But this harmony did not last long.

Xu Ping and Zhu Wenwen had completely accepted the fact that their daughter was pregnant before marriage, had a child, and even took care of the child alone. They basically did not mention this when chatting to avoid hurting their daughter.

But others are not so aware.

The day after Ding Yun came back.

I heard someone in the community discussing that the daughter of the Zhu family who was pregnant out of wedlock had returned with a child who was a spoiled child, and she might not be able to survive outside.

At the same time, they also "zealously" worry about others.

"I just heard about it a few years ago, but I didn't expect it to be true. She really brought a child back. If she brings a child without getting married, who will she marry later?"

"I'm afraid I can only marry someone on my second marriage. Otherwise, only old bachelors will be able to accept her."

"Or you can be someone's stepmother."

"What if she gets married outside?"

"How is it possible? If she gets married outside, even if she doesn't come back to hold the wedding, she still has to take her parents over to hold the wedding. And if she gets married, can her parents quickly refute the rumors?"

"Hey, that's really inappropriate.

If my daughter dares to do this, get pregnant before marriage or something, it would be weird if I didn't break her legs. So what if she studies well and goes to college. She is not as sensible as my daughter who has not gone to high school. It's fine to get married and have children now.

"

"What was the name of her daughter in ancient times? In ancient times, she was called an illegitimate daughter. It's disgusting. It's only in these years that the household registration has been liberalized. Otherwise, her daughter wouldn't even be able to get the household registration. Really, everyone has it.

ah!"

"Don't say it too harshly."

"What's wrong? We didn't spread rumors. Is it a lie that she gave birth to a child or is it a lie that she's not married?"

"Yeah, why don't people tell her what she dares to do?"

"Even now, the concept of clan is not that deep. In the past, if such a daughter was born in the family, it would be difficult for the entire family's daughters to get married in the next ten or twenty years, and the village would even have nothing to do with their family.

They will all be affected, and they will be accused of having a bad family tradition and a bad atmosphere in the village."

"Oh, why are you talking so much about other people's affairs? It doesn't bother you. Besides, that girl is like this because she was deceived. Even if you want to talk about it, you should talk about her ex-boyfriend!"

"But we don't know her ex-boyfriend!"

…

Although they did not say anything in front of Ding Yun, there was a small shop downstairs from her house, and the door of the small shop was an important place for those people to play cards or chat. In addition, they also

It was not whispered with mouth and ears, but almost shouted with a loudspeaker, so Ding Yun in the room heard it clearly.

But Ding Yun was helpless against them.

Because she couldn't rush down and beat them up.

And these are the reasons why Xu Ping and others thought that it would be good for their daughter to leave her hometown. Living at home would inevitably hear these gossips, and it was not even easy to break up with them, and when she went to other places, it was basically

It will always be better if we are strangers.

Xu Ping and the others originally thought that six years had passed since the incident, and the residents in the community should forget about it, but they did not expect that they would come back with the person involved.

They brought up what happened that year again, and even extended the discussion to their granddaughter.

This really made Xu Ping, who also discovered this situation, very angry. She wanted to rush down and fight with them, but in the end, she was stopped by Ding Yun.

Because this kind of thing is the same as guarding against the people.

It is better to guard against the mouth of the people than to guard against the river.

It is not illegal or criminal for them to discuss things in private, but if they go to fight with them, they really violate the public security penalty regulations and cannot be stopped.

But because of this incident, both Ding Yun and Xu Ping were obviously in a low mood. At the same time, Ding Yun could better understand why the original mother tried her best to prevent the original mother from keeping the child. What the child would have to face if he stayed.

The difficulty may not only be money and energy, but the greater pressure may not come from oneself.

But it comes from the outside world.

Although many people say that you don’t need to care about other people’s opinions to do what you think is right, but it is easy to say this sentence with just a few touches of your upper and lower lips, but it is not easy to actually do it.

Who can really be completely immune to outside comments?

Sometimes parents push for marriage, or even force their children to study and enroll in cram schools. To a large extent, it may not be what they originally thought, but because of outside discussions and other people's persuasion, and because others are doing the same thing.

If they don't do the emotional push that seems to make them fall behind, parents will actively transfer this emotion to their children, and turn it into urging marriage or enrolling in cram school.

"Mom, I'll go back after a while.

I can afford to hide even if I can't afford to offend him. I don't care, I'm just afraid that if my child accidentally hears it, it will have an impact on her.

I don’t want my children to feel inferior because of me.

I’ve told you where I live now. If you miss me, you can visit me when you have time. To be honest, I don’t really want to come back during the Chinese New Year, so I’ll leave it for this year’s Chinese New Year. I’ll come back if I’m free, otherwise you

You can also take Zhu Cong to my place to celebrate the New Year.

I will bear all the travel expenses."

After persuading Xu Ping, Ding Yun had to make such a decision. Even if she didn't think about her own mood, she still had to think about her daughter. Even though her daughter might not understand these rumors yet, she still

She doesn't want her daughter to hear it often or live in an environment where people gossip about her all the time.

She couldn't possibly drive all these neighbors away.

Or hit them halfway and teach them a lesson.

Besides, she didn't plan to stay in her hometown for long, so avoiding them was the best choice.

Xu Ping felt that she could understand her daughter, so she didn't ask any questions why, but nodded directly: "It's really not good for children to hear.

In the future, you can come back when you are free. If we are free, we will visit you. I will retire next year. If you don’t have time to take care of the children, I can help you take care of the children later. Anyway, I don’t dare to rely on your brother to study.

Whatever happened to him, I can worry less about it."

"When you retire, live a good life for yourself.

There is no need to make trouble for myself anymore. I will take care of the child by myself. She will go to elementary school next year anyway.

Not that difficult to take care of.

Moreover, the children are sensible and not troublesome.

If you want to go out and play, I will sign up a tour group for you when you retire, and you can go and have fun with the tour group.

Anyway, just be happy on your own.

I'm living a pretty good life, nothing happened."

Ding Yun did not say that she had opened two companies, because the source of her entrepreneurial capital was hard to say, so she had previously only said that her job was easy, she earned a lot, and it was easy to raise her children alone. Now she heard her mother express her willingness to retire.

He helped her take care of the children, and even advised her mother to stop looking for trouble for herself after she retired. If she did a lot, no one would necessarily appreciate it, so it would be better for one generation to take care of another.

But Xu Ping, at this time, waved her hands repeatedly:

"No, no, why are you traveling? If I go traveling, what will your father and your brother do?

They are not allowed to starve to death at home.

If I'm not at home for two or three days, they can make the house look like a doghouse. Let's forget it. I just have to work hard, so that's it. You just stay at home, and I'll go downstairs to buy groceries.

Be back soon!"
Chapter completed!