But the problem is, I don’t dare. Because I don’t know if I can be happy with him. What I’m even more afraid of is that he won’t be happy with me. First of all, you should also know my family situation.

I have a son who is over five years old. Although Zhiqiang and I are both unmarried, I am getting married to Zhiqiang. In fact, this family can only be regarded as

Is it a combined family? Can a combined family be happy? Moreover, people outside have a lot of rumors about me. In addition, people in the world always have many misunderstandings about a woman who gets pregnant out of wedlock. In such a situation, how can he not ignore it?

Do you care? Secondly, there is an age gap between me and him. I am several years older than him. Of course, it may be several years.

The age difference is not a big problem, but as you can see, I am more mature than him, and there will still be some differences in personality between us. I am afraid that if we really live together, we will have a lot of friction.

Can I be happy at this time? Before, I didn’t have a sense of security. You know where the insecurity comes from, or did you advise him to do this?

Yes, I admit that the decisions he made recently really moved me and made me feel a lot more at ease. However, Liu Yan, when it comes time to decide whether to get married, many things and factors bother me, and I can’t make the decision.

Determination, I can't give myself an answer. Can you tell me the answer? Wang Yaxin asked Liu Yan.

I'm afraid that if I decide to get married on impulse, we won't be happy after getting married, mainly because he is unhappy. Wang Yaxin continued.

Liu Yan looked at Wang Yaxin and said after a long time: Sister Wang, do you know that there is a mental illness called premarital phobia?

Premarital phobia? Wang Yaxin was stunned, she didn’t expect Liu Yan to talk about this.

If you and Qiangzi are not allowed to get married, and the two of you are just allowed to be boyfriend and girlfriend, will you have so many worries? Think about it carefully, as far as I know, you and Qiangzi also had a relationship before.

We were getting along as boyfriend and girlfriend for a while. Did you have so many worries during that time? No, right? This shows that what troubles you is not the things between you two, but what troubles you is actually that.

A marriage certificate, or marriage. It’s not that you don’t have confidence in Qiangzi, but what you’re unsure about is actually about feelings and marriage.

.If I guess correctly, you must have been hurt emotionally or in marriage before, so you are afraid of marriage. I think this is related to the failure of your last relationship with the father of your child, and also to the last rape.

It has something to do with your wife abandoning you before marriage because she ran away regardless.

In fact, what you said about your uncertainty is more of a psychological effect on you and a mental disorder on your part. It has nothing to do with the minor problems that exist between you two in reality. The problems you mentioned are actually fundamentally different.

It is not a factor that affects your marriage.

Wang Yaxin was stunned when she heard Liu Yan's words. She didn't say anything for a long time. She was a little shocked because she had never thought about it this way. Maybe this is the so-called "the authorities are obsessed with the beholder".

Sister Wang, there is no problem between you two that you cannot be together. The only problem is your own psychological barrier, which is just your doubt and fear about marriage. Sister Wang, I feel that if you have always been

This is so unfair to Qiangzi. He is working for you wholeheartedly now.

My whole heart is on you, waiting for your answer. But you have never given him a clear answer. You have always made him wait and suffer without a deadline. I don’t think this is good for him.

That's fair. What do you think? Liu Yan spoke again. She still spoke very straightforwardly and did not mince words at all.

Wang Yaxin lowered her head, nodded at last, and said: Yes, it is indeed my business. I asked him to wait for a reply from me, and it took more than a month, but I still didn't give him a reply.

Sister Wang, let me tell you the truth. I think you should overcome your psychological barriers and hold hands with Hadron. People who are too rational sometimes appear timid. In life, we need reason, but in relationships, we need to be rational.

First, I think reason is a very weak thing. Emotion is originally an emotion and should be emotional. If you are so rational about feelings, then why do you need feelings? What is the meaning of feelings? Liu Yan said.

Wang Yaxin looked at Liu Yan blankly. Liu Yan's words shocked her a lot. She had never thought about many things before. Just like Liu Yan said, feelings are inherently feelings and a perceptual situation.

, if you are so rational in dealing with emotional matters, why do you need emotions? Wang Yaxin seems to finally know why she is always so entangled and troubled when she is with Fang Zhiqiang, it is because she is too rational.

.When it comes to relationships, you should just follow your feelings regardless of your own safety.

After listening to Liu Yan's words, she seemed to suddenly have the feeling of seeing the sun through the clouds, and her mood suddenly became more open-minded.

Liu Yan, thank you. Wang Yaxin looked at Liu Yan and said with a smile.

Hi, why are you thanking me? I'm just talking nonsense. I just really hope you two can be happy. Seeing you two like this now, I'm very anxious. The main thing is that once you marry Qiangzi, it's your turn to take care of him.

, it’s not like now, where it’s like I’m his wife, and I’m here to take care of him every day. Look, I’m responsible for food and drink, including his upstairs hygiene. I’m doing all this for you.

I will take care of him for you. Liu Yan said with a smile.

Wang Yaxin also laughed.

What are you two talking about? You are laughing so happily. At this time, Fang Zhiqiang walked in carrying a cake and several bottles of red wine.

It’s nothing, I didn’t talk about you anyway. Liu Yandao.

I don’t believe it. I can feel it from the obscene laughter of the two of you. You are definitely talking bad about me and embarrassing me. Fang Zhiqiang said while opening the red wine.

Wang Yaxin took apart the cake and put in the candles. Liu Yan took a lighter from Fang Zhiqiang and lit the candles.

Zhiqiang, make a wish. Wang Yaxin said to Fang Zhiqiang.

Fang Zhiqiang smiled, closed his eyes and prepared to make a wish.

Open your eyes, you must speak out. Liu Yan coaxed.

How can one say a wish? It won’t work if he says it. Fang Zhiqiang glared at Liu Yan.

Who said it won't work if you say it out loud? You have to say it before others will know. Liu Yan blinked at Fang Zhiqiang as she spoke.

Liu Yan meant for Fang Zhiqiang to take advantage of this opportunity to propose to Wang Yaxin. She had just helped Fang Zhiqiang do all the preliminary preparations and paving the way. But Fang Zhiqiang obviously did not appreciate Liu Yan's kindness.
Chapter completed!