Chapter 4 "My Dad"
He Ziqiu quickly changed from a short-term renter to a long-term renter.
Because He Mei decided to go to Shenzhen to look for development opportunities, she could only leave He Ziqiu to her grandmother in the countryside.
Grandma didn't like her grandson at all, and the family's financial situation was not good, so Ziqiu was not able to go to school when she was old enough to go to school. She could only help with farm work such as weeding pigs at home.
Father Li, who was thinking about the child, went to the countryside and asked his grandmother to raise Ziqiu for him. He promised to find a school for the child and brought Ziqiu back.
Upstairs, Ling Xiao also changed from being a passive meal eater from time to time to a long-term regular meal mate.
Ling Xiao's mother, Chen Ting, yelled at Ling Xiao during a quarrel, blaming all the blame for her daughter's death on Ling Xiao. The angry Ling Heping gave her a hard slap, and Chen Ting divorced Ling's father soon after.
But this time when Chen Ting left, she didn't meet Ling Xiao downstairs like in the TV series. She said hurtful words like she didn't want her child and gave her child to Li Jianjian. After hearing that quarrel, He Tian
Every time after school, I would drag Li Jianjian and Ling Xiao outside for a walk until very late, just to avoid this scene.
It's not that Chen Ting is uncomfortable. After all, a mother who can blame all her daughter's death on a seven-year-old boy does not deserve sympathy, but He Tian is afraid of leaving more shadows on the fragile Ling Xiao. After all, he didn't hear
With these words, Ling Xiao could at least have some beautiful fantasies in his heart.
After Chen Ting left, Ling Heping was still very busy, so Ling Xiao basically had no choice but to be taken care of by Li Haichao, and the two families basically became one family.
The children are all called Ling Heping, Ling Dad, Li Haichao and Li Dad, and the little Doudins are called brother and sister. He Tian is the eldest in the family, so he is the eldest brother, Ling Xiao becomes the second brother, He Ziqiu becomes the younger brother, and Li Jian
The tip became the family's treasure.
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Since the merger of the two families, several children have become the eldest children in the neighborhood. The former eldest brother Zhu Peng and Zhu Xiaopangzi once brought a few followers to laugh at a few people, but He Tian and his younger brothers and sisters pushed him to the ground.
He took off his pants and flicked them dozens of times, which frightened the little fat man and made him take a detour whenever he saw a few people.
I remember the scene in the TV series where Li Jianjian was almost abducted by human traffickers because of his gluttony when he was a child, so He Tian and his two younger brothers repeatedly emphasized that they must look at their sister when they go out. Even if Li Jianjian makes trouble again, he must stay with her.
, He Tian would also keep a close eye on Li Jianjian when he went out. Under the strict protection of the three brothers, Li Jianjian did not encounter the traffickers in the original TV series.
Naturally, the baby kiss between Ling Xiao and Li Jianjian disappeared later.
It's okay if it's gone. It's really disgusting for a good family relationship to turn into love. Ling Xiao is a good boy, but he is not suitable for Li Jianjian.
Being with Li Jianjian may be a kind of healing for him, but for Li Jianjian, He Tianzhen really felt that it was not suitable.
For this cute little sister, He Tian still hopes that she can live a simpler and happier life.
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In 2001, Ling Xiao, He Ziqiu and He Tian were all in fourth grade. The three of them went to the same elementary school. He Tian and Ling Xiao were in Class 3, Ziqiu was in Class 2 next door, and Li Jianjian also went to the same elementary school.
Second grade of elementary school.
After the mid-term exam, He Tian came to the classroom office and found the Chinese teacher of Ling Xiao's class. The Chinese teacher was a very kind-looking old lady who felt particularly gentle. She was drinking from a water cup and talking to the person next to her.
People chatting.
The essay topic for the midterm exam was "My Dad". He Tian knew that the father Ling Xiao wrote this time was Ling Heping, but later when the teacher asked to take it back for parents to sign, he secretly rewrote it and changed the character to Li.
Tide.
Ling Heping is very dedicated to his job, loves his work, and is willing to help his colleagues. He is also an amiable father at home and is good to his children. However, there is a lack of communication between father and son, Ling Heping and Ling Xiao.
Ling Xiao has become much more reticent since his sister's accident, and he won't take the initiative to talk about many things. Even if He Tian tried hard to guide him for a long time, the effect was not very great.
Ling Heping didn't have time, and he didn't pay attention to this issue, so apart from daily conversations, the two fathers and sons didn't really have any inner thoughts.
When Chen Ting came back to take away the child in the play, there was no communication between the two. It was Ling Xiao who made the decision on his own, and Ling Heping just obeyed out of habit.
Frankly speaking, Ling Heping has big problems in his family, especially in raising children. He lacks initiative, is careless, and lacks responsibility. But he is not a bad person, and no one is born to know how to be a parent.
Raising children is a university subject, and many people rush into the job without any training or practice, so mistakes are inevitable.
Parents also need education.
So He Tianlai took the first tool to educate Ling Heping, which was this essay.
He found an excuse to take away Ling Xiao's Chinese paper. After He Tian came home from school and had dinner with his family, he took out Ling Xiao's paper from his schoolbag while Ling Xiao was tutoring Li Jianjian with his homework.
Paper, and then made a gesture to Ling's father who was watching TV, indicating that he should follow her outside.
"He Tian, what's the matter? What's the matter with Dad Ling? You're doing it secretly."
"Dad Ling, I have a paper here that I want you to take a look at. You should read the composition of this paper first."
After speaking, He Tian handed the paper in his hand to Ling Heping.
Ling Heping took the paper and started reading by relying on the light in the corridor.
""my dad"
My father is a policeman. He is the patron saint of the people and our patron saint.
As a policeman, my father is always very busy at work. He often doesn't come home until very late. Sometimes when he is resting at home, he will rush to work because someone needs him.
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In my eyes, a father who eliminates violence and leads a good life is very great, and I am proud of my father."
Looking at the composition, the corners of Ling Heping's mouth slowly turned up, and his heart blossomed with joy.
"Dad Ling, Ling Xiao loves you very much, but he won't say it himself, so I hope you can chat with Ling Xiao more and listen to Ling Xiao's inner thoughts."
"Ling Xiao is actually very sad sometimes. I would see him having nightmares several times when I spent the night in his room. He often couldn't sleep well."
"And he rarely speaks out what is in his heart. He trusts you so much. If you ask him carefully, he will definitely tell you. Only when he expresses what is in his heart will he feel better. Otherwise, as my dad said, he will hold it in his heart for a long time.
You're going to get sick."
The first tip for educating parents: guide parents to take the initiative to communicate.
No matter what Ling's father's reaction was, He Tian ran into the house after he finished speaking, leaving Ling Heping alone outside to think alone.
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From that day on, it was obvious that Ling's father would be more active in chatting with Ling Xiao when he was at home. Sometimes the two fathers and sons would go out for a walk alone. He Tian followed behind and secretly observed the two of them several times. Ling Xiao obviously didn't speak well.
Chapter completed!