However, the reality is that instead of easing the conflicts and reaching an agreement, the conflicts between the two parents have become more acute. The original mother demands that they get married as soon as possible and that the new house can be appropriately relaxed.

But her boyfriend's mother, Hu Lin, is pushing the envelope.

He directly sneered and said that he was shameless and got pregnant before marriage. Who else would be willing to get this kind of shame other than his family? He also said that he didn’t have a new house and the bride price was only three to five thousand yuan. If the love is not tied, it will be down.

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Things have developed to this point.

Don't say that the original mother didn't agree.

Even the original person himself cannot accept it.

The original person simply felt that she had been deceived and humiliated, while the original mother felt that such a family was simply terrible. If her daughter got married, she would be eaten to death.

How can a person be mistreated like a slave or a maid?

The two families fell out again.

Before leaving, Hu Lin jokingly said that her family was not in a hurry at all, but she didn't know if Zhu Xin would be laughed at if her stomach couldn't bear to wait.

What followed was an even more intense quarrel.

It was not only a quarrel between their two families, but also a quarrel between the original person and her boyfriend, a quarrel between the original person and her biological mother, a quarrel between her mother and her boyfriend, and her boyfriend's mother.

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At the end of the quarrel, naturally, I completely collapsed.

He even tore and fought for a while.

In this way, Hu Lin, who escaped in embarrassment, still refused to give up and spread rumors that she was misbehaving and that the child in her belly did not know whether it was her son's seed.

I almost made the original person and her mother angry to death.

After that, the original mother asked her to have an abortion, but the original mother was unwilling. First, she said she didn't want the child to be born without a chance to see the world, and second, she wanted to give birth to the child and do a paternity test.

Wash away Hu Lin’s slander.

The original mother tried to persuade her sincerely, telling her how difficult it was to be a single, unmarried mother, how difficult it would be to find a partner and how hard it would be to raise a child in the future.

But the original person obviously still didn't listen. After all, if she had listened, Ding Yun wouldn't have come to fulfill her wish.

At this time, the original mother felt that if she had not been compromising all these years and tried every means to capture her daughter when she just graduated from school and take the civil service examination, how could the following bad things have happened.

So she was really furious.

She directly stated that she could either abort the child in her belly now, listen to her words, and get married as soon as possible.

Or get out of the house and never come back.

Their family does not have such a shameful daughter.

However, the original person had never been severely beaten by society, so he immediately left home resolutely and went back to work.

As for the original person who returned to work, she didn't work for long. She couldn't stand the reason why she was pregnant and her colleagues were talking about her. As for why her colleagues were talking about her, it was of course because she didn't ask for wedding leave or send out invitations to the wedding.

Just a big belly.

If an unmarried woman becomes pregnant and the wedding is held right away, the best everyone can say in private is to get on the boat first and then buy the tickets.

On the surface, I still say congratulations.

Double happiness or something like that.

But what if the belly is so big?

There is no wedding news yet.

It's hard not to be criticized and commented on.

No matter how angry or aggrieved she is, there is nothing she can do to silence others. Fortunately, she still has some savings and occasionally does part-time jobs online.

So life can go on smoothly after resigning.

But being able to live her life does not mean that she is living a good life. If a pregnant woman is healthy and in a good mood, the pregnancy process will naturally be easier. But the original person is obviously not. She is angry about the past, worried about the future, and at the same time

You have to worry about your current life.

In case there is no money during production or something like that.

I don’t even dare to stop working part-time.

Under all kinds of pressure, all kinds of uncomfortable pregnancy reactions appeared on her body one by one.

Such as morning sickness, edema, macular hair loss, etc.

This can be clearly seen, not to mention other backaches, insomnia, nightmares, and night sweats.

All in all, her pregnancy was very painful.

It also left her lingering between regrets and the choice of continuing to persevere, until she was too old to have a miscarriage. She had no choice but to accept the reality and look forward to giving birth to the child as soon as possible, and maybe she would be relieved by then.

Some people used to say that having an operation alone is the loneliest thing. But maybe having a baby alone is a lonelier and sadder thing than having an operation alone.

The original body is a human being.

Not accompanied by anyone.

Then she realized that having children was not a relief.

But it's just the beginning of another difficulty.

Other pregnant women can have a good rest after giving birth, and at most they can only breastfeed. Other things such as changing diapers and coaxing the child will basically be helped by the mother or mother-in-law. Some husbands will also help. In short,

Most of the time, pregnant women are still allowed to undergo confinement.

But there is really no one around me.

I can’t afford to hire a nanny or confinement nanny.

So after giving birth, you have to do everything by yourself.

At first, when her body was too weak and she couldn't take care of the child, a relative from another pregnant woman's family felt sorry for her and helped her for a few days.

Although there may not be much discussion about her in private.

But people did help.

It was even more painful to go home after being discharged from the hospital, because she really couldn't take care of her children wholeheartedly. She also needed to spend a lot of time doing part-time jobs to make money, otherwise she might be kicked out by her landlord in a month or two, or so on.

Can't afford baby diapers or anything like that.

In short, it was the first time she knew the pain of raising a child.

At the same time, she also felt that she couldn't bear this kind of suffering alone, so she would occasionally bring her children to her ex-boyfriend, asking him to do a paternity test and pay child support. The process was really a waste.

I don’t know how many people there were, and I don’t know how many times they quarreled.

It was also during this quarrel and the discussions of others.

Only then did the original person realize that the fundamental reason why they couldn't make it was not the hundreds of thousands of gifts her mother wanted, but because her boyfriend's family looked down on her, a little girl from out of town, and they wanted to find an only daughter with a local registered permanent residence and a house.

And this is the minimum condition. There is no upper limit as to the upper limit. The higher the net worth and status, the better.

Furthermore, he really cannot afford to buy a new house, and it is really difficult for his family to live in the new house required by his original mother to get married.

After all, their house price has exceeded tens of millions.

I can’t even raise the down payment without selling my home.

And if you marry a local only child, even if you only have one house, you will have assets of nearly ten million. If the father-in-law and mother-in-law die, the assets will definitely belong to his family. Not only does the original wife not have a local household registration house, but she also has a younger brother.

You will definitely not get the inheritance from your father-in-law and mother-in-law.

No matter how you weigh it, it's not worthwhile.

Therefore, Hu Lin had no idea of ​​getting married at the beginning. As for whether her ex-boyfriend knew about it or not, this aspect was actually unimportant.

Understand the origin of these situations.

Naturally, it collapsed again.

At the same time, she didn’t have the energy or time to continue wrangling the lawsuit with their family, because she really couldn’t fight against the shameless family on her own, and if she continued like this, she was about to become a regional Internet celebrity, no matter whether she was being

It was quite embarrassing to be seen by my parents, elders and relatives at home, as well as by my former classmates and friends.

So I really couldn't do anything shamelessly, so in the end I had to give up asking for child support.

And continued to raise the children alone.

But, her daughter was born a little weak due to her irregular lifestyle and poor pregnancy conditions, which made her particularly difficult to take care of. In addition, she also needed to make money to support the family, so she

I am really tired. I am busy day and night almost every day. I drink coffee when I feel tired and sleepy. I sleep for less than four hours every day.

Even so, she didn't want to go home and surrender.

Say I was wrong, regretful, etc.

In the short term, the body may collapse, let alone in the long term, so sudden death is almost no surprise, it can only be regarded as a matter of time.
Chapter completed!