Chapter 424 Before restructuring(1/2)
After my negotiation, it seems that the child does not need to fully accept my mother's royal education method, but Gan Cane does not appreciate it.
The monkey incident plunged me into a crisis of trust. It was the first time in Gan Cane's life that he encountered a liar, and the perpetrator was his father, who was usually the closest to him. This left an indelible mark on his simple and young mind.
"Everything is wrong in homework, this is not easy." He smiled and touched Ganzhe's head. Ganzhe's unhappy head tilted to one side to prevent him from touching him, his eyes were squinted and he was not looking at anyone, and he put pressure on me with lingering anger.
"Monkey, don't think about it." He scratched his head and patted him hard twice. He knew how to show off his temper at a young age, but he didn't notice it at ordinary times. He was capable!
Ganzhuan hummed in disappointment, put the books on the desk and packed them up randomly, and planned to leave.
"But..." Let's play it off. Children are children, and their movements were obviously hesitant. Although they turned their faces away from me, they were still looking forward to a turning point in the process.
"But you can't deliberately make mistakes in your homework." She said without looking at him. She just took the notebook back and pointed at the title. "I'll give you one hour to correct it. If it's all correct, I'll take you to the garden to see the monkeys."
.There are not only monkeys, but also peacocks, golden pheasants, deer and deer, so you can have fun all day long.”
"Okay!" Ganzhe agreed without hesitation, quickly spread out all the homework he had packed up, and started correcting mistakes on the case.
This kid, who doesn’t have the consciousness of a deceiver, isn’t he afraid that I’ll lie to him again? He put a round pillow under Gan Cane’s butt and sat down. He helped the kid with discounts at the table and looked up at Lan Ling. The two of them stood up and faced the main court.
say.
"Are you ashamed to be a father?"
"What are you ashamed of?"
"I don't even think about it in my heart. If you want to let others go, you will never trust me again after being deceived once, and you still make conditions." Lan Ling casually opened Ganzhe's old homework book and read it, and said with a smile: "For Duwa, everything is the same.
Wrong is quite right."
"No matter what is wrong, it cannot be said to be right. This is a matter of principle. You are a member of the royal family. You don't understand this."
Lan Ling waved his hands indifferently, "I'm usually a good person, but now I'm serious about it. Since you don't like the way I teach my children, I'm going to pick on you too."
"Education is a big deal, and we can't let our quarrel between our loyalties ruin the future of our children." I don't think I did anything wrong. If I really had to make a choice, Lan Ling was waiting for an opportunity to retaliate. This is a targeted behavior, so I don't have to accept it.
"You think others are so domineering. Zong Sheng said: I will examine myself three times every day..."
"This is wrong in the first place. Don't use it as a metaphor." I hate whoever drops his book bag in front of me, as if I am illiterate. We have read the Analects of Confucius, and we know that this sentence seems to contain positive and positive meanings of criticism and self-criticism.
, but the next few sentences cannot withstand scrutiny. They are obviously in the past tense, and there are many excuses to deal with them. I had already dismissed these words in my time.
Down, the reactionaries made a shooting movement. "A child is just a blank piece of paper. No matter whether it is good or bad, the mark cannot be erased. It cannot be corrected by you again and again. First, neither of us are saints.
So sugar cane cannot become a sage when it grows up; secondly, the education we received when we were young may not be perfect, so there is no need to be self-righteous."
Lan Ling came over with two punches in anger, "You know what I'm going to say? Before I even said anything, you came up with a bunch of weird theories to mess around with me. I'm afraid that I, the mother-in-law, will steal your seat, because I gave birth to the child!"
"If I can kill you, I'll give you a second child. If you can't give birth, don't talk about it. Is it a woman's unique ability? I admire it." Yep, the era of asexual reproduction has not yet come, and the matrilineal clan society has long passed. We can't raise it.
It’s my godfather’s fault, but I will be the one to blame for the future welfare of my children. What qualifications does a mother have to discuss educational issues with me?
"Duwa is from the Li family. What's your surname, Mr. Wang?" Lanling didn't show any weakness, gently lifted the tea bowl and took a leisurely sip, "When you complain..." He shook his head uglyly, "This
It’s not easy.”
I was so angry! One sentence made my heart ache, and I wanted to jump up and strangle the monster in front of me. I pinched my sleeves randomly, but I couldn't find anything to say in reply, and the person who was drinking tea over there became more and more despicable.
, I seemed to have a lot of time to turn over the book in front of me, "The Analects of Confucius"!
I have seen bad things. I have never seen such bad things. It was originally a small matter. It had nothing to do with cheating sugar cane, nor did it have much to do with banning Lanling from using royal education methods. It was just a leisurely chat between husband and wife. Look, she didn't want to
She is afraid that I will take away her position as archbishop and make bad remarks about her. Who can she talk to to reason with her?
"Let's be reasonable, can we be reasonable?" He tried his best to suppress the fierce anger. This cannot be solved by fighting. It must be considered from the child's perspective. The conflict between husband and wife cannot affect the child's growth.
"Are you being reasonable?" Lan Ling put down the tea bowl and raised his chin at me, "Why don't you force me to come out again in an hour?"
"I'm alive!"
"That's not necessary, I am a reasonable person," Lan Ling chuckled, closed the book and threw it on the table, "Mr. Lang understands that the burden of upbringing is not light, and knows how to do his best to fulfill his responsibilities. This is what makes me most gratified.
It is also the most regrettable thing for me. If I marry into the Wang family, I will naturally be happy for you to discipline me. As I just said, even if the child fails in the future, you will be the one who complains, and no one can blame me."
He nodded reluctantly, picked up the Analects of Confucius on the case and pretended to read it.
"You don't have to read it. You can't understand it. It's an old version and doesn't have the punctuation you use to break up sentences."
"Not surprising."
"It's hard to say whether I'm sorry or not. I don't want to bring this matter to a sad point, but after all, it's not something that can be avoided. It's better to talk to you early." He bent down and took the book in my hand aside and moved it forward.
He moved and said softly: "As long as seven or eight days."
, it can take at least a day or two. After all, the husband cannot get along with his children day and night. Here Duwa calls you dad, but there are three other people in the Wang family who also call you that, oh, four. You have five children, and Duwa is just one of them.
One; but for me..."
He sighed, nodded reluctantly, and motioned for Lan Ling to continue.
"It used to be you, you could only find peace and contentment in my presence. Now it's Duwa. To be honest, if the same thing happened to you, I might not even shed tears, but with Duwa, I
I’m afraid I won’t survive.”
"This is how it should be." If you heard your woman say this when you didn't have children, you would probably be angry or jealous. But it's different after you have children. The shameless feelings of a man and a woman vowing to each other have disappeared, love has crystallized, and the focus of the relationship has changed.
Transferred.
"The eldest princess is just a title, an honorific title. One call can be answered by hundreds of responses. This is all a fiction and not worth taking seriously." Lan Ling rested his head on my shoulder, took my hand and held it tightly. He whispered: "
Comparing yourself with your own, you hope that your children will grow up according to your upbringing methods. I can't compare with you in this regard, or even with the tenant farmers in the village. I only have one Duwa, and I will be like this for the rest of my life."
"That's terrible, I'm still there!" She felt uncomfortable hearing the words. She also knew what Lan Ling wanted to express. She wanted to refute but couldn't bear it. He pretended to be tough and pushed her head aside. "Even so, you can't be dictatorial in everything.
Discuss this with me more or less."
"Yes!" Lan Ling put his head back on my shoulder and started laughing. He didn't laugh enough, and I couldn't understand what he was laughing at.
Suddenly I felt something hit my forehead, and it hurt again. "What are you doing!"
"You're a person who can't control your thoughts!" Lan Ling clasped his knuckles and hit me on the head like a hammer, "You have soft ears and you still have the nerve to let your child call you daddy. You can't even listen to a few words from a woman."
Regarding my own position, I just boasted like a father, but someone made me get out of the way with a few pitiful words. I really don’t trust my child in your hands!"
... Exploded, monster! How could I have forgotten? How could I have forgotten the child’s mother’s attributes? I have lost all my face. My family is in misfortune. I was bullied by such a monster. I don’t know if the mage invited by Ying Yan has stayed.
With the phone number, everyone called Lan Ling to find out how to do it!
I really don’t worry about handing over the sugar cane to Lan Ling! How will I learn from a woman like this? She said angrily: “Be careful, be careful, I will die with my eyes open!”
"Dad, this pig will never die in peace."
"..." The idiom "Nine pounds" is always used so appropriately. Could this be the so-called father-son connection? Watching killing pigs, sheep and chickens is a special hobby of the two men, especially when there are many places where knifes are used in front of them. After two years,
You can take it with you to watch felons being executed in the next year.
"Dad, it's the twenty-fourth day of the twelfth lunar month, and my mother said she would give her children a day off, right after the lanterns." Jiu Jin is already looking forward to the New Year. The house is lively and the children can play freely for a few days. Especially in the first month of the year.
There is no need to worry about being beaten. Only ignorant parents punish their children corporally during the first month.
"Are you happy?" The two men were about to go in when they saw a carriage driving up from Zhuangkou. A visitor came to the door. The child was so heavy that he pulled it off his neck and threw it aside. "We have a visitor at home.
You can play by yourself, and you are not allowed to take the jars in the study privately, or you may get beaten!"
Mr. Cao was extremely polite. He didn't even say hello. It seemed inappropriate to come so early to say New Year greetings. His clothes were also not pleasing to the eye. He said they were official uniforms, but they weren't complete. He said they were casual clothes. He was obviously wearing official boots. That's what happened.
I don't know what etiquette I should use to greet him.
"Shang Shu...Old man," while the two of them were saluting indiscriminately, Jiu Jin brought several nurses from home to fight all over the world. The flowerpot was smashed, and the fish tank overturned. The housekeeper frightened and called Master Huang to come over and suppress it. After a while,
Master Huang also joined the fighting group, and he didn't even go far, just shouting around the guest courtyard.
There was no one with a long face, so he was embarrassed to smile at Mr. Cao, "It's the dogs who are messing around outside, making Mr. Cao laugh."
Old man Cao laughed, stood up and stood at the entrance of the court. He looked outside with interest for a long time, stroked his beard and said happily: "This is the energy of the youth. If it is said that Sanjiu is causing trouble, other children will not be able to criticize it."
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Seeing that old man Cao was here to visit Jiujin, he was smiling and looked closer than his own grandson. When he said that Jiujin's shit smelled good, compared to the ones at his house, they should be buried in mass graves.
It’s not until I get rid of my hatred. It’s not like that. I dressed up half-officially and half-vulgarly and went to my house to say such worthless things. Anyway, I looked at him and smiled, and he also looked at me and laughed. They are all around irritating people, and they usually don’t tell the truth when they are with irritating people.
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"I'm here to take a look." Seeing me looking at his boots, Mr. Cao pointed with a smile, "On the last day of the new year, the morning meeting ended late, and I had to go back to the ministry to explain some trivial things. I was so busy going back and forth that I forgot to change.
Oh, I love to forget things, it’s useless.”
I understand. It’s not that the old man didn’t want to replace him, but he was too anxious to replace him. It’s the last day of the year, which is a happy event for others, but it’s a countdown for Uncle Cao’s position as minister. Since he ran to the Wang family for a purpose, if
If the guess is correct, Li Shi must have used some channel to remind Mr. Cao. It seems that Brother Li Shi is really loyal and is sincerely helping the Wang family to tide over the difficulties.
To reciprocate favors, there is no need to bully the old man. Let’s mention this matter first, lest Mr. Cao scold the Wang family behind his back for being unreasonable. Whether the Wang family’s system is good or not can only be convincing if it is reflected in the Ministry of Industry. This is not only a matter of restructuring, but also a scientific management system.
and rewards and punishments
The measures must also be comprehensively implemented. It is indeed not easy to achieve it just by the few senior leaders in the Ministry of Industry who are full of bureaucracy. Now that the words have been said, Cao Shangshu must have a clear understanding. Changing the soup does not change the medicine.
Local medicine cannot cure the disease.
"It's getting better to some extent, but it's unlikely to be immediate." To start with, this method of the Wang family has been explored for a long time. It is suitable for the Wang family but may not be suitable for the public. It is unrealistic to want to transplant it without leakage in the past, and it is too complex.
It has to take some time to complete the exchange. I would be thankful if it can show results in less than half a year.
"One family does not speak the same language as the other. Since Zihao calls me uncle, it will give Zihao some details." Cao Cao's expression suddenly became gloomy and he sighed, "In this situation, no matter how much you are scolded in court,
To be continued...