(Please remember

(Please remember that when those who want to be promoted need to offend others, they should offend them with confidence, not be afraid of offending others, but are afraid that no one can offend them.

Xiang Tianliang walked out of the office, went downstairs and walked out of the back door, and walked to the secretary building with his hands behind his back.

Tong Yizhen, full-time deputy secretary of the Political and Legal Affairs Committee, found that the door was covered in a false sense at the entrance of the stairs on the second floor.

When the door opened, the first thing that came was a scent of wine. I sucked into Tianliang's nose and couldn't help laughing.

"It's dawn, come in, I know it must be you."

"Haha... You old boy is the only one in the world to drink in the office."

Xiang Tianliang walked into the door, closed the door again, walked straight to the sofa and sat down.

On the desk, there was a bottle of Erguotou and a plate of peanuts, without a wine glass, a bottle of wine in one hand, and a peanut in the other hand, which was so cool.

Tong Yizhen smiled and took a few sips in the wine bottle, squinted his old eyes, and looked proud.

"Old boy, don't you invite me to have a few sips?"

"I think beautifully." Tong Yizhen shook her head, picked up the bottle cap and covered the bottle mouth, and quickly stuffed the bottle and the plate on the bookshelf behind her.

Tong Yizhen is also a "famous" person in the county party committee compound. His "famous" lies in his rare confusion and his courage to drink in the office.

In fact, Tong Yizhen was once a veteran in the Binhaijing world. He was even Wang Zaidao's superior. When Wang Zaidao was the deputy director, Tong Yizhen was the political commissar of the Public Security Bureau.

Tong Yizhen is very open-minded. In order to compete for the throne of director, Tong Yizhen and Wang Zaidao fought for two years. After losing, they willingly left the Public Security Bureau and came to the Political and Legal Committee.

The full-time deputy secretary of the Political and Legal Affairs Committee seems to have jobs and powers, but in fact he is a real cold bench.

Tong Yizhen himself is very open-minded. He is addicted to drinking and is idle. He often drinks a few sips in the office. The leader also opens his eyes and closes his eyes. Frustrated people are not careful about the details, and no one can do it too much. Being calculating.

After Wang Zaidao became the secretary of the Political and Legal Committee, he wanted to drive Tong Yizhen out of the Political and Legal Committee several times, but no leader agreed, so the two had to become "colleagues" again.

But Tong Yizhen didn't care about the matter anymore, and no longer fought with Wang Zaidao, becoming more and more "confused".

"It's rare to be confused" has always been praised as a clever way of dealing with the world. As long as you know how to pretend to be stupid, you are not a fool, but a wise man. Do not be arrogant and do not know how to forgive others. If you show off your strengths too much, you are easily jealous of your hatred. It is easy to make enemies, and the master is very good at making great achievements and causes death to the master. The most important skill in interacting with the leader is to "pretend to be stupid" in time, not show your own skill, and not correct the other party's mistakes.

In interpersonal communication, pretending to be stupid can cover up your shame and find a way out. You can pretend to be ignorant and retort. You can pretend to be stupid and not confuse your opponent. You must have good acting skills to be cute and "crazy" just right. Who doesn't Whoever knows the truth in the messenger will be fooled, and whoever can not understand the charm of being wise and foolish is the real fool.

"Old boy, are you drinking in the office and not even closing the door, aren't you afraid of your leader seeing it?"

"Haha, Secretary Zhang and I have agreed that as long as you drink in the office and don't go out to go crazy after drinking, no one will come to care about you."

"Oh, your old boy cow is even more awesome than Secretary Zhang."

"I am the most awesome, not as good as your Xiao Xiang?"

Xiang Tianliang asked with a smile: "Where are my cow?"

Tong Yizhen said happily: "I'm just drinking some wine, but you dare to hold on to the open fire and rob Wang Zaidao's position as director. You are a hundred times more awesome than me."

Xiang Tianliang shook his head and sighed, "Oh, please come now."

"What trouble?"

Xiang Tianliang talked about Zhou Hanrong coming to find him.

"Well, this is really a bit troublesome."

Xiang Tianliang asked again: "Please give me advice, brother."

Tong Yizhen pondered for a while, nodded and said, "You are really troublesome. First, Zhou Hanrong is the person of County Mayor Chen, or in other words, Zhou Hanrong is a dog of County Mayor Chen. Zhou Hanrong bites you, so there must be Chen County. The leader’s commander, 2. You are a city-level cadre, and Zhou Hanrong is the same. And you are all the key training targets, that is, you are all candidates for the next Standing Committee, and you are competitors. From this point of view, you and Zhou Hanrong will not become a friend, you have a strong opponent, 3. Secretary Zhang said he didn't know, it must be a lie. The Discipline Inspection Commission handles the case, the County Party Secretary will not be unaware of it, County Mayor Chen will not be so stupid that he dares to interfere in his affairs. What does it mean? It means that if you touch Wang Zaidao, Secretary Zhang and County Mayor Chen will not only be happy, but also work together to deal with you because you are too sharp."

Xiang Tianliang nodded constantly, "Old Tong, you have made sense, but you have made too much sense."

A typical example of being too sharp and causing trouble. In the old days, a minister was a great success. If you don’t show your strength, you may never get a heavy responsibility. If you show your strength, you will easily attract people to frame them. Although you can easily achieve temporary success, But at the same time, you have dug a grave for yourself. When you display your talents, you will also sow the seeds of crisis. Therefore, the talent should be revealed in due course.

In today's society, this principle is still the skill of interacting with leaders is to "deliberately pretend to be stupid", which means not showing off one's intelligence and not refuting what the other party said. In fact, it is very difficult to do this. You must have good acting skills, however, not everyone can be stupid just right. If you don’t master it just right, you will backfire.

"Old boy, I'm here to find you just want you to come up with an idea for me."

"How do you know I will help you?"

"Haha, I helped Shao Sanhe steal the throne of Wang Zaidao's director, which is equivalent to venting anger for you. Shouldn't you help me?"

"Haha, that's right."

"So, say it quickly."

Tong Yizhen thought for a while and said with a smile: "That's like me, drinking wine and pretending to be drunk."

"Ph, can I drink in the office?"

"I pretend to be drunk when I drink, you can pretend to be drunk without drinking. If you pretend to be drunk, you can pretend to be stupid. If you are drunk, you will definitely play drunken boxing. "

"Oh, I seem to understand a little."

The power of "drunk fist" lies in the fact that you "pretend to be drunk". On the surface, you stumble, fall down, stagger, and be unable to push. In fact, while drunk, there is murderous intention hidden in your drunkenness, just when you are careless , but he was hit by a "drunk" trick.

Real drunkenness and pretending to be drunk are two completely different situations. Fools and pretending to be fools are two completely different people. Those who play "drunk fist" are "drunk but not drunk", and "drunk" is "drunk" in " The empty place is to confuse the opponent, but the "fist" hits the "real" place, and the move is a fatal killer. Those who pretend to be foolish are "noisy but not foolish". "Follow" is "fool" in the minor matter , does not involve grand purpose, does not concern the overall situation, but "jing" is at the critical moment and is related to the fate of life.

Pretending to be drunk and boxing is a superior fighting technique, and pretending to be crazy and stupid is a first-class skill in human relationships. Those who can make others "buy" their own stupidity are the "greatest salesmen" in their lives. Their success has been unprecedented since ancient times. .

In the political turmoil, sometimes when danger is about to fall on one's own head, by pretending to be stupid, you can also achieve the goal of avoiding danger and protecting yourself.

Tong Yizhen said: "Xiao Xiang, those who know how to pretend to be fools are not fools. They appear honest and honest. Sometimes they are the most wisest ones. Many times, if you want to be respected by others, you must hide your intelligence. For example, Saying, one, turning a blind eye, two, making jokes, three, understanding the truth in absurdity, four, knowingly making humorous, five, answering the wrong questions, and so on, are all good solutions to deal with them. ”

"Well, it's interesting. Sometimes the clever details can cover up the true heart."

Tong Yizhen continued, "Also, pretending not to know, speaking is even more wonderful. The so-called pretending not to know means pretending not to hear or hear clearly about other people's words, so as to avoid the truth and make a sudden attack. The characteristic of the defense is that the sharpness of the debate is not mainly about what kind of information is transmitted, but through attacks, it can divert the opponent's interest in argument, which makes it impossible to continue to set up a difficult situation, and turns swords into jade and silk, and can embark on the invisible and without fighting. And this method is very useful to you."

Xiang Tianliang nodded, "Old boy, continue talking, keep talking."

Tong Yizhen smiled and said, "You are getting cheap now, and you will behave yourself next."

"Haha, I'll be good idea if I get a cheaper one."

Tong Yizhen said again: "Don't underestimate the trick of being good-looking. Being good-looking is the most wise move in human relationships. Everyone likes it, but wise people don't stop. Therefore, they are good at taking advantage of tricks and can even create illusions. They are like a wise magician. They are obviously asking for help, but they give people the feeling that they are giving kindness. They have no achievements, but they can make good use of both sides and make a big favour. ,In interpersonal relationships, there is a "cost". Using good-looking techniques can reduce costs or gain people's hearts without investment. You can act pitiful and win sympathy, or earn noble things with cheap praise, or reward a virtual title. Encouragement and motivation, or deepening the impression of celebrities and strong people, are all wonderful ways to act well. The ultimate skill of acting well is nothing more than this. It is obviously taking advantage or even killing people, but it gives people the feeling of They are giving kindness to others, and you don't let your own interests be revealed to others, but instead decorate them as the interests of others, making them seem to be helping others when they are benefiting... The old saying goes, sugar cane The key to being sweet at both ends. The key to catering to bilateral psychology is to take the initiative to indulge people's hearts, be good at grasping the psychology of both sides, and make the difference between the two ends. At the same time, you can pretend to be a victim so that Secretary Zhang and County Mayor Chen can I sympathize with you, so that you can escape the trouble in front of you.”

Xiang Tianliang stood up when he heard this, "Old boy, thank you."

"Hey, why are you going?"

"Haha, I'll go to Secretary Zhang and County Mayor Chen to behave like a good person."

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