a major case, and you were commended by the municipal party committee. The honorary title at the end of the year will definitely be indispensable. Chen Wenyun is in charge of organizational personnel work, and also serves as the secretary of the party committee of the bureau.

I think you have brought glory to the Construction Bureau and it is normal to host a banquet for you."

Xiang Tianliang said: "This Wang Yifan, Yao Jinxing, Wu Shiyong and Su He are all in the same group as Chen Wenyun?"

"Individuals were not before, but they are now. Generally speaking, they are all in the same group."

"The banquet is not a good one. I won't go. Sister Li, please find an excuse for me to refuse." Xiang Tianliang sat on the sofa and shook his head.

Li Yajuan came over and said with a smile: "You still have to go."

"Why?"

"Because I agreed for you."

Xiang Tianliang looked at Li Yajuan, stretched one foot between her legs and pushed her, and said with a wicked smile: "Sister Li, you can do it, you have become my home."

Li Yajuan hurriedly ran away. This office was surrounded by glass walls on both sides. Old Liu Tou was sitting there, and he could see it when he raised his head. Xiang Tianliang was a person who did what he said. He could do whatever he wanted, but he couldn't stop him, so he stayed away.

A little is better.

"Xiao Xiang, they invited you this time because they are not interested in drinking. You can definitely take the opportunity to find out their movements."

"You mean, they did it because of the cold air the old woman gave out?"

Li Yajuan nodded and said: "That's right, the old woman recently announced that she would make a large-scale adjustment to the cadres at the deputy department level and above. Who among the people below can still sit still, but now everyone can't figure out what the old woman is.

Trump card, this

On the other hand, she is an absolute master and hides her secrets. Everyone thinks that you, me and Ye Nan are the people she trusts most, and they should know something. But Ye Nan is studying in the party school, and I never participate in drinking parties, so,

You are the most suitable candidate."

After thinking about it, Xiang Tianliang said: "In that case, I really have to go. If they touch my cards, I will steal their cards."

"That's right. If you want to make a name for yourself in the Construction Bureau, you have to get along with them."

But when he thought about the drinking party in the evening, Xiang Tianliang got a little worried. Chen Wenyun was very particular about rules, so he couldn't let himself slip in front of him. He couldn't lose face, and he had to win even more with his taste. He didn't know anything about socializing.

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After thinking for a while, I still had to ask Li Yajuan for advice.

Li Yajuan smiled and said, "Hehe, that's fine too. If you sharpen your gun before the battle, you'll be happy if you don't like it."

Xiang Tianliang kept shouting ***, which made Li Yajuan happy, "Xiaoxiang, you become a teacher for one day and you will be a teacher for life."

"This student has always respected his teachers. Please start the class as soon as possible." Xiang Tianliang swore, patting his chest.

Li Yajuan smiled and said: "Grandma Liu first entered the Grand View Garden, and she must understand the rules for socializing."

Xiang Tianliang said happily: "Don't worry, my memory is the best in the world, so I don't need a notebook to cram in for a while."

"In a formal banquet, of course, you must first pay attention to the seating arrangement. Facing the door is the most important thing, and the others are facing to the left and east. If it is a round table, the person facing the door is the host and guest. The positions to the left and right of the host and guest are based on the distance from the host and guest.

, the closer the host and guest are, the more honorable they are. If the distance is the same, the left side will be more respected than the right side. If it is the Eight Immortals table, if there is a seat facing the door, the right seat facing the door will be the host and guest. If it is not right,

Facing the gate, the seat on the right side facing east is the chief. If it is a big banquet, the arrangement of the tables should be such that the chief is in the front and in the center. There are 246 seats on the left and 357 seats on the right. According to the identity of the host and guest, the status

, sit separately. If you are the host, you should arrive early, wait at the seat near the door, and guide the guests to their seats. If you are the invitee, you should follow the host's seating arrangements."

Xiang Tianliang nodded seriously, "Oh, I still know a little about the first step, but I'm not that particular about it."

"Then where will you sit tonight?" Li Yajuan asked with a smile.

Xiang Tianliang smiled and said: "I am a little soldier, so I must be sitting at the bottom, with my back to the door facing the master and the chief."

"Okay, let me talk about the order of toasting. Generally speaking, the host greets the guest of honor first, then the guest greets the guest of honor, then the guest of honor greets the guest in return, and finally the guests greet each other. You must remember that when you are a guest, you must not be a guest.

You can't toast indiscriminately, as that would be very impolite and disrespectful to the host."

"Haha," Xiang Tianliang said with a smile, "I am quite lazy in this regard. I am less active and more passive."

Li Yajuan continued: "Let's talk about the etiquette at banquets. First, everyone must have fun together and avoid whispering. Most banquets have many guests, so you should try to talk about topics that most people can participate in, so as to gain the approval of most people.

Because personal interests, hobbies, and knowledge are different,

Try not to be too biased with the topic, avoid being self-centered, talking about the world, going off topic, and ignoring everyone. In particular, try not to whisper to others, giving others a sense of mystery, which often leads to "just

The jealousy of "You two are so good" affects the effect of drinking."

"Two, aim at the guests and hosts, consider others, and grasp the overall situation. Most banquets have a theme, which is the purpose of drinking. When attending the banquet, you should first look around at everyone's expressions and distinguish priorities. Don't drink simply for the sake of drinking.

And if you lose a good opportunity to make friends, don't let some grandstanding drunkards mess up your host."

"Third, speaking appropriately and using humor on the table can show a person's talent, knowledge, cultivation and communicative grace. Sometimes a witty and humorous language can leave a deep impression on the guests and make them appreciate you invisibly.

To create a good impression, you should know when to say what to say, use appropriate language, and humor is key."

"Fourth, persuade others to drink in moderation, and don't force it. People often encounter the phenomenon of urging others to drink at the wine table. Some people always like to treat the wine shop as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink a few more drinks. They think that not drinking enough is unrealistic, so

"Drinking is a hero, it's okay for people who drink a lot, but it's difficult for people who have a small drinker. Sometimes excessive persuasion to drink will completely destroy the original relationship between friends."

"Fifth, toast in an orderly manner with clear priorities. Toasting is also a science. Generally speaking, toasts should be ordered by age, position, and identity of guest and host. Before toasting, you must fully consider the order of toasts and clearly distinguish priorities, even if

When drinking with unfamiliar people, you should first inquire about their identity or pay attention to how they are addressed. This is something you know well.

To avoid embarrassing or hurtful situations, be sure to grasp the order of the toasts when toasting. When a certain guest is at the table, you should be more respectful to him. However, be aware that if there is a higher-status or older person present,

As a person, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also toast to the elders first, otherwise it will make everyone embarrassed."

"Sixth, observe people's words and understand people's hearts. If you want to get everyone's praise at the wine table, you must learn to observe people's words, because when communicating with people, you must understand people's hearts and play both sides. Only then can you play the role at the wine table well.

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"Seven, sharpen your edge gradually, sit tight on Mount Taishan. During banquets, you should see the occasion clearly, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to retain some drinking power and sense of speech, do not let others look down on you, and do not reveal yourself too much.

Only by choosing appropriate opportunities and gradually letting go of your own edge can you stay firmly on top of the mountain and prevent others from thinking that you only have this ability, so that no one dares to underestimate your strength."

Xiang Tianliang was overjoyed when he heard this, "Sister Li, it turns out that you study these things all day long, and you are the one who hides it so deeply that you can write a book."

Li Yajuan glanced at Tianliang and said, "Listen up, there are a lot of things to pay attention to. You will need the following content tonight. As the saying goes, the more you drink, the thicker the wine becomes, but there is also a lot of knowledge and details on the wine table. You

We have to pay attention to, firstly, when leaders finish drinking each other, it is their turn to toast. When toasting, you must stand up and raise the glass with both hands. Secondly, multiple people can toast one person, but one person must not toast multiple people, unless you are a leader. Thirdly,

Farewell yourself

If people don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation, such as the other person's drinking capacity and the other person's drinking attitude. You must not drink less than the other person. You must know that you are respecting others. Fourth, you are respecting others. If you clink glasses, one sentence:

After I finish drinking, feel free to do as you please. It will show your magnanimity. Five, remember to add more wine to the leader. Don’t blindly replace him with wine. Even if you want to replace him, you must do it when the leader really wants to find someone to replace you. You must also pretend that you are doing it because you want to.

drinking and

Drinking is not for the sake of drinking for the leader. For example, if the leader is too drunk, he can stop the people who are about to pay tribute to the leader by making insinuations. Sixth, pick up the wine glass, hold the glass with your right hand, and place the bottom of the glass with your left hand. Remember that your own glass will always be lower than others.

, If you are a leader, be wise and don’t put yourself too low, otherwise you will be called a human being. 7. If there is no special person present, it is best to drink in clockwise order, and do not favor one over another. 8.

, Clink glasses and toast, you must have something to say, otherwise, why should I drink your wine? 9. Don’t talk about things on the table. After drinking, things will be almost settled. Everyone will understand in their hearts, otherwise others will not

I'm open to drinking with you. Ten, if, purely if, there is not enough wine, put the wine bottle in the middle of the table and let people refill it. Don't be stupid and rubbish and pour the wine one by one, otherwise the people behind will have no wine.

what to do?"

Li Yajuan said a lot, and Xiang Tianliang sighed after listening to it, "Oh, I remember it, but it's a pity that I can't apply it. Sister Li, why don't you go with me."

Li Yajuan smiled and said: "You are so beautiful."

Xiang Tianliang said with emotion: "It's better to drink with friends. There are not so many stinky rules. You can drink whenever you want and have a good time."

Li Yajuan said: "This is a compulsory course. If you want to get involved in officialdom, you must learn this trick."

"Chinese people, ***, are a nation that is obsessed with saving face and suffering."
Chapter completed!