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But if we put it simply, these trivial and troublesome things are actually just two words to deal with:

accompany.

Grandma Chen looked at the home and in the community, and many young people got married and had children. Although she didn't understand the ideas of the young people and couldn't understand many popular words they said, she could see clearly that young people nowadays were in love, and they seemed to be talking about love words on their mouths, describing love, touching themselves or their partner...

But when this love comes to each other's lives, the communication between the two families, and even the married life will be a mess.

In fact, most young men and women are very sweet when they fall in love or even get married... A mess naturally cannot describe this. This mess is not the sweet life of the two after marriage, but the time when they are in trouble, such as having children, such as conflicts between the two families that need to compromise or give in, which is the moment to witness true love!

Love is never like this at that moment.

Ability is one thing. Only by breaking through many contradictions and difficulties with attitude and actions can we reach the most perfect state of love—

You can ask someone, but please accompany you.

This kind of companionship does not mean that a man must stay by his wife every day...

Men need careers, and a family also needs a career. But when they return home after work, many men often do what they can perfunctory at this time, escape when they can, and do what they can do if they can do... In their opinion, this is because they are tired of working day, want to take a rest, sit and browse their phones and play games. Anyway, don’t I ask someone to serve you?

The next day, after the morning practice class, I saw my wife sitting at the desk again and turning on the computer to write and calculate. Well, although the institute did not send her work tasks, she knew some of the current work projects of the institute, especially the part that required mathematical operations, which she would help do...

If a man can feel the peaceful and peaceful happiness from such a life, then congratulations...

Why don’t I love you anymore?!

In the previous situation, as long as the husband realizes that this is a matter of attitude, and he doesn’t even have to do any housework, he just needs to give some careful companionship and care-

You still have love.

In this regard, Wu Jiangtao felt like shooting himself in the foot...

Both of these-

It’s just that the marriage that can’t afford to experience various details of life after marriage and trivial tests that lead to love is a self-comfort and excuse for the incompetent person who is unable to love at this critical moment.

It is the primary manifestation of depression. No matter who is prenatal or postpartum, mothers will have depression symptoms, such as being taciturn, unable to eat, unable to sleep well, fear and anxiety about giving birth before giving birth, and after giving birth, they will lose their temper, feel guilty, and even be at a loss in taking care of the baby, losing confidence, etc.

In the end, it directly evolved into a meaningless quarrel like "you are unreasonable" or "whether you love me", and it is normal to part in a bad mood.

Maybe someone is going to say again, how can I accompany me if I want to work?!

OK, it’s right for you to work, it’s right for you to concentrate and not be distracted at work, but there’s always a break to have a cup of coffee and a lunch break, right?

At these times, I didn’t think that my wife, who was in confinement at home, didn’t sleep much. Is there any rest today? Can I eat the food during the day? What’s the appetite?!

In response to this, her mentor, Professor Lu Huixin, also said that she had a few times, but she still did it.

In the eyes of a wife who is pregnant or just given birth, she cannot feel care. The most important thing is that the hormone changes in the mother's body from pregnancy to postpartum are like roller coasters. At this time, her temper is mostly very bad, so she will naturally make noises with her husband.

This is not a simple greeting, nor a formal concern. But in today's society, many husbands can only do this in order to support their families...

Don’t I care about whether you slept well or did you sleep well today?

Didn’t I just ask how the baby is doing, but didn’t ask you how you feel today?

Do you have the most? I'll ask you, are you the most?!

Even if you don’t care, through such communication, the wife at home can see her husband running outside sweating and tired, and her tired look still working hard can also give her a lot of energy from afar.

And these...

Wu Jiangtao is quite lucky to have passed these levels one by one in less than half a year. Of course, the most important thing is that Chen Jun...

Just like now, even when the baby is going home during the day, as long as she sleeps, she must turn around and sit at her desk or computer, and start doing some work at the institute.

If the love in the past only requires hormones and dopamine, then what love in this period needs more is to work hard to live out a taste in every detail and every triviality in life.

Unlike ordinary girls.

No big problem!

Let’s call Weixin to go back to see her, even if you send a Weixin message, what if you ask? There will always be a few minutes, right?!

And the latter-

In the institute, she is one of the best in pure mathematics, and she is much more efficient than others.

The so-called marriage is the grave of love...

If you encounter this situation, unless the husband wants the family to be separated directly, he will take leave or even quit his job and return to the family. It is the best way to accompany his wife to actively treat him.

...

The big problem is that the wife is always depressed before or after giving birth, and even when facing her husband, the mother-in-law will force her to smile. This kind of behavior requires the husband to pay special attention.

But the key is that this manifestation...

In the man's opinion, aren't you just making trouble?

Wu Jiangtao did not stop this at the beginning because her mood fluctuated greatly in the months after giving birth, and she had to sit at the desk in the room and settle down.

What many husbands don't know is that their wives are still willing to quarrel with them, which means-

The project information brought by Li Xiaoshan from the research institute played a role in stabilizing her emotions, which made them less emotional collisions and conflicts.

To a certain extent, this inadvertently promoted the harmonious and stable development of the two people's relationship. Well, a good friend didn't know that he was a mother-in-law once.

Of course, things are changing and developing, just like now this thing has become a "hindrance" for the two of them to get along with each other in sweet ways. Of course, the obstacle is only relative to Wu Jiangtao. Chen Jun had just given a sweet kiss, and then turned around to work...

Well, this is a report.

But for someone, this is not a report, it is ignition!
Chapter completed!