Chapter 156
Past events
Shen Qiuqiu now feels uncomfortable and uncomfortable when she thinks about her marriage.
Even though she has been doing some psychological construction for herself, she wants to do as the Romans do, but she still can't hypnotize herself to accept it. Even the more she does psychological construction for herself, the more bored she becomes and her mood is terrible.
She felt so desperate when she thought that she had not even had a good relationship yet, but in this ancient world where men were superior to women, and she still had to accept three wives and four concubines.
Looking at her mother's face, she suddenly felt a little envious. Although her family was poor before, her mother had never worried about her father having other women. Now that the family has money, her father still lives with her honestly. Nothing fancy.
Now that I am about to get married, can I be as lucky as my mother?
Can the married man live a down-to-earth life with himself like his father?
Shen Qiuqiu, who experienced the era of information explosion in her previous life, has both longing for love and avoidance of love in her heart.
Because there are really very few men who can stay together forever. What I see on my mobile phone are often cheating men, cheating husbands, etc. There are always divorced couples around, middle-aged or even elderly people, or that kind of people. In a widowed marriage, the man is obviously still alive, but he acts as if he is dead and does not even have a corpse. He stays outside all year round and ignores the family.
My mother-in-law has my daughter-in-law taking care of me. He is living happily outside without ever returning home. Even if there are people outside, he will not give a penny to his family. He has to rely on her to spend money on her children. Earn it yourself.
She has seen too many tragedies like this, which makes her only believe that there is love in this world, but love will not come to her.
Shen Qiuqiu sighed deeply. She was living in ancient times now. Putting aside the fate of her parents, the words of matchmakers were weighing on her head. The mere rumors caused by not getting married were not comparable to those in her previous life.
But that's not the case here. Even if you change places, there will still be no less rumors. You may even have to accept the pressure from the government to get married. If you haven't gotten married by the maximum deadline, the government will directly give the allotted money to the allotted person. Forced to get married.
Whenever people in the village talk about Grandma Xiao, they will say that Grandma Xiao has good luck, her son is successful, and her family is harmonious...
Shen Qiuqiu shook her head and said nothing, but asked: "Mom, what did you ask me to do?"
After thinking about it, she thought of Grandma Xiao. Ever since she wore it, Grandma Xiao was the most chic person she had ever seen.
Isn't that what life is like? Just make do and it's over.
Thinking of this, Shen Qiuqiu couldn't help but think of her parents in her previous life. Her parents didn't get along well, not even as well as her parents in this life.
In her previous life, her father and mother had always lived with her grandparents. When her grandparents got older, they didn't take care of things much, so they often went out for walks. They came back on time to eat and sleep on time every day, turning a blind eye to the work at home.
Hey~
In this ancient time, it was really difficult to achieve human rights.
The more I watch it, the less I want to fall in love, and I just want to focus on making money.
Later, when the information explosion era came, I learned that this way of getting along was originally called "raising a son", and this was also a common living condition at that time.
Mrs. Zhang rolled her eyes at her daughter, grabbed her arm and lifted her up. She sat down, added some fire to the boiler and said, "You are already sitting here. What else can you do if I call you? Go out and watch you."
Brother."
As she grew older, she realized that this way of getting along was wrong, but she was powerless to change it. The only thing she could do was to do her best to help her mother with some work and reduce her burden.
And my mother seems to be used to this kind of life. She curses a lot, but she never does less work on her hands.
At that time, if you don't get married and don't want to listen to the rumors, you can change places or jobs and start over, or you can just deal with the pressure from your parents and relatives without returning to your hometown. Even if you feel tired, you can
Don't answer their calls, just stay out of sight and out of mind.
Mrs. Zhang touched her forehead and asked strangely: "What are you thinking about? I've been calling you for a long time?"
Mrs. Zhang called her daughter several times, but she didn't see any response. She could only walk to her side and push her shoulder: "Girl? Big girl?!"
When it's sweet, it's really sweet, the kind that can make people sick to death, but when it's painful and tortured, it can really drive people crazy, causing heartache and tears.
As long as the person you marry is not one of those bastards who likes to beat up your wife, and doesn't engage in whoring or gambling, then you can live a good life.
She grew up in such an environment. When she was a child, she didn't know whether this way of getting along was right, but she always felt that her mother was working very hard.
Every time I see her, I can't help but be envious. It would be great if I could be like Grandma Xiao in my later years.
As for my father, he is busy going out to work every day. When he comes back from work, he sits on the sofa and watches TV and uses his mobile phone. He eats and uses what is ready-made and is not willing to help his mother at all.
Mrs. Zhang looked at her daughter's back and knew that she was worried about her marriage. It was not that she didn't know what her daughter was thinking, but in this world, women had to get married, and everyone was like this. She
If you don't get married, do you want to be a sister-in-law?
Life, after all, is made by people. We don't get married without even meeting each other. Whether it's good or bad all depends on luck.
I have time and money, and I don’t have to wait on my wife. My son and daughter-in-law are also very filial.
Mrs. Zhang shook her head, retracted her gaze, and continued cooking.
She really felt that Grandma Xiao was a kind of person who was both wise and foolish, because she had never seen or heard of it, and some people said that Grandma Xiao's family was not good.
After dinner, Shen Qiuqiu took her younger brother and planned to visit Grandma Xiao's house. She didn't know why she just wanted to have a heart-to-heart talk with the wise Grandma Xiao.
Shen Qiuqiu took a stool and sat in the yard, looking at her brother in a daze.
Because they know that their mother is a free nanny available at home.
Shen Qiuqiu smiled sheepishly and went out without saying anything.
At the same time, she often sees the sweet and painful love processes.
Shen Qiuqiu swayed, and when she came back to her senses, she heard her mother's voice, and responded in confusion: "Huh?"
I always feel that love is a very ethereal thing. You can’t catch it or touch it. But money is different. It can be touched and seen. You don’t have to worry about it cheating and betraying you. As long as you have it.
It will make you feel at ease.
Therefore, she was vaguely a non-marriage person in her previous life, but she was still young at that time, and although her family urged her, they were not in a hurry.
It is said that Grandma Xiao's family has never had any big troubles.
But in Shen Qiuqiu's view, the source of all this lies in Grandma Xiao's attitude towards things. Grandma Xiao never cares too much about family affairs, and she is extremely measured in dealing with her son and daughter-in-law.
He never interferes in the affairs of his son and daughter-in-law, and he never crosses the line when it comes to his grandchildren.
As far as proportion is concerned, Grandma Xiao has really achieved the ultimate.
Chapter completed!