The next morning, the situation suddenly changed.

The two CEOs of Cathay Group Company, for unknown reasons, unilaterally announced that they would take over the signing ceremony of the county education committee transfer agreement that was originally scheduled to be held in the morning.

After receiving a phone call from Cathay Group Company, County Party Secretary Zhang Heng became anxious and quickly called County Magistrate Chen Letian.

Chen Letian hurried to Zhang Heng's office. He also looked anxious. It turned out that he had also received the same phone notification.

Li, deputy secretary of the county party committee, learned the news and also came to Zhang Heng's office.

The three giants gathered together and held a temporary secretarial meeting.

"Lao Zhang, Lao Chen, ask Xiang Tianliang." Li Zhang suggested.

A phone call summoned Xiang Tianliang.

"What's going on at dawn?" Zhang Heng asked.

Xiang Tianliang looked hesitant, shook his head and said: "I also received a call, but the reason...it's hard to say."

Looking at Xiang Tianliang, Chen Letian said: "Comrade Tianliang, you have made a promise."

Yes, I gave it to Xiang Tianliang for sure.

Keeping one's word is a life creed that is always praised by people, and going back on one's word is always looked down upon by a gentleman.

However, nothing is too much, and our culture has long educated us to be good people who are absolutely kind to others, so that we do not argue with reason when we should protect our own interests.

Therefore, knowing the way to regret is a necessary beginning for a person to change his power and realize his self-worth. If regretting does no harm to others and himself, and it is beneficial to successful cooperation and good things, why should we be obsessed with stupidity? What about the fallacy of loyalty?

In specific interpersonal interactions, going back on a promise requires being polite and courteous. "I promise" is one of the most dangerous sentences in language. Therefore, when making a promise, you should be 80% sure and only say 50%, instead of saying absolutely. Be sure to make sure that there is no room for maneuver when something unexpected happens. As for requests that cannot be fulfilled, you can sometimes agree to them, but you should also make your promises smartly and delay the attack skillfully, and you should not often regret it by delaying it.

Looking at the three leaders, Xiang Tianliang spoke vaguely.

"Dear leaders, everything has accidents. I asked Mr. Zhu of Cathay Pacific Group Company, there is a reason for everything."

Zhang Heng asked: "At dawn, just tell me why?"

Li Zhang smiled slightly and said, "Comrade Tianliang, I remember that you seemed to have issued a military order before, and you would not regret it so quickly."

Xiang Tianliang nodded, "Deputy Secretary Li, I really want to regret it now."

Keeping one's word and keeping one's word is the basic quality of a person. However, if one does not know how to adapt and raise it to a "thunder pool" that cannot be crossed even half a step, it is a sign of rigidity. Many people are stubborn and do not know the way to go back on their word. Being restricted everywhere due to a momentary rash promise and wrong decision is a kind of foolish loyalty, a kind of short-sightedness, and something only a fool would do.

The biggest unfavorable commitment that restricts people from actively realizing their self-worth is to be kind to others and be a good person.

But Xiang Tianliang doesn't want to be that kind of good person.

As I grew up, the situation became clear. Xiang Tianliang understood that always listening to others and seeking their approval was not the most effective way to get ahead.

If you insist unreasonably on getting something that rightly belongs to you, others will not help you. Even if you can really maintain your rights, many people will try to intimidate you. They hope to make you inferior and discourage you, so that you will will not hinder their progress

The entire traditional culture uses education to force people to agree, mistakenly believing that promises must be kept. However, once they do not know how to go back on their promises and only make promises, they become a victim who cannot protect themselves, a proof that a good person can be deceived, and a deception. A victim of xing's promise.

Zhang Heng's face became serious.

As a leader, he still has some insight. He spoke to Tianliang but stopped talking. Zhang Heng knew that there must be a reason.

"Comrade Tianliang, no matter what the reason is, just tell me." Zhang Heng was very serious.

Xiang Tianliang was still hesitating, "Secretary Zhang, the reason for this is really hard to explain."

Chen Letian said: "At dawn, you speak out, and we will make the decision for you and solve it for you."

He shook his head towards Tianliang and stopped talking.

Going back on your word requires an excuse, and when you make a promise, you intentionally leave clues that can be used when you go back on your word, which will make the excuse more perfect. You might as well make some bold promises, but when making the promise, you must tell the other party about all the possible troubles that may arise. And the possibility that cannot be realized, that is, don't say something too absolute, so that people can be mentally prepared in advance and won't lose their trust in you excessively if it fails to be realized.

As the saying goes, when you meet people, you only need to speak three points of your life. There is another seven points of life that you don’t need to tell others. Maybe everyone thinks that a man is upright, honest, and can tell people everything. Why should he only say three points of his words? In fact, this is not the case. , In interpersonal communication, we should treat each other with sincerity. However, in order to achieve the state of sincerity between people, there must be a process. At each stage of this process, various appropriate communication methods need to be used. This is the only way to ensure the smooth completion of this process.

Xiang Tianliang wants to make this process longer and more complicated.

Some issues are unclear at the moment, and you need to further understand the truth, or look at the development of the situation and the changes in the surrounding situation, before you can come up with an opinion. And "vaguely expressing your position" can leave you with a basis for careful consideration and prudent decision-making. Otherwise, a gentleman's words will be hard to follow, which will not only affect his prestige and reputation, but also cause undue losses to his career and interpersonal relationships.

Of course, not everything requires a "vague statement". It is very wrong to be vague when a clear statement should be made. So, what problems do you encounter and under what circumstances should you use a "vague statement"? So what? How to grasp the appropriateness of "fuzzy"?

When the situation is unclear, it is appropriate to use "vague statements". The development and change of everything has a process, and some have to have a fairly long evolution process. When things are in the early stages of development and change, the substantive issues have not yet been revealed. This makes it difficult to judge whether it is good or bad, beautiful or ugly, pros and cons, winner or loser. At this time, you need to wait, observe, understand, and study. You must not act rashly or speak nonsense. If you are forced by the situation and have to express your opinion, it is best to Or use "fuzzy expression".

Sometimes, for things that you are not very sure about, you can make a flexible wish. If you are not very sure about the situation, you should be more flexible in your words so that there is room for expansion, such as using "do your best", " "Try your best", "as much as possible" and other words with greater flexibility. This kind of wish can leave you some room for maneuver, but it will generally leave doubts on the other party, and the effect of gaining the other party's trust is less effective. .

For problems that cannot be solved by yourself, you should make a wish with implicit preconditions. That is to say, if the promise you make cannot be completed by yourself and you have to seek help from others, then you can bring along with you when making a wish. certain restrictions.

There was some smoke filling the office.

Zhang Heng continued to ask: "At dawn, is the situation serious?"

"Yes, it's very serious. Mr. Zhu from Cathay Pacific Group got so angry on the phone that he dropped the phone."

Zhang Heng nodded, "Keep talking, keep talking."

Xiang Tianliang took off the recorder from his jacket pocket and said, "Three leaders, please listen to this recording first."

"...Yesterday afternoon, our director Xuan Haofeng called me over and asked me to bring someone to your Binhai County to help him handle something. I asked him what the matter was, and he told me that it was in response to the request of your county Public Security Bureau. At the invitation of Deputy Director Ma Liyuan, we collected relevant information about the county magistrate's assistant Xiang Tianliang, especially the intrigue between him and Cathay Pacific Group Company, and also the personal relationship between Xiang Tianliang and Mr. Zhu and Mr. Huang of Cathay Group Company... because Director Xuan Haofeng was kind to me, and I had to do the things he entrusted me with, so one of my subordinates and I came over quietly... Before I came to Binhai, Director Xuan even called me in front of me. Deputy Director Ma Liyuan and Director Xuan told Deputy Director Ma Liyuan that if something happened to me while I was in Binhai, Deputy Director Ma Liyuan would take full responsibility. After we arrived in Binhai, Deputy Director Ma Liyuan personally picked us up at the western suburbs of Chengguan Town. , Room No. 802, where I live, was also paid for by Deputy Director Ma Liyuan, and there is also a set of monitoring equipment, which Deputy Director Ma Liyuan personally sent..."

There was sudden silence in the office.

Zhang Heng's face was livid, "Who is this person?"

"Ren Jinhua, the captain of the plainclothes anti-pocket-pocket team of the Beicheng District Public Security Bureau, whose alias was Shi Tiesheng, lived in Room 8202 of the Binhai Building across from Mr. Zhu and Mr. Huang at the time."

"Where are the others now?"

"Considering the relationship between Binhai and Beicheng counties, Director Shao Sanhe of the County Public Security Bureau sent Ren Jinhua away."

Snap.

Zhang Heng slapped the table heavily, "How can this be unreasonable? What does this Ma Liyuan want to do? I'm afraid that the world will not be in chaos."

Chen Letian looked angry and glared at Li Zhang.

Li Zhang was a little embarrassed because Ma Liyuan was his.

You can even imagine with your heels that a small deputy director of the Public Security Bureau would dare to do such a thing without anyone instigating him from behind, even if he had ten more courages.

He put away the recorder and stood up to Tianliang. He was going to play tricks again.

The method of sudden control and repentance to capture the enemy's manipulation is suitable for the manipulator who can suppress the situation. Its beauty is to make the opponent perform to the best of his ability, underestimate the enemy's carelessness, misunderstand my indulgence as incompetence, and make others suffer from the opponent's Act excessively and ignore or tolerate the other party's liquidation and regret.

"Three leaders, this is the situation. It's up to you to decide. I have temporarily persuaded Mr. Zhu and Mr. Huang of Cathay Group Company. There is nothing else I can do."

Chen Letian said hurriedly: "Tianliang, don't worry, the county committee will handle this matter seriously."

"Three leaders, Mr. Zhu and Mr. Huang agreed to stay one more day...I'm leaving first."
Chapter completed!