After the decision was made, Fang Zhiqiang and Li Xiaoxiao took the little girl and walked towards Zhang Dayou's home.

The sky was gradually getting darker. On the country roads, the melted snow turned into water and mixed with the soil. Walking on the muddy road was a bit difficult.

Fang Zhiqiang took out his mobile phone and turned on the flashlight.

Li Xiaoxiao was chatting with a girl at this time, "Xiaoyun, that woman just said that to you, are you angry?"

"Don't be angry, sister, I'm used to it."

The girl smiled disapprovingly and spoke very calmly.

From her tone, Li Xiaoxiao could tell that she really didn't care anymore.

To be precise, when I saw her today, she seemed to be a completely different person from the last time. Li Xiaoxiao guessed that this might have something to do with her recommendation letter.

After all, she had endured the glares and insults from others all year round, and no one wanted to stand out more than she did.

Although she is a girl, Li Xiaoxiao knows that in her heart, she must especially want to be a respected person.

And now, she has finally realized her first step wish, which is at least enough to show that she can succeed! She has the qualifications to succeed! It is precisely because of this that all the humiliation the girl suffered in the past has turned into

Her motivation to move forward also allowed her to regain her self-confidence.

"Xiaoyun, my sister is telling you something from her heart. You must remember it well, okay?"

Li Xiaoxiao continued to speak seriously.

"Yeah! Sister, tell me!"

The girl nodded very happily.

"In fact, everyone has their own position and role in this world. For you before, although you were born in this ordinary village, you lived with your grandfather at such a young age and were able to

Grandpa takes care of you so well. At your age, he is already a very valuable existence. Many people are not as good as you!"

"So you can't feel that you are useless or inferior. Sometimes when they say something to you, you have to resist. Only by resisting can they realize that you are not so easy to bully!"

After Li Xiaoxiao finished speaking, he looked sideways at the girl. The girl suddenly became silent and the smile on her face disappeared.

Mentioning the past was like opening her scars again, and it was impossible for her not to feel pain.

"Xiaoyun, when one day you really succeed, you will look back at the past and you will find that it was just a joke! Moreover, it is precisely because of that experience that you have a heart.

We must be determined to succeed. Many times, we even have to thank ourselves for all the setbacks we have encountered before!”

After hearing this, the girl suddenly looked up at Li Xiaoxiao. Although she still did not speak, Li Xiaoxiao could see from her eyes that she had indeed listened.

"Actually, Xiaoyun, my sister used to be someone who was often criticized. You can ask your brother Fang. I was very stupid at that time and couldn't even ride a bicycle, so they all said I was stupid at that time, but I

I didn’t take it to heart. I didn’t know how to ride a bicycle because I had other advantages. Later, when I became better and better, naturally no one said I was stupid, and they even praised me!”

Li Xiaoxiao rubbed the girl's head, and the girl also smiled, and then asked seriously: "Sister, books often say that we should be tolerant of others, be courteous to others, and be a good and civilized boy, but sister,

In our village, everyone has not done this, and I found that even if I did it all, it would not make any difference. They would still look down on me and often scold me. Why is this?"

This passage made Li Xiaoxiao fall into deep thought for a while, because Li Xiaoxiao had never had such an experience. Even when he went to southern Yunnan at that time, the people he met were all simple and kind-hearted people. He had never had such an experience.

But Fang Zhiqiang has this experience.

"Xiaoyun, let my brother tell you this."

Fang Zhiqiang continued, "The world is a big place and there are all kinds of people. We can't ask others or change others, but we can become the kind of people we want to be."

"I gave you an example. In the village, if someone scolds you and you don't retaliate, they don't think you are tolerant of others. Instead, they think you are cowardly and spineless, because in their consciousness, you don't exist at all.

The word tolerance is because their cultural quality is far from your level."

"I know that when someone scolds you, it's not that you don't want to pay attention to the other person, you just feel that even if you reason with the other person, they won't listen, right?"

"Um!"

The girl nodded fiercely. She had tried it more than once or twice, and each time the solution was the same, so she didn't even explain the reason and chose to remain silent.

"Some people are unreasonable. If you try to reason with them, wouldn't it be like playing the piano to a cow?

For such people, what we have to do is to save our own energy, not to care about them, and not to waste time on them. And you have to know that your life is very long, and such people will not be around you for a long time.

When you get better and better in the future, the people around you will also get better and better, and gradually, those people in the small circle before will fade out of your sight."

"So, you must insist on being yourself and not be assimilated by them, otherwise, you will still be surrounded by that group of people in the future."

After Fang Zhiqiang finished speaking, the girl finally realized that her grandfather was a person with a low level of education and would not usually tell her so many great principles. Even if she wanted to hear it before, no one would tell her these things. Teacher

Not even able to speak.

After Fang Zhiqiang finished speaking, Li Xiaoxiao continued: "But Xiaoyun, I want to tell you one more thing, and you must remember it."

"Sister, tell me!"

The first question in the girl's mind has been solved.

"Sister asked you, are you proud that you are now a recommended student?

Proud?"

Li Xiaoxiao looked into the girl's eyes and asked.

"Of course I'm proud!"

The girl answered without hesitation.

"But sister wants to tell you, you can't be proud."

Li Xiaoxiao said with a serious expression.

Hearing this, the girl frowned in confusion, and the pride on her face gradually turned into confusion.

"Xiaoyun, you are just a recommended student from the university. It is far from being able to determine your future life. This is just the starting point of your life. Do you know?

So what you have to do at this time is not to be proud, but to study hard and ignore all the distracting thoughts around you. Those who scolded you in the past may come back to praise you and praise you again. You don't want these.

Pay attention to it, because these are stumbling blocks on your way to growth, and they will make you more and more proud, arrogant, and gradually lose yourself."

"Sister, I understand, don't worry, I will definitely stick to my heart and won't be arrogant!"

The girl knew what Li Xiaoxiao wanted to express, so she nodded very seriously and said.

"Well, no matter when the time comes, we must be a person who is neither arrogant nor impetuous. When we are nothing, we must know that there is only one ourselves in the world. If we can't even look down on ourselves, who else can

Do you think highly of yourself?"

"When we become successful, we need to know that our existence is to contribute to this society and to give the knowledge we have learned to facilitate others. We are not great people, we are just people who serve others. We only have

Only in this way can we truly be neither arrogant nor impetuous and be a successful person!"

After Li Xiaoxiao finished speaking, the three of them also arrived at Zhang Dayou's door.

The girl did not rush to open the door, but tightly held the hands of Li Xiaoxiao and Fang Zhiqiang.

She looked at Li Xiaoxiao seriously, and after pondering for a long time, she suddenly said in a sobbing tone: "Sister... thank you for saying such words to me today, otherwise, I may never hear such words in my life...

..." "Silly girl, your brothers and sisters will always be your brothers and sisters. If anything happens in the future, just call us. We welcome you at any time!"

Li Xiaoxiao gently took the girl into his arms and said softly.

"Yeah! Don't worry, I will remember your words and never forget them for the rest of my life!"

Xiaoyun snuggled into Li Xiaoxiao's arms and spoke word by word.

"Actually, brother and sister are still one thing. I want to discuss it with you. I don't know if you will agree."
Chapter completed!