When the authoritative personality is successfully established, you can enter the topic.

Because at this time, all those who accept your settings will automatically follow your rhythm.

"Return to our today's theme, the correlation between family environment and education." Wang Shifeng spoke again, and the parents subconsciously sat upright and listened carefully.

"In the investigation report, there is a special family, with both parents with disabilities, and the mother has a level 2 hearing. Even if she relies on hearing aids, it is difficult to hear sounds. The father is more serious and belongs to the standard deaf and mute. However, it is such a family that has cultivated a child with extremely high chemistry talent. When this child was eight years old, he was able to write 118 chemical element tables. When he grew up, he was admitted to several universities with excellent grades."

In an instant, there was a sound of marvel and air conditioning in the venue.

Can you write 118 elements at the age of eight?

Thank God for my family to be eight years old, I can count to 118!

Is this the difference in IQ?

However, more parents realize the key. This is a disabled family. It is estimated that daily communication is difficult. How can we raise such excellent children?

"Everyone must be very curious about how such a family cultivates an excellent child. Is it a real genius gene? In fact, it is not that the child's IQ belongs to the average line, not that kind of special genius. His chemical talent was discovered because of one reason, parents' listening." Wang Shifeng said in a deep voice.

Parents' listening?

The audience was solemn again.

"Because of listening, the mother of the child has learned how to listen carefully to others' voices from an early age. Over time, he has developed the habit of listening. Therefore, during the period of intellectual development, that is, the "talkboss period" of all children, this mother will listen carefully and give praise and answers, no matter what the child says.

The father is the same. Every day after get off work, he will squeeze out time to listen to the children’s retelling the knowledge they have learned, and then answer the questions. The silent listening and praise of parents greatly increases the child’s self-confidence and learning pleasure, so it triggers the child’s chemistry talent at the age of seven.

In this kind of listening and praise environment, it will stimulate children's various curiosity and learning abilities, and will also establish self-confidence and adaptability for children from an early age, which will have an absolute impact on future personality formation.

Parents here can recall when the last time they heard their children talk for more than half an hour." Wang Shifeng's tone was gentle, but he asked a fatal question.

I immediately felt that many parents present subconsciously lowered their heads.

I can recall the last time I listened to my child carefully. I probably learned that after I failed the exam, the men and women mixed doubles, and I heard him shouting for half an hour to help him.

I feel ashamed!

In an instant, an indescribable sense of guilt began to permeate the parents' hearts.

Most parents seem to be unilaterally scolding and harsh on their children. Not to mention listening to their children’s words, the two sides communicate normally, and it seems that they have not been there for a long time.

"According to the law of conservation of energy, energy will not appear out of thin air or disappear out of thin air. When everyone hopes that their children will become a dragon, many of the efforts will become another way to give back.

When I was a child, I often heard parents say that how much I have paid for you and I. This kind of words is actually an invisible pressure. It is difficult for children to digest after listening to it, and it will have an impact subtly. But if parents listen and encourage more, it seems to have another effect." Wang Shifeng sighed softly.

The parents looked ashamed, but they also had different opinions.

A male parent stood up and raised his hand and shouted, "Teacher Wang, I have something to say."

Wang Shifeng didn't expect that a parent would interact with him, and was a little surprised.

I communicated with Principal Hu and asked someone to hand over the microphone.

After the parent got the microphone, he began to complain, "Teacher Wang, it's not that we don't want to listen to the children, but we are exhausted from get off work every day. If that little bastard says a lot of bad things, then I will definitely not be able to suppress the fire, it's just an education.

If we talk about some learning problems, it will be even more difficult for us. Although my wife and I graduated from high school, we have already returned the things we learned to teachers. It was okay when we were in elementary school, but we could barely provide tutoring. When we were in junior high school, I couldn’t even understand the question, and I couldn’t find the answer on Baidu. If we couldn’t answer, we would just turn our eyes away. It would be difficult for us to be parents."

After the parent said this, it instantly gained great recognition from other parents.

I have the will but not the strength.

"What do you call this parent?" Wang Shifeng asked with a smile.

"My surname is Zhao." After vomiting bitterness, the parents seemed to be feeling a little better.

"Mr. Zhao's question is the question I want to share today. How should parents communicate with their children. The example I mentioned before is to hope that everyone knows that the impact of the family environment on children is absolutely and must not be ignored. As for communication, that is another problem. Mr. Zhao, do you communicate with your children more now?" Wang Shifeng asked slowly.

Upon hearing this, Mr. Zhao sighed, "Maybe it is similar to what Teacher Wang said. We usually discipline him more, which puts pressure on him. In addition, in the past two years of adolescence,

The little bastard not only had poor academic performance, but his temper became stronger and stronger. Now when he came home, he went back to his room without even saying hello, locked the door, let alone communicate, and couldn't say a few words a day. When he saw us, he looked cold, as if he saw an enemy.

You said that we worked hard all our lives, but we were not for him? It was obviously not like this when we were young, so why did he become ignorant as he grew up?" Parent Zhao sighed, and he could hear the sadness and sadness in his tone.

After all, no one wants to get along with their children like this.

From the reactions of parents on the scene, we can see that this is the norm for most families in Xia Country.

"Mr. Zhao, I can understand your mood, but have you ever thought about another possibility?" Wang Shifeng said softly, and his tone was soft. "You also said before. He was not like this when he was a child. It sounds like, the children still talked to you a lot when they were a child."

Parent Zhao's face stagnated and nodded, "Before he went to junior high school, he was still very lively. He would tell us about school every day and occasionally act coquettishly, but after he went to junior high school, he became adolescent."

"Parent Zhao, this may not be just a problem of adolescence." Wang Shifeng chuckled. The characteristic of President Xia is that he is prone to pushing the child's disobedient blame on his puberty. "I stand from another perspective and analyze it for you."

Parent Zhao was a little puzzled. What could he analyze, but he nodded.

"When you were a child, when you came home, your child greeted you with a smile and shared the interesting things that happened in school today. But you were tired for a day and didn't want to listen to these, so you told him, Dad was tired for a day at work, can't you tell me? Can you let me rest quietly for a while?

The child looked at you with impatient face, and his joy finally turned into grievances. He returned to his room alone, reflecting on what he had done wrong." Wang Shifeng's voice was not too emotional, but it incited all parents to tears.

In an instant, similar images appeared in their minds.

It’s not how good Wang Shifeng’s description is, but because this picture has actually happened in their lives, and it has been more than once.

In an instant, guilt and permeation occupied the high ground again.

Parent Zhao stood there with his eyes straight, subconsciously clenching the microphone in his hand.

"Later, when you came home, the child saw that you were exhausted, and he didn't dare to say anything more, for fear of affecting your rest, so he quietly returned to the room. When you saw that he didn't even say hello, you suddenly became angry and scolded him for being more and more rude. If you didn't study well, you didn't understand anything. You were simply ungrateful.

You are venting your dissatisfaction outside, but you ignore the child's back against the door, wiping his tears in grievance, reflecting on what he has done wrong again." Wang Shifeng's calm voice told the story echoed in the venue.

The sound pierced into the hearts of parents like a knife, making them feel like they were stuck in their throats.

"Because he never understood, he wanted to share his daily life and not disturb his parents, what did he do wrong? This question made the child become more and more taciturn. He began to tiptoe at home, pretending to be a transparent person and try not to disturb you to rest. You scolded him for being ignorant, and hoped that he could be motivated,

He was doing homework in the room, and you called him to have a meal. He looked at the homework and wanted to finish it in a few minutes. However, just two minutes later, you pushed the door and scolded in a bad tone, "Can you hear me when you ask me to eat?" At this time, you knew that you had worked hard, so why did you go? The whole family was waiting for you to have dinner alone?"

The child was stunned by being scolded, looking at the homework in front of him, and didn't know what he did wrong in doing his homework.

Later, when you ask him to have a meal, he will always put down what he has done to the dining table as soon as possible. You are sarcastic and sarcastic. When you hear that you are active when you eat, why don’t you be active when you study?

The child held the chopsticks in his hand tightly, not knowing what he did wrong when he was eating.

The atmosphere at the dinner table was depressing. The occasional sighs of your wife made the child feel suffocated. He could only speed up the rice and didn't even have time to eat the food. He was ready to escape from this depressing atmosphere. But as soon as he got together, you criticized again, leaving after eating, without any politeness, and you didn't know how to clean up the dishes and chopsticks for your mother. Your mother has been serving you all day. She has not learned anything good at studying, and isn't sensible?

This made the child clean up the dishes in silence. When he helped his mother wash the dishes, he heard the mother sigh and say, "Housework is all small matters, just study hard, and the whole family expects you to be successful. If you don't study hard, you can only wash dishes for others in the future."

The child looked at the bowls and chopsticks in the pool and was completely confused.

He suddenly realized that he seemed to be wrong in everything he did."

The more plain Wang Shifeng's tone and softer his voice, the more suffocating the stories he tells.

None of the parents present expected that Wang Shifeng actually changed the "daily" performance of a child at home from a different perspective, and it actually described it so desperate.

Almost all parents have been substituted.

Because these stories contain the shadow of their family.

At the end of each paragraph, five consecutive "what did it wrong?" directly made parents start to reflect on who did it wrong.

So, have you done such a terrible thing to your children?

Some emotional female parents burst into tears, while male parents looked solemn, as if they were reflecting.

Parent Zhao had already lowered his head silently and stared at the ground blankly, as if in a daze.

Wang Shifeng stopped talking, and the huge venue seemed to be covered with a layer of haze.

The teachers in the first row had different expressions, with deep feelings for children, while the teachers without children admired Wang Shifeng very much.

Isn’t it meant to promote educational concepts?

Why did you just cry about these parents?

What kind of monster is this guy?

Zhen Yi, who was in charge of the accompaniment, was even more confused. Wang Shifeng had told her before that the music must be played in an appropriate mood, but before the music was played, why did he cry?

"But, we came here like this when we were young. Isn't it okay now?" Parent Zhao murmured unconsciously from the microphone.

"So, you also hope that your child will live like you in the future?" Wang Shifeng raised his eyes, his tone with indifference.

In an instant, it seemed as if thunder was shattering, and everyone looked up in shock.

Let the child live his own way?

The invisible fear and unspeakable lingering fear made parents feel cold.

Yes, aren’t we forcing our children to study hard just to prevent them from following our old path?

We have lived like this in our lives. Should we let my children live like this?

Then what's the point of working hard all my life?!

As if she had lifted the last fig leaf, everyone looked at the bloody truth!

"No..." It seemed like something choked in his throat. Parent Zhao swallowed it with difficulty and made a little panic and trembling sound.

It seemed as if I had spoken my heart for most parents, and the crowd suddenly became excited and the scene was noisy.

However, what was more excited than the parents was Jiang Xiaofan sitting in the corner of the front row.

Originally, he was full of resentment when he was caught by Jiang Yun today. Because Jiang Yun was not intimidated, he could only have resentment towards the culprit Wang Shifeng.

But after hearing this, he suddenly felt like he was injected with chicken blood and followed him to cheer, "Well said!"

"What a fuck!" Jiang Yun frowned and glared at him.

"Sister! Listen carefully to what others say. Parents' expectations may not be correct. They will make us live like them!" Jiang Xiaofan argued righteously.

"Come on, what have you experienced the stories he told? You don't have that kind of parents, and your family environment is different. Don't cry here when you cats and rats." Jiang Yun rolled his eyes on Jiang Xiaofan.

"But I have a worse sister." Jiang Xiaofan muttered in a low voice.

"What are you muttering?" Jiang Yun frowned.

"It's okay, I said you are really good at being a artist, unlike the rumors on the Internet that you are a little white-faced." Jiang Xiaofan had a flattering smile on his face, but he decided in his heart that he must ask Wang Shifeng for advice later.

How to make bad parents change their past mistakes!
Chapter completed!