Tian Huizhu looked at Han Qiaoyun in surprise: "Grandma, can't you see that he is shirking responsibility? I just can't stand him like this. If I don't want to take care of Lili, can I tell you? No one will beg for nothing.

I beg him, why do you have to find so many reasons? I don’t look like a boy at all.”

She wanted to say that he was not like a man, but when she thought that he was only fifteen years old, he could not be considered a man, and at best he was just a boy, so she changed her mouth.

Han Qiaoyun shook her head again and said, "Huizhu, I have never regarded you as an outsider. I always want you to use your brain more when encountering things. Think more. It seems that the effect is not very good. After all, you have experienced little, and you are only in life.

He is the best teacher.

"Look at Tingdong, he is eleven years younger than you, but he knows much more than you. On the one hand, it is because he is a boy with natural advantages, and on the other hand, it is because of the hardships he has experienced and

There are many hardships.

"You think he is shirking responsibility, but you didn't think about it. If he is shirking responsibility, there are many ways that are much better than what he says now. For example, he can verbally treat me and say swearing.

In fact, we can't supervise what he does.

"And you don't know Tingdong at all. Based on your impression of him, do you think he is an irresponsible boy? When did he push his own responsibilities out?

"Think about these clearly, and if you look back at the intention of his words, you may find something. Huizhu, you are my secretary. Although you are limited to your age and qualifications, your level is not high now, so you are just a deputy department.

class.

"But, I might as well reveal here that in a few days, before I retire, I will send you down and directly become a middle-level member of the committee and office bureau below, and be the only one who is the experience.

A good opportunity.

"But now I think it's better for you to be a middle-level deputy in the department. Your ability to analyze and judge problems needs to be improved. Everything cannot be based on a temporary impression. Some words cannot be taken back after being said. It may be

You don’t think it’s anything, but the person you offend is likely to give you a fatal blow at critical moments, making you unable to turn over for the rest of your life.

"This is experience and life experience. For example, just now, didn't you see the feeling of anger that Tingdong contained in his heart when he said these words? He is not a self-deprecating person, even if he is not

Will say it here.

"The reason why he tried hard to belittle himself here is that as long as there is a possibility, the child is wronged, someone must not understand him, and this person is still someone he thinks is very close to, he has no place to complain, and he doesn't want to be a

What did that person explain?

"But, after all, he is also a human being. He is a child who is not yet grown up. Some words are in his heart that make him very painful, so he vents it through this form."

Speaking of this, she turned her head and faced Tingdong with red eyes and said, "Child, grandma feels very pleased, because you have regarded us as your relatives in your heart. Only when facing relatives can you say it.

I firmly believe in this even if you are subconsciously."

At this moment, it was Tingdong's turn to cry silently. His shoulders were shaking constantly, and tears were flowing down his cheeks, but he didn't say a word, and he stubbornly let the tears flow down silently.

He needs to vent. He has experienced too many things over the past few days. On the surface, he seems to be glorious, but his inner pressure is increasing day by day. Not to mention anything else, he will only end up facing Bai Yanni.

He was mentally powered, but he still felt that he was unable to do so.

Just now, he suddenly realized that he could not be the kind of person he thought of as good as people like Bai Yani. Everything about him had changed long ago. From that morning two years ago, he mistakenly entered Siyu's house and saw

When Hou Shufen and Zhang Yuzhong had an affair, it would be impossible for him to become the good boy again.

This is fate. If he wants to force himself to meet the requirements of the traditional moral concept represented by Bai Yani, he will return to the past. This is impossible. It is something that his current personality and style cannot allow. He has become completely used to it.

In this kind of life that is unrestrained, willful, only seeks purpose and uses any means.

After venting just now and Han Qiaoyun guided him to take advantage of the situation, Tingdong turned all his worries and anger into tears and sheds them, and he felt much more happy.

He stood up and bowed, saying, "Thank you grandma for your understanding and guidance. Tingdong has many things that he can't understand. He sorted it out in the moment just now, and figured it out. It seems that sometimes it's not like crying.

Bad thing, hehe!"

Han Qiaoyun nodded with a wry smile and said, "Silly kids, it's not a bad thing to cry. Do you remember how long it took for you to cry? You will gradually understand how much men, especially men who do big things, cry.

Luxury things are like an old woman like grandma.

"Crying is a privilege for girls like Lili. Huizhu, you must understand that when you enter the officialdom, your privilege has been basically cancelled. No matter how difficult or hard you have to hold on, you can't be in front of others.

Tears will be looked down upon and lose prestige.

"In addition, what I said just now, you must remember that you can't talk nonsense, and you must also express your opinions nonsense. Just like Tingdong was in anger, and his stomach was full of anger and could not be released. If you don't ask for a simple accusation, you will be fine.

It is very likely that it will cause trouble and face its fierce attack directly. It is unnecessary and may also damage your prestige.

"If he can vent his feelings directly to you, it's good. If he meets someone who is so cunning, he may not say anything at that time, but he secretly remembers you in his heart. When the time is right, he suddenly gives you a knife in the back.

It's likely that you won't get up for the rest of your life."

Han Qiaoyun looked at the three children and smiled and said, "The past has passed, and Lili's knot has been settled and resolved from today. Children, this is the first purpose of my call to you back today.

"The second thing, I hope you three can get along like a sibling, brother and sister. In fact, I am not worried about Lili and Tingdong. Huizhu, look, Lili is now very dependent on Tingdong, and even surpasses it.

When I recalled that painful experience just now, she took the initiative to lean on Tingdong's shoulder instead of throwing into her grandmother's arms like in the past.

"When girls grow up, they will naturally like boys, and there will also be boys who like it. This is normal. Grandma will not interfere. Tingdong, why do you want it? Grandma doesn't object. I owe this child.

There are too many, I just want her to be happy.

"You promised me not to hurt her, no matter what. I know you have Xiaoyu, and Xiaoyu is also a good child. These problems will be solved slowly in the future. Fortunately, you are all young, everything goes with the flow, you understand what I mean

Is it, Tingdong?"

Tingdong nodded solemnly and said, "Grandma, please rest assured. I will try my best to take care of Lili. As long as I am there, I will not let her suffer any grievances. But I still want to emphasize one thing, please think about it.

, This is what I just thought of.

"I am not a good person, I am not a good person, and I will not change myself for anyone. Those hypocritical things are the ones that I hate the most. I don't like hypocritical people or gorgeous things.

"I will love my relatives, love my friends, and give everything I have to do for them, but once someone infringes upon my interests and hurts my relatives and friends, I will use all means to punish them with a hundred times of a thousand cups.

"If we can accept me, we are friends and relatives. If we can't accept it, it doesn't matter. Please leave. My principle is that there is only interests, no empty morality. My morality is not to violate me and my friends.

"The reason I can talk to Li Li is because Li Li never tells me what to do or what not to do. I also hope that all my friends can do this, otherwise, stay away from me, I

There is no need for a tutor. I already have a teacher. What I learned from him is knowledge and experience. He never tells me how to be a human being.

"So, Sister Huizhu, although grandma has kind intentions to make us friends, I don't think we can. We are not the same type of people. Of course, if you encounter any difficulties in the future, I really need to help me Lai Saner.

, for grandma's sake, I didn't stand by and watch."

After saying this, Tingdong looked at Tian Huizhu, who looked a little unfair and said sincerely: "Lai Saner is not a good person at all. It is your luck to have no such friends. It is because you have always treated Lili.

All are good, I promise you that I will never make things difficult for you."

Tingdong's words are powerful and confident, and they are implemented with great significance.

Han Qiaoyun shook her head regretfully. Maybe Tian Huizhu didn't know the strength of this big boy, but she knew that if Xiaotian could get help from Tingdong and the forces around him, his career would be smooth sailing. Otherwise, with her current experience

, and experience in dealing with things, you should not go too far.

This is also a personal fate. When Tingdong was the most unhappy in his heart, Tian Huizhu wanted to give him a lesson. Although she was stopped by herself, her intentions were very obvious.

Tingdong has already said it very clearly. He doesn't need others to teach him a lesson, he doesn't need others to tell him what to do or what not to do. In fact, this sentence is not absolute. As a friend, he may not need others.

Tingdong has always accepted the advice of his elders humbly.

After saying this, Tingdong looked at Li Li who was still holding one of his hands, and would still say to Han Qiaoyun: "Grandma, Li Li and I have discussed it. I will let her study after the start of the next semester. It turns out that
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