"Hundreds of thousands are not money anymore? Who cares about coming here to have a meal? It's more than 200 yuan. It's better to buy some delicious food and some clothes for the children than to come here to have a meal."

Well, people may not even say hello to you, relatives so far away, so many

I haven't seen each other in years, and I don't know you either. It took me more than two hours to get here by car from the village. It delayed things. My pigs haven't been fed yet. After eating, I went back to feed the pigs." The aunt didn't appreciate it, "Hurry up and eat.

, eat more food, you can’t spend these 200 yuan in vain.”

"Mom, how can you think so? Kanglong Prince Hotel has opened many branches in Jiangcheng. I don't know how much revenue this hotel earns in a month. The overall assets are hundreds of millions. Hundreds of thousands of dollars are spent on it.

It’s really nothing in people’s eyes, so don’t always think about eating it back, 200 yuan

The money gift is not that much, but I think it should be a big red envelope of 1,000 yuan." The aunt's son was a little embarrassed, "This table of food is not cheap. How can we ordinary people have the opportunity to eat in a hotel like this?

I just want to eat it back and don’t want to order anything else, it’s too embarrassing.”

"What's the shame? I don't steal or rob. In my hometown, people usually get 50 yuan for their wedding. No one's money comes from the strong wind. I gave him 50 yuan as a gift and didn't ask him to pay me back 100 yuan."

Yuan, when my family holds a happy event, he can just pay me back 50 yuan."

The aunt is more open-minded and is not as concerned about face as her son. "When you see someone wealthy, you want to curry favor with him. Then you have to see if he is willing. He owns several hotels and has hundreds of millions of dollars, but then

What does it have to do with us? Aren’t we still living in the countryside and digging in the fields?”

"The relationship between my old cousins ​​can be said to be close or far, and I have never seen them go back to pay me New Year greetings during the Chinese New Year. You treat them as a treasure, but they may not take you seriously. This time we are invited

I don’t even want to come over for a wedding banquet, so why do you have to drag me over to join in the fun?”

Auntie speaks without mercy and is very straightforward.

"Auntie, you are right. Relatives are supposed to be closer than ordinary people. But if you want to be close to some relatives, but they are not close to you, there is no need to get close to them. Just live your own life.

When people are willing to help you, they will naturally take action. If they are not willing to help you, if you go over and beg them, it will make people uncomfortable and make you feel uncomfortable. Why bother?" Su Xing poured a drink for Tong Wangjun, "It's a bit cold, you

Drink slowly."

"What do you know? If you are related by blood, you will definitely be closer. If you don't take the initiative to tell me, how can anyone help you?" The aunt's son thought Su Xing was too talkative, "Don't interrupt me when I'm talking to my mother. If

If you can establish a relationship with these people, a casual word or a move of a finger from them can be worth half of your life working there. No matter how good you are in reading, it is better to have good relatives."

"What you said is wrong. You have to rely on yourself as a person, and you cannot rely on others. If others are willing to help you, it is their kindness. If others are not willing to help you, you cannot blame others, including your parents. The parents will

You have been raised as an adult and you can support yourself, so you can no longer ask your parents to do more for you." Su Xing said, "This time

Look at what is done well in foreign countries. They train their children to be self-reliant from a young age, so that they can adapt to society early and experience the hardships of life. Domestic parents pay too much for their children, even if the children are already that old when they are 30 or 40 years old.

Even now that he is older and has grandchildren, he still treats his son as a child."

"Going back to the previous question, you said that studying is useless. The important thing is to be with a good relative. This is strange. Why do relatives take you? Just because they are related by blood, they must take you.

Even if you can't do anything and just have an elementary school degree or a junior high school degree, that's all. If you work hard and are serious, there will definitely be a place for you, but if you have a low degree

And you are unwilling to work hard, just thinking that you are my relative and you have to help me. If you really think like this, no relative will be willing to take you. Helping people in emergencies does not help the poor. You have to rely on yourself for everything. Even if you are poor, you must have a conscience.

, have backbone, nothing can be taken for granted, and you can do as much work as you have strength. A gift of 200 yuan is very high in rural areas, so there is no need to compare with others."

The countryside is so big, and the customs and habits are different in every place. In fact, it is not just in the countryside, but also in the cities. The customs are different in every place. In some places, you need to set up a bottle of wine when encountering anything, and even buy a new pair of underpants without being seen.

Drinks will also be served.

Many people think that serving wine is a way for the owner to make money, but in fact, sometimes this is not the case.

I am reluctant to go to someone else’s house for a wedding banquet because I have to pay for gifts. I am also reluctant to host a wedding banquet at someone else’s house because it is troublesome and requires money.

Who did the money go to?

Most of the time, it is for the helpers and vegetable vendors who make money. To be honest, the people who get rich by selling wine are also village cadres, people with some real power. Those who come to his house to drink are not drinking, but giving gifts.

Even if the waistband is too tight, more gift money will be given.

The price of agricultural products is not high, farmers are not making any money, and the agricultural products reaching consumers are expensive and unaffordable. As for the middlemen, many people are also crying about poverty.

It's really hard to say who gets the profit when it comes to setting up a banquet. It's just a matter of celebration. If you want to do it, you can do it. If you don't want to go, don't go.

"It's so easy to say one thing. Do you really think it's easy to make money? You are probably still in school and have not been out of society. You don't know how difficult it is to make money. Having a good relationship in society is more useful than studying.

"More." The aunt's son argued with Su Xing, "I won't lie to you, I went to elementary school with a classmate who was in junior high school.

Neither of them graduated. I went out to work in Guangdong since I was a child. After working for several years, I met a big boss and worked with the big boss. Now I can earn 10,000 yuan a month, which is more than our annual income.

Gao, many high school graduates and college graduates only earn 700 to 800 yuan a month. Do you think it is better to study or work?"

"My classmate now has more than 100,000 yuan in savings. Several of his classmates have gone to college, and their monthly salary is only one to two thousand yuan. So, you still need to have connections.

These things are much more useful than reading."

"You are selectively blind." The man in front of me is in his twenties and thirties, and his thoughts are still the same as those of a middle school student. Su Xing took a bite and said, "The example you gave is just an example. Do the math.

If we take the average salary of students and then calculate the average salary of junior high school students and high school students, we will know that this example is just self-deception."
Chapter completed!