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Chapter 85 Life Advice(1/2)

Colleges generally do not submit repetitions, and colleges usually repeat grades.

"Just kidding, you can actually pay attention to your college degree." Wang Shifeng smiled.

"What should I pay attention to?" Yuanyuan was puzzled.

"Be careful, remember to attend class." Wang Shifeng's tone was solemn.

???

Is Teacher Wang playing tricks with us again?

"Don't be busy refuting it first? If you have been to college, you will ask yourself, how many people can attend classes on time rely on their own classes to get full attendance." Wang Shifeng asked.

Suddenly, most of the audience stopped.

Hehe, what Teacher Wang said makes sense. In the four years of college, most people sleep in a daze for three years. They only go to one person to sign in each dormitory for class. Some of them cannot recognize teachers and classmates for three years.

When I was in the fourth year, I suddenly woke up.

Oh, I don’t have enough credits to graduate and I can’t graduate anymore!

"Also, if your roommate asks you to help him bring food, it's best to refuse it the first time." Wang Shifeng said again.

"Why? My mother said that she had to get along with her roommates when she went to college, and if she needed help if she had something to do," Yuanyuan was stunned.

"If you don't help bringing food, you won't be friends with you. When something happens to you, you probably won't be able to help you." Wang Shifeng smiled. "And as long as you promise him the first time, you will have a second time, and you will even have to help him bring food for four years in college. Experience the fun of the deliveryman in advance. And as long as you reject him once, there may be a small group in your dormitory."

After hearing what Wang Shifeng said, although Yuanyuan couldn't fully understand, she seemed to understand, "Why did Teacher Wang politely reject others? After all, she was a roommate who had to live together for four years."

"Rejection is a very difficult thing, especially for girls to get along with each other. Eight groups in one dormitory are routine, so I suggest you in advance not to regard social interaction as the main course of university. Although social interaction is very important, the social methods of university have no effect in society." Wang Shifeng first gave a preventive injection.

"Everyone knows me. If I refuse others, I will definitely refuse clearly. So I was not very popular when I was in school. However, I have a few friends who have some tips on rejecting people, so I can share them with you."

Fans and viewers have long seen your rejection method. Fang Weimin is still lying in the hospital and has not come out.

But they don’t believe that Wang Shifeng has a bad reputation.

If you have bad popularity, how can you have so many friends?

"I have a friend who rejects others with two tricks. One is called the drag-on technique, also called the slow-down strategy, and the second is called the value exchange, which is to point out the mulberry and scold the locust." Wang Shifeng said.

"Teacher Wang said slow down! I'll take some notes!" Yuanyuan said in a panic.

"No hurry, I'll say it slowly." Wang Shifeng said softly, "The first trick is to drag it out. For example, if you are afraid of directly refusing to offend the other party, then you say that you may not go back to the dormitory today or don't know what time to come back, and are afraid of delaying her meal. This will be reasonable, because eating is very anxious and most people can't wait."

Indeed, dry rice is very important.

"This trick is good, but it seems that you can only use it once. Will it be embarrassing to expose it if you use it too much?" Yuanyuan said in confusion.

"It must be embarrassing." Wang Shifeng smiled, "So you are not embarrassed at all, she is the one who is embarrassed like this."

The audience said in a barrage, yes, Teacher Wang has taught me many times.

"Okay." Yuanyuan hesitated a little, "What about the second one?"

"The second move is value exchange. First of all, you have to know that everyone is equal in this world, and no one needs unconditional contributions, and it is even more so among friends and classmates. If your friend keeps making some demands that make you feel embarrassed and embarrassed, you have to reflect on whether he really treats you as a friend." Wang Shifeng said slowly.

"For example, if you ask you to bring your meals, you can say that I can bring your meals for you, but you will have to sign in for me tomorrow. In this way, the unilateral requirement will become a transaction between both parties."

"Will this make people feel petty?" Yuanyuan said in a worried tone.

"Ms. Yuanyuan, it is not that you will be praised if you give your money. People who are biased against you will feel that even your breathing is wrong. As for why the other party is biased against you, you don't need to find problems from yourself, because this must be his problem." Wang Shifeng chuckled.

"Yes, is this really the case? Then how can you make friends?" Yuanyuan asked.

"Friends do not relied on social means to interact. Social means are just ways to maintain them. But making friends is attracted to each other by resonance." Wang Shifeng sighed quietly.

"And as you grow and experience, your requirements for your friends will change, and many friends who cannot keep up with you or who have different values ​​will gradually get farther and farther away."

"Ah?" Yuanyuan's voice was a little trembling. She had just entered university and still had many ideas about small social cognitions. Wang Shifeng's words subverted many of her cognitions.

Why do you feel that everything becomes complicated after going to college?

There are also many objections to the barrage.

Some people think that Wang Shifeng's statement is wrong, so friends should be bothered and should not be linked to interests.

But they always forget Wang Shifeng's premise.

How could a true friend be willing to let you get into trouble?

Wang Shifeng didn't explain much, but said lightly, "There are more than 80 billion people in this world, and everyone seems to be walking in the crowd. If you walk far away from me, you will be closer to other people. This may not be a good thing.

Just like a childhood playmate, like a childhood clothes. When you grow up, you are not willing to wear them, but you are helpless."

After Wang Shifeng finished speaking, the atmosphere in the live broadcast room suddenly became deeper.

Many times abstract truths are difficult to convince people.

But specific examples can be.

‘Damn it, I’m discussing going to college well, why did I suddenly break the defense?’

‘Category brothers, what the host said is too true, who knows?’

‘My childhood companion, think about it carefully, maybe a few years ago last time we met. I just chatted a few simple words, and I didn’t feel the same as I imagined.’

'He just finished being your friend and became someone else's friend, so do you.'

‘Tsk tsk tsk tsk, it’s only a few years since the past has nothing to say.’

‘Teacher Wang said it very well, it may not be a good thing, even if it is a pity.’

‘Woooooooooooooooooooooooo, @Lu Renjia, I miss you brother, I hope there is no pain in heaven.’

‘The son upstairs, dad is not dead!’

Some people touch the scene and some people spread rumors and make trouble...

"Teacher Wang, did everything become complicated when you grow up?" Yuanyuan was also infected with a sad atmosphere.

"Society is very simple, but people are complicated." Wang Shifeng said with a smile.

???

Why did you suddenly have social quotations?

"But this is really annoying." Yuanyuan said sadly.

"There is no way, people will eventually become what they hate." Wang Shifeng sighed quietly.

"Is Teacher Wang the same?" Yuanyuan seemed a little unwilling.

"Of course, I am also a human being, how can I avoid the vulgarity?" Wang Shifeng smiled bitterly with a self-deprecating smile.

"What kind of people do Teacher Wang hates?" Yuanyuan asked curiously.

To be honest, in her eyes, Wang Shifeng is a very outstanding person. Not only is he reflected in the popularity of live broadcasts, but his words and deeds are also very talented. Although it is occasionally laughable, it is generally a person who makes people feel comfortable.

She didn't know what the annoying person Wang Shifeng said?

"I have hated rich people since I was a child." Wang Shifeng sighed.

The audience nodded in agreement after hearing this. After all, hating the rich is the norm.

Rich people are really annoying, they are arrogant and arrogant...

etc!

If you hate rich people? That will become...

???

Damn, after hearing what you said, I hate rich people too!

The barrage started to criticize again.

"Teacher Wang is so funny." Yuanyuan was also laughed out loud.

"I'm serious, why are you laughing at me?" Wang Shifeng was a little helpless. "Anyway, Ms. Yuanyuan, when she went to college, the most important thing is to be sober. Not to mention how to study, first of all, you must know that you can't spend four years in a daze. This period of time seems to be not long in your life, but it is crucial."

"Yeah, I remember what Teacher Wang said!" Yuanyuan replied obediently, "I have heard from others that a life without a relationship in college is not perfect. Teacher Wang, are you right?"

"I don't know if it's right, but I think the first person to say such a thing must be a man, and a scumbag." Wang Shifeng smiled.

"Why do you say that?" Yuanyuan was stunned.

Before Wang Shifeng could speak, the barrage broke out.

‘Don’t ask why, no one in the world knows scumbag better than Wang Shifeng. He has absolute authority on this topic.’

Faced with the slander of barrage covering the sky, Wang Shifeng decided to bear it silently.

After all, it's just one person who can resist everything, who understands it?

"Because the potential meaning and context of this sentence is to bewitch you into love. Any words with this temptation and bewitching nature have a big problem. Think about it carefully, will you feel that after listening to this sentence, you will feel that it is really a pity that you don't fall in love in college?" Wang Shifeng asked back.

"I...I don't know either." Yuanyuan's face was relatively thin.

"It's okay if you don't admit it. Anyway, you understand it. They are all experienced people." Wang Shifeng smiled. "You can really fall in love in college because you are already an adult, but you must be clear before that you don't go to college for love. You won't regret not having a relationship in college. If you fall in love for love, you will definitely regret or even regret it."

Wang Shifeng began to ramble.

"Then... how can you tell whether it is a suitable love?" Yuanyuan suppressed her curiosity and embarrassment.
To be continued...
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