Chapter Twenty(1/2)
Experts found in experiments that the fetus particularly likes to listen to the father's voice. The fastest update is that when the baby cries after birth, the mother often cannot calm it down, but the father can make the baby cry by singing familiar songs and stroking the baby.
Quiet down or fall asleep as soon as possible. This may be related to the fact that fetuses do not like high, sharp, and thin sounds, because such sounds often cause increased fetal movement, so fetuses tend to like low, generous sounds. So some psychologists proposed a
Extremely helpful advice, ask the father to speak to the fetus, creating the prerequisites for establishing a close, deep bond with the baby after birth.
The father speaking to the fetus is first of all a concrete expression of father's love. The fetus can feel not only maternal love but also the warmth of father's love through hearing and touch, which is of great benefit to the fetus' emotional development.
The father touching the fetus and talking to it is also a great psychological comfort to the mother. This kind of family happiness is the best atmosphere for gestating, raising and educating children.
Because of this, I did not refuse Yu Min's request today. Although I can't be with Yu Min often, and I won't be able to see this child often in the future, but for me, I must satisfy her on this matter.
Because I am the child's real father after all.
"Baby, stretch out your little hands and let daddy touch them. Where are your little feet? Can you step on them? Tick on them and let daddy have a look. Where is your big head? Does it have hair now? Mom often does it for you.
Eat walnuts and black sesame seeds, your hair must be black and shiny, right? Do you have any new skills today? Sniff, you know it. Then give it a gentle tap, but don't hurt your mother...
...." I put my ear against Yu Min's belly and talked to the child softly and softly.[
I am ashamed that I am speaking the relatively standard language used in prenatal education, because I don’t know what language I should use to express my inner feelings for this child.
The child seemed to understand what I said, and he started to move violently.
Yu Min exhaled softly and immediately laughed, "Brother Feng, look, this child knows that his father is here."
I immediately left her belly and stroked it with my hand, "This child will definitely be very beautiful in the future."
"What if it's a son?" Yu Min asked me with a smile.
"Children, the word beautiful can be used." I said with a smile.
At this moment, my phone suddenly rang loudly. I quickly made a silencing gesture to Yu Min, and then took out the phone.
It was a call from Lin Yi.
"Feng Xiao, where are you?" he asked me.
I suddenly felt panicked, but I tried my best to control my nervousness, "There's something going on outside."
"I'm downstairs at your house." He said.
I said without thinking, "I'll be right back."
He immediately hung up the phone, as if he knew I would answer this way.
"Is something wrong?" Yu Min asked me after seeing me hang up the phone. His eyes were full of disappointment.
I apologized: "My father-in-law is downstairs at my house."
She immediately panicked, "Well, then go back quickly."
"You should go back quickly. Yu Min, I don't think it's good for us to meet like this. You can come to our hospital for regular check-ups, so that I can see you more often." I said to her softly.
She didn't speak immediately, just looked at me. I was a little anxious and said, "I'm leaving first."
"Then, I will come to your hospital for check-ups from now on." She then said.[
When she said these words, I suddenly realized that what I just said was a bit cruel to her.
Now I suddenly remembered that she had been hospitalized twice in our department. In fact, to be precise, her two hospitalizations were a humiliation for her. So, I can be sure that she subconsciously
There is a strong reluctance to come to our department.
When she first started working on medical equipment in our hospital, she often went to my office. I now think that was a kind of frustration on her part. Faced with survival and humiliation, she could only choose the former.
And because of this, she has not been to my department for a long time recently, and may not have even been to the hospital. You know, her current office is right across from our hospital.
She once told me the reason why she didn't come to our hospital for a check-up, but I didn't think about it too much at the time. I just felt that what she said seemed to make some sense. However, at the moment when she hesitated just now, I seemed to
Everything is understood.
I was too careless about her. This is the fundamental reason why I didn’t understand this until now. Therefore, I feel very guilty in my heart.
So I said to her softly: "Yu Min, I'm sorry. I will try my best to make time to call you from now on. "Pure Text First Release" I will try my best to have more opportunities to be with you. As for which hospital you want to go to for examination, you
Decide for yourself.”
She started to cry.
I sighed, went over to hug her gently, and kissed the hair on her head, "Yu Min, why are you so stupid? You have to have this child."
She didn't speak, she just opened my door gently and said, "Let's go. Don't wait too long."
I saw Lin Yi's car downstairs at home, but he was not in the car.
"The chairman went upstairs." Xiao Li told me.
So I hurriedly ran towards the elevator.
Immediately after entering the house, I saw a warm scene: my son was playing with him on the sofa. Lin Yi was making all kinds of weird faces, and the child couldn't help but giggle.
When he saw me coming home, the child immediately became excited. He stretched out his two little hands and kept making noises at me. I picked up the child and handed it to the nanny. "You take it with me."
Children, go inside."
The child immediately stopped and started crying loudly.
"Just hold the child, don't let him cry." Lin Yi said to me, looking in the direction the child was leaving.
I shook my head, "You must have something important to talk to me about. Don't let the child here affect our conversation."
He sighed, "You just don't appreciate everything you have got. Well, let's talk about it."
So I asked him: "What happened?"
He looked at me and asked: "Feng Xiao, have you told Zhuang Qing that I plan to ask her to speak for me?"
It turned out to be this. I suddenly felt ashamed and said, "No. I haven't thought about how to tell her about this."[
"Are you busy lately?" he asked.
I shook my head, "Anyway, it's just those things. Every day's work is almost fixed."
"Then are you considering going to Beijing to meet Zhuang Qing and tell her about the matter?" he asked me.
I pondered for a moment before replying: "Well, I'll call her first and ask her."
He shook his head and said: "How can you explain some things clearly on the phone? Besides, she is no longer an ordinary person, so I think it is better for you to go there in person. This also shows respect for her. Don't you think so?"
"
I said: "What I mean is to call her first and ask her if she is free recently."
He then nodded and said: "That's true. Well, let's ask her first, but don't talk about specifics. Once she rejects you on the phone, you have no way out. If you talk to her in person, you can try to convince her. That way.
Well, you contact her first, and if you decide to go to Beijing, call me immediately. You can't go to Beijing empty-handed, right?"
I looked at him in surprise, "Do you still need to bring a gift? No need?"
He immediately laughed and said, "You decide on the gift yourself. But if you want to talk to her, you have to bring the text of our contract and show it to her first, right?"
"Contract text?" I was very puzzled.
"When you go to talk to her about this matter, you have to make a price first? Otherwise, how could you convince her so easily? She is not what she used to be now. Maybe it can't be solved simply by relying on the friendship between you and her.
It's a problem. Besides, your school still needs her to go back and give lectures and so on. I have discussed it with Principal Zhang. We should pay more here, and the school should not pay for it. This is right for her.
Zhuang Qing's influence is not good. This is a matter of killing two birds with one stone," he said.
I nodded, but suddenly thought of something, "The designs of your two projects haven't been released yet. Isn't this a little early?"
He shook his head, "It doesn't matter about the design. Just have a conceptual design first, which will be used as a promotional picture. I have thought about it. As long as she agrees to the endorsement, I will start laying the foundation for the project right away.
Preparation for the ceremony.”
"I'll ask. If she can spare time to see me, I will go to Beijing right away." I said.
"That project of the Peking Opera Troupe... oh! It would be great if nothing happens to Sun Lulu. By the way, have you visited her?" He sighed suddenly.
"I went there twice. The first time she didn't want to talk to me. The second time it was much better." I answered.
"What did you talk about? Haha! You don't have to answer my question." He asked me with a smile.
"We didn't talk about anything. I just advised her not to be too discouraged. She made a request to me and asked me to take good care of her mother. However, when I went to tell her mother about this matter, her mother refused. Old
My wife is the kind of person who doesn't want to trouble others." I sighed.
"Actually, the best way to take care of an old lady like that is to find something to do for her. Otherwise, she will get bored staying at home alone all day long," he said.
I almost said something about Sun Lulu’s mother going to worship Buddha, but I held it back immediately because I suddenly thought of what Tong Yao told me. I was worried that Lin Yi would continue to ask questions because of this. It was not because of anything else, but because I felt
I should keep my promise to Tong Yao. So I said: "But she is too old. It's hard to arrange what she can do. And I don't know what she can do."
He smiled slightly and said, "For example, let her open a canteen or something. Just sell some cigarettes, alcohol, and non-staple food. The store shouldn't be too big, so it will be easy. What do you think?"
I nodded, and then said worriedly: "Sales of tobacco and alcohol seem to require special procedures, right? What about national monopoly? Also, what will she do if she purchases goods in the future? Then there is the store. Where can I find a suitable one for a while?
?”
He smiled and said: "Other things are easy to handle. There is a store in the community where she lives, and the property rights are mine. She just doesn't need rent. I can send someone to handle the procedures for her. But what about the purchase of goods?
...I think this way, when the time comes, I will ask someone to take her to the wholesale market, and she will know how to do it from now on."
I suddenly became happy and said, "This is great. Where is the specific store in the community where she lives?"
To be continued...