(Global Village Department Chat Room Notes vi)

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103. Get the certificate

Ruohong: Hello, uncle and aunt! We are here this time to ask for advice from our uncle and aunt. Jianqin and I discussed that we would like to apply for a marriage certificate in the near future.

Huilan: Marriage is a major event in life, are you both considering it?

Ruohong: We have been in love for three years and have a deep understanding of each other.

Huilan: Have you had a fight in three years?

Ruohong: I haven’t had a quarrel once, we get along very well.

Huilan: Jianqin is immature and can’t cook at all.

Ruohong: I can cook, you don’t have to worry.

Huilan: But you have to learn to do it too. When you have children in the future, you can’t always order takeout if you are on a business trip.

Jianqin: There must be a road before the car arrives at the mountain, so there is no need to worry about this. I didn’t know how to cook back then, so didn’t I learn it after getting married?

Huilan: When young and immature, you must learn to be courteous to each other.

Jianqin: We have entered society, and it will be a matter of time before we mature.

Ruohong: As long as you are filial and not betrayal, you can take anything lightly. If you turn big things into small things, you have nothing to be petty.

Jianqin: Neither of these points will happen to me. What I value most is family affection and sincerity.

Jin Yu: History is surprisingly similar. No matter how the world changes, the essence has not changed at all. I also viewed marriage this way more than 20 years ago.

Huilan: Filial piety and not betrayal are the cornerstones of marriage. It’s not just that you value others. Jianqin is looking for his lifelong partner according to his father’s shadow.

Jianqin: The foundation stone is not reliable, nothing is good.

Jin Yu: There is another indispensable thing, no one can live well without it.

Jianqin: Does Tutu say trust?

Jin Yu: Mutual trust is of course very important. If a lack of trust, it is inevitable to cause suspicion. Suspicion causes misunderstandings and the harm is also considerable. From state affairs to family, big unjust, false and wrong cases may lead to the disappearance of life. Similarly, misjudgments between husband and wife can also hurt feelings and health.

Ruohong: Uncle is right. Mutual trust and mutual understanding will be enhanced to improve feelings and reduce misjudgments.

Huilan: When encountering something unpleasant, don’t rush to draw conclusions. Calm down and think about it, it will be bright.

Jianqin: The picture is generous, and Ruohong is generous. We can all be open-minded and plan the future carefully.

Huilan: After getting married, housework will come one after another, are you mentally prepared?

Ruohong: I have been doing housework since I was a child, so I can rest assured as uncles and aunts.

Huilan: You have all grown up and make your own decisions. We hope you will be happy.

Jin Yu: Be filial to parents and love each other, respect leaders and unite colleagues, and do not forget family and friendship. In addition, there is another important thing, and it is not ambiguous at all. We often say that students should be encouraged and criticized less. Similarly, couples should also encourage more and complain less. If they complain too much, they will also create cracks, which is not conducive to the construction of a healthy family in physical and mental health.

Huilan: We don’t ask for much, I hope you will be happy.

Ruohong: Thank you uncle and aunt, we will always remember it.

Jianqin: Don’t worry, Tutu, I will definitely live up to my mission.

(End of this chapter)
Chapter completed!