Milton felt that he didn't know when he would see Yan Zixiu again next time.

It is difficult to meet such a savvy young man, so he continued to share his experience: "I think every patient is a unique individual, and there is no second person in the world who is exactly the same. Psychiatrist

We need to make good use of a person's uniqueness, as a person often has many unknown qualities. Therefore, I do not fight against the patient's symptoms. I will not waste time on the shortcomings of the case, but focus on the resources the case already has."

"Respect the uniqueness of the patient? Disodesation of the symptoms? Support the resources that the patient already owns?" Yan Zixiu met, "Mr. Milton, which is completely consistent with our Chinese medicine medicine.

One side. And we pay attention to grasping the essence. We will not treat headaches and foot pain, but focus on strengthening the body and eliminating evil."

"Headache does not necessarily cure the head, foot pain does not necessarily cure the foot. Wonderful, really wonderful." Milton looked unusually happy.

"Mr. Milton, please continue. I like hearing your story very much." Yan Zixiu said.

"Okay. Let me tell you a story from my childhood. On my family's farm, sometimes the horses would run outside, and the workers would have to spend a lot of effort to pull them back. Because the horses are very strong, it usually takes several adults

Just pull a horse together. But at that time, I could pull a horse back to the stable as a child. Why? Because I found that horses have a very rebellious mentality. When people pull it to go west, it will work hard.

Go east, so why not pull it east so it will automatically go west."

Yan Zixiu agreed very much: "Mr. Milton, you are so good at research at such a young age. No wonder you have achieved such achievements today. You are right. We have such an idiom in China: give first if you want to get, and play hard to get."

"Chinese culture is really broad and profound." Milton sighed and continued, "Another time, I treated a schizophrenic patient who had delusions of persecution. When I entered the ward, he was hammering nails into the window. He thought that this would

It can prevent the enemy from attacking him. I hammered the nails together with him, and was more serious than him. After the nails were hammered, I suggested that he seal the gaps in the floor, so that the enemy would have no chance at all. Then, I suggested to him

Work with the hospital's doctors and nurses to strengthen the hospital's prevention work, so as to continuously expand his safety scope. The patients are admitted one by one. As this work continues to progress, his prevention scope - and also the scope of activities - continues to expand, and he

I also gradually came out of the isolation and loneliness.”

"Go with the flow, you are brilliant." Yan Zixiu praised him sincerely. He admired Milton's style very much. He danced with the problem and went deeper than fighting against it.

Lawrence did not interrupt, but listened quietly as he drove.

Milton summed it up: "Everyone has a solution to their own problem, but they don't know how to find it. Since the client doesn't know how to find it, the doctor will help them find it. Just like I found out that Ms. Beth likes

Like violets.”

Yan Zixiu was deeply moved by Milton's respect and trust in life.

However, he felt that Milton seemed to praise independence too much, so he said: "Mr. Milton, I think that in addition to independence, there is also identity between life and life. Life is friendly to each other because of the common nature, and life is

Because they have their own independence and can stretch freely, they form a beautiful world in various shapes and forms. In the East, this is called neither one nor different, and it is also called the non-duality of self and other."

"Oh, this formulation is so profound. Between life and life, there is both independence and identity. Neither one nor different, self and other. Yes, there is too much emphasis on independence, a little too cold, and too much emphasis on identity.

Sex is a bit overheated." Milton listened and said thoughtfully.

"Yes. Only by taking both of these into consideration at the same time can we show the appropriate distance. And the appropriate distance is goodness." Yan Zixiu said.

Lawrence suddenly interjected: "Mr. Yan is right. Kindness is a proper distance, which is great. My aunt is just too far away from other people."

"Mr. Lawrence, did your aunt suffer from being too close to others in the past, so she kept a distance from other people?" Yan Zixiu asked.

"Mr. Yan is great, your judgment is absolutely right." Lawrence replied, but he did not continue to go into details.

Milton said: "Yes. If you are too close, people will fall in love and get entangled at the same time. This is a kind of suffering. If it is too painful, you want to cut it off. But if you are too far apart after cutting it, you will not be happy. Mr. Yan,

What else do you people in the East have to say about this appropriate distance?" He is also an open-minded and studious person.

"Zhuangzi said, obey others without losing yourself. Confucius said, follow your heart's desires without violating the rules."

"Oh, what does this mean?" Milton and Lawrence were both curious.

"They are all expressing the state of resolving entanglements and leaving love. One of my mentors explained it this way: caring without worrying, helping others without caring about others, appreciating without possessing, requesting without demanding." Yan Zixiu told Wuyou

Tell them what you said.

"Resolve the entanglement and leave love? Do you care or worry, help others without caring about others, appreciate without possessing, ask without demanding? Lawrence, drive slower, I want to write it down."

…

During lunch, everyone talked about Yan Zixiu’s journey.

Both Milton and Lawrence strongly suggested that he go see Niagara Falls because they had both seen it.

It's impossible to appreciate the majestic splendor without going there in person. By car, it's about a thousand kilometers away from Milwaukee, and the journey takes about twenty hours.

Yan Zixiu was very interested in this waterfall. He remembered that it was introduced in the world geography textbook in middle school. However, he did not have enough time to spend a lot of time on the road.

He asked in his heart what should Wuyou do?

Wuyou said: "The transmission method of the teleportation light gate can be randomly positioned, it can be positioned using items in the Immortal Mansion, or it can be positioned using known longitude and latitude coordinates."

"Yes. I can buy a map and look at the current location and the location of the waterfall. The portal talisman can be used to locate it."

Maps were easy to buy and were sold in restaurants, but he didn’t have any dollars in his pocket.

He took out a stack of Hong Kong dollars.

"Mr. Milton, can I exchange some dollars with you?"

Milton was grateful to Yan Zixiu for relieving his years of illness, and the two of them could talk extremely well. He had long regarded him as an old friend, and he was not willing to accept his Hong Kong dollars: "Yan, you don't have to be polite to me. Lawrence, you

How much cash do you have? Five thousand. Okay, plus mine, this is ten thousand dollars, Yan, you can use it." He said firmly and handed the money to him.

"Okay." Yan Zixiu took it cheerfully, and gave Milton and Lawrence a few water peaches and a few tubes of Ningshen incense.

The two of them were very happy, especially Milton. He knew that the magical effect of this peach was really worth a million dollars.

After lunch, Yan Zixiu said goodbye to Milton and Lawrence and continued his journey of thousands of miles.


Chapter completed!