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Chapter 638 Negative Education Single Mother (10)

Yin Yin panicked and said distressedly: "What's wrong, why are you crying?"

Could it be that her tone just now or was too heavy?

She knew that Yin Yu and Yin Cheng had always fallen into the denial of the original owner. In the original owner's opinion, Yin Yu and Yin Cheng could not do the kind of excellence she wanted, so what they gave to the two children had been denied, and no matter how good they did, they could not change it.

The original owner had good requirements for the two children, and her personality was the kind of complaining type, so she did not allow the two children to make mistakes. Even if it was a little bit of mistake, she would scold her for a long time.

This also led to the two children's intimacy with her. They were cautious in everything they did and said in front of the mother who should have been closest to her, for fear that they would be afraid of being afraid of doing something wrong by accident. They dared not resist and developed a cowardly personality.

They were denied by the original owner and were constantly undermined by their self-confidence, so they felt that they were not outstanding enough and were inferior.

But everyone has their first time, and they can do everything at the beginning. Children can’t do it. Don’t parents teach them patiently? If parents and children start on the same starting line, it’s not certain who is better than who is capable.

Besides, even if it doesn’t work, no one stipulates that people must be omnipotent. Everyone has something good at it. If they are not good at it, as long as they can realize their value in a certain field, they are a good person.

During the learning stage of children, what parents should give the most is patience and encouragement, rather than accusation and criticism. Yin Yin dislikes the latter.

Moreover, who in this world can't make mistakes? Why is the original owner turning a blind eye to his mistakes when he makes a mistake, but he is so harsh when his child makes a small mistake, or even accidentally breaks a cup?

A small mistake can be forgiven and corrected.

A big mistake has the chance to be forgiven.

All mistakes are not a big deal in the face of life and death.

The ending of the two children in their previous life is also related to their personalities. If Yin Yu had not been disgusted with the original owner, Yin Yu would not have been afraid of marriage because of the original owner. She might have a happy life with Ling Jin. If Yin Yu was not cowardly and had his own opinions, he would not have been so humble in front of the scumbag husband and in-laws, afraid of being abandoned.

If Yin Cheng was not cowardly and inferior, he would not have been easily deceived when the pseudo-Holy Virgin girl appeared, and he would not have been unable to bear it and died with her.

Therefore, Yin Yin does not agree with the original owner's education method, but now Yin Yu and Yin Cheng's personalities have been influenced by the original owner. What Yin Yin can do is change the education method and give affirmation and encouragement to the two children.

At this time, Yin Yu raised his red eyes and confirmed to Yin Yin: "Mom, don't you really blame me?"

Yin Yin saw in a trance that because she was accused, she would apologize habitually every time her mother hadn't spoken.

But her eyes were full of hope at the beginning. She hoped that her mother could say to her "It's no big deal", to say to her "Just be careful next time", and to say to her "It's okay, everyone has times to make mistakes."

But what Yin Yu got was blows again and again.

And this time, Yin Yin finally said "it's okay" to her, but she went from desire to being unsure, so she was sure again.

How afraid of being blamed and how used to being blamed, she didn't believe it at the first time without blame and disappointment.
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