Since I returned home, it was unreasonable to see the "parents" again. Nan came up with an idea and invited Liu Changgui, the town party secretary, and Ji Weiyi, the town mayor, to his home.

Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi each brought a lot of gifts. Xiang Tianliang didn't want to accept them, but when he thought it was his first time meeting, as the saying goes, it was polite and reasonable, and refused it unreasonable, Xiang Tianliang happily accepted it with a smile.

After receiving the gift, he expressed his intention to accept the gift-giver's kindness. This was the real beginning of the relationship. Nan Zuo accompanied him, and Shao Sanhe also stayed there. Nan smiled and said, "Secretary Liu, Mayor Ji, let's do whatever you want. You can't get drunk for a thousand cups at dawn. In terms of alcoholism, none of us is his opponent."

Liu Changgui smiled and said, "Then there must be a huge amount of assistant Xiang."

"Hey, don't listen to my brother-in-law. I don't like drinking a lot, and I really don't know how much I drink."

Shao Sanhe muttered in his heart when he heard it. Liu Changgui said a lot of things, but he hoped to move closer to Tianliang, but Xiang Tianliang welcomed and refused. He didn't know how much alcohol he could drink. It was really interesting. This was saying, I can tolerate people, how many people I could tolerate, and how big my size was.

Liu Changgui asked: "Assistant Xiang, when will you be free? Weiyi and I want to invite you to the town to inspect and guide the work."

Xiang Tianliang smiled and waved his hand, "Changgui, Weiyi, we will be inseparable from the future. I want to make three suggestions, but I wonder if it is possible?"

"To assistant, please tell me." Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi nodded at the same time.

"First, in the future, we will not be qualified for the position. Let's call you Changgui and Weiyi, and you will call me dawn. Second, when we get in and out, we don't carry things. You have to learn from Brother Sanhe. We have always had empty talk. Third, we have too many relatives and friends in Jinchuan Town. In the future, people will inevitably come to you for their business under my banner. I have something to say first. Unless it is said by myself, even if my sister and brother-in-law look for you, you can't do it."

Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi both hesitated slightly.

Shao Sanhe smiled and said, "Old Liu, Lao Ji, now you understand. When I was the director of Jinchuan Town Police Station, Tianliang had three rules with me like this. Therefore, if we want to sit together often in the future, these three must be abide by." Nan Xiao said, "Old Liu, if you don't call Tianliang and call your assistant, if you commit a foul, you will have to punish yourself three cups."

"I'll punish me, I'll punish me."

Liu Changgui smiled and drank three glasses of wine in succession.

Ji Weiyi stood up with a wine glass.

"Weiyi, you have something to sit down and say, sit down and say." Xiang Tianliang smiled and waved his hand.

Ji Weiyichong sat down again, "I have a statement. In order to abide by the three rules of the dawn, I will drink three cups by myself, and I will ask everyone to supervise me from now on." After that, I also drank three cups in a row.

It can be seen that there is really a sadness between Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi's eyebrows. At the same time, the two people's intention to show kindness to Tianliang is also fully expressed.

Observing the eyes and seeing the eyes has always been the specialty of Xiangtianliang.

However, Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi were anxious, but Xiang Tianliang was not anxious. He wanted to take a look again. Nan and started talking with Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi while drinking.

He was obedient and listened to the voice. Xiang Tianliang didn't say much. He was experiencing it carefully and experiencing the thoughts of Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi.

Invisibly, listening to Tianliang more and talking less is a huge psychological pressure to Liu Changgui and Ji Weiyi.

Many people are not good at measuring and evaluating their friends, and often choose places to protect them in the midst of crises, betrayed by others, or even put in the wrong way.

There are few examples of inaccurate in using the three touchstones of adversity, official position and interests to measure the hearts of friends.

Of course, this method is expensive, time-consuming, and has the disadvantage of being passive.

By relying on understanding the world and actively inferring people's hearts, it is not a real cost, but it is a general and difficult to control technology. This method is suspected of catching things. According to the situation of each person, errors often occur.

However, using pressure to infer people's hearts is unique. It uses frontal bombardment to destroy the opponent's psychological defense line. It is a frontal offensive type, reducing pressure and relaxing its guard, and it may also reveal its true colors. This method is suitable for powerful people.

In contrast, the meaning is a very clever behind-the-strike attack technique, and then you must select the right object to prove the consequences of bad things, that is, "the version of the gentleman who judges the heart of a villain."

Zhang Yang's opponents may not be sinister, and those who are difficult to deal with are evil people with weak appearances, because they are prone to inclination to plot against us due to negligence. Although weak people may not be strong in their hearts, they should be more careful about them.

Knowing people and faces, but you must be more intimate.

Xiang Tianliang recalled a story from "Aesop's Fable":

The deer was so thirsty that he came to a spring. When he was drinking water, he looked at his shadow in the water and saw his horns long and beautiful, and he was proud. However, when he saw his legs seem thin and weak, he was depressed. The deer was thinking about it. A lion came out to chase him. It turned around and ran away, pulling the lion down a long way. Because the power of the deer was on the legs and the power of the lion was in his heart. Therefore, on the empty plain, the deer kept running ahead and saved his life. However, when the deer arrived in the jungle area, its horns were tripped by the branches and could no longer run, so he was caught by the lion. When the deer was dying, he said to himself: "I am so unlucky. I thought that what would ruin me saved me, but what I trusted very much made me die."

By the same token, friends who were once suspected often become saviors, friends who were trusted often become rebellious. You should know that many people in the world have different feelings and different expressions, so it is difficult to see that. When you are proud, those who have many interactions can be called friends. Everyone can pay tribute to each other, cups and socialize, and take care of each other. However, if the storm suddenly occurs, disasters will come from the sky, such as if you are in a downfall due to the matter, or you are wronged, or you are unfair, or you are frustrated in your career, or you are plagued by illness.

If you have no power, you will be unlucky at this time, you will be unlucky. Even those friends who are smiling and close to each other will be severely tested. Their attitude and distance towards their friends will be clearly seen. At that time, snobs will retreat and hide far away, and those who are worried that their career will be set will draw a clear line. Friends who are not tempted by alcohol and meat will find another dinner because they are not tempted by alcohol and meat. Some people will even take advantage of others' dangers and step on others' shoulders to climb up.

Of course, there are also consistent people who continue to stand by your side, holding you a heart like gold, relying on your misfortunes and blessings, and sharing weal and woe. As the ancients said, "There is no longer a belief in your heart, and how can it be revealed in your heart?" The answer was that in times of distress, true friends, fake friends, intimate, ordinary, "iron buddies" and "speculators" are clearly distinguished.

Power, money and interests have always been touchstones for people's hearts. Some people feel that when they are ordinary soldiers, they still have a slight word, and they still have close siblings with their partners, and share joys and sorrows. Once their status rises, their tempers will rise, and their concept of making friends will change. They are ashamed to be with them in the past and keep a certain distance. For example, two comrades in the war years they shared joys and sorrows. Later, one left the army because of a general mistake and was in the "literary, reform"

In the middle, his history was regarded as a serious historical problem, and he was criticized by mistake. In order to clarify the problem, he went to his comrades-in-arms to prove his problem. However, this comrade who was a leader was afraid of implicating him and refused to see him, saying that he did not know him. The veteran shed tears sadly. It is obvious that this leader was too not a friend at a critical moment. What is the difference between this practice and taking advantage of the situation? In reality, the worst is the person who "only share the same woe and different sweetness".

In the face of interests, the souls of all kinds of people will be exposed nakedly. Some people can be called brothers and brothers when they are beneficial to themselves or have no benefits, but once they are harmed, they will be like changing individuals, forgetting their righteousness when they see profit, and making profits aside. All friendships and feelings are thrown behind them. For example, colleagues working together are laughing and making fun of each other and having a harmonious relationship. However, when the promotion is promoted, the quota is limited, and there are too many monks and less porridges, and some people's true faces are revealed. They no longer recognize their colleagues or friends, they speak out their strengths at the meeting, expose others' weaknesses, spread rumors and slander behind their backs, and move around, trying every means to pull others down and squeeze them up. The inner world of such people is fully exposed in the face of interests. After the incident, who dares to make friends with them?

Of course, the majority of people who are selfless and suffer losses are still valued by friendship. However, in the face of gains and losses, everyone will always appear, and everyone's heart will come out to perform in public, and they can't hide it even if they want to. Therefore, this is also a great time to recognize people's hearts.

In addition, time can also become truly fair judges. Some people can be called friends in a moment and a matter of time. After a long time of working together, they will have a deeper understanding of their character and character. "The road is far away and the road is long and the heart is seen." This is what it means. If you interact for a long time and observe for a long time, you will reach this state, and you will know your face and your heart.

Shao Sanhe interrupted Xiang Tianliang's thoughts.

"What are you thinking about at dawn?"

"I'm sorry, I'm sorry." Xiang Tianliang said with a smile, "I just remembered something and found it particularly interesting." Nan Xiao said, "What's interesting? Then tell me and let everyone share it."

Xiang Tianliang nodded, "Then I will talk about it?"
Chapter completed!