【1958】Don't be afraid
Hearing that he was going to the hospital, Hu Zhifan changed his attitude: "In fact, I still have something to do in the afternoon and need to go back to the municipal bureau."
A group of doctors sat here and understood everything.
This patient is a typical ban on medical treatment.
It is the most difficult to manage such patients. As a policeman, it is impossible for Hu Zhifan to say that he is afraid of death. He is not afraid at all when fighting with criminals. However, he is really afraid of seeing a doctor.
How terrible the disease is to humans? It can be described as an enemy inside your body. You cannot exert force, but the other party can directly destroy your body and mind.
"Was Brother Hu afraid of seeing a doctor when he was a child?" Xie Wanying asked in a voice.
Ah? Hu Zhifan was stunned when he heard her question.
Many adult behaviors are closely related to childhood education. Like Xie Wanying, she is not afraid, which is very related to her mother's education when she was a child.
Many children can smell the stimulating disinfectant water when they walk through the hospital and can see the dazzling white water that can be seen. These external stimuli give people a feeling of discomfort, which can be said to have planted the seeds of fear of hospital doctors in the hearts of children.
Sun Rongfang educated her daughter that the white white hospital is as white as the white walls at home. The doctor's white coat can also be worn by her daughter. Since Sun Rongfang went to the countryside to study medicine, she bought one of the stethoscopes at home and kept it for her daughter to play with. As for the disinfectant in the hospital, Sun Rongfang bought almost the same disinfectant outside and sprinkled it in her own toilet regularly.
After getting used to these things, let your daughter realize that the hospital is the same as at home, and that the daughter cannot have a view that the hospital doctor is from another world. The reason why most people are afraid of hospital doctors is that they subconsciously equate hospital doctors with diseases.
If you see the hospital, you will only think that you will be tortured to death by the disease, and you will not be afraid.
"Brother Hu, you can think about this issue seriously. What are you afraid of?" Xie Wanying said, "Maybe, you can also talk about the process of going to the hospital when you were a child to release your emotions."
When I was a child, Hu Zhifan's face showed a dull look. Maybe it was too long to remember, or maybe it was too scary, but I can't tell the reason.
The development of pediatrics in China is relatively outdated. They only focus on treating diseases and forget to respect and pay attention to the psychological state of children. Education in this regard is completely absent in children's education. Most of the research on child psychology quotes foreign experimental data in China. The survey projects they have done are too superficial and not in-depth. In a word, there is no funding to study these things that seem to be not related to life except for treating diseases. Another deep reason is that the people of the country have no money and can only spend money on the edge.
Parents are only anxious to cure their children's illness and cannot take into account the feelings of their children. Children are not able to express themselves, and they cannot tell their deep fear to adults.
Domestic pediatricians and pediatric nurses are busy becoming dogs and it is impossible to have time to take care of the psychological needs of each child alone.
Xie Wanying thought of Teacher Nie. Teacher Nie came from abroad differently. She believed that treating children was a matter that affected children's long-term life. No matter what, the speed of treating patients would not be added because they could not finish seeing the patient.
Chapter completed!