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When I didn't know enough, I thought I had found my soul mate and got married in a hurry. After getting along for a while after marriage, many women would find that their lovers were not as good as they thought.

He doesn't look handsome when smoking. He can win some dates occasionally and lose money every day. He can fart and grind his teeth. He doesn't like to brush his teeth. The smell in his mouth can kill people. He can do that thing and explain it in two or three times. He will be flawed everywhere in his body.

Unfortunately, I have to be beaten, slapped, beat my chest, kicked my stomach, grabbed my hair and hit the door, and hit the wall. I will not feel sorry for anyone at all.

It is this group of people, among which a considerable proportion of marriages are unhappy. They have the shortcomings of submissiveness inherited from the previous generation, the idea of ​​divorce being embarrassing, and the greatness of silently enduring for the sake of their children.

They will not choose to divorce easily, but their misfortune of marriage has been shown or told to the generation of women who are about to enter the age of marriage.

Women born in the 1975-85 stage are affected by them and other social realities, as well as from childhood to diversity, material and living standards, and have realized the benefits of being rich from childhood, and their desire for money is engraved in their bones.

At the same time, they are in a period of rapid social change. Whether in childhood, youth or youth, they are facing a whole new world, completely different from the world where their brothers and sisters have been changed.

For them, the word "stability" is no longer applicable. The package distribution is gone and the university has expanded its enrollment. It seems that making money is not as easy as before. It is floating in big cities, getting up early and working late a month, rushing to and from buses and subways, and spending two or three hours on the road to get off work for two or three hours. It is exhausting. By the end of the month, if you don’t save money, you can’t save much money.

There is another very important thing, the house.

Without a house, your heart will always be floating, and there is no place to place it. You know how expensive the housing prices are now. Most people don’t eat or drink a month or buy a square meter. After eating and drinking, it’s amazing to save two or three square meter a year. This is still the premise that the housing prices do not rise.

But the reality is that housing prices are rising, and they are rising at a desperate rate. Both men and women are good, and most of them are impossible to buy houses in big cities by themselves.

In addition, the wealth and poverty have intensified again, but the lives of the rich are revealed in front of them in various ways. The strong contrast has caused many women's outlook on life to collapse and made their view of choosing a partner to be perfect.

The other party has a higher education than himself, a height of 1.8 meters, a good figure, a good sense of clothing, no smoking, no drinking, no gambling, a sense of responsibility, can make money, have a car and a house, and also look good. The most important thing is to love yourself.

Usually, women who have this idea look average, have average cultivation, and have average body management in real life. Most people like to watch dramas, eat snacks, and fantasize that the male protagonist in the plot is her boyfriend.

They often don’t like socializing. If they are a socializing person, they will clearly recognize the true appearance of real life, but women who don’t like socializing will only fantasize.

Why is women’s mate choice like this? They often regard themselves as important, have low requirements for themselves, but have surprisingly high requirements for others, and have multiple reasons.

First of all, human nature means that we have low requirements for ourselves and high requirements for others, not only in choosing a spouse, but also in our daily interpersonal communication.

When you make a mistake, you will excuse your own crime in your heart, but once others make the same mistake or smaller mistakes, they will be amplified. When others achieve success, some people will wonder if she would have achieved such results if her family had not been in good condition. If I had the conditions for her, I would have done better than him.

Women nowadays emphasize that they should be given meticulous love, and that is, they should be the one who is being taken care of, that is, they emphasize the importance of themselves and ignore the exchanges in interpersonal relationships.

Secondly, due to the development of the Internet, especially the emergence of blogs, more and more women with imperfect marriages have posted articles to teach other women how to fall in love, what kind of view of love, what kind of view of choosing a partner, and in order to get more clicks, such articles often stand alone on the side of women, because women have the strongest consumption capacity in the world, and women's emotional needs are also quite strong.

When I was browsing forums and blogs, I found that the theory of solo pets and love secrets are now popular. These remarks often blindly elevate women, make women feel recognized and tend to be controlled by these remarks.

A person's thoughts and behaviors are very easy to be dominated by the surrounding environment. When one of your friends is a fat man, the probability of your fatter will be greater than that of ordinary people. When your friends smoke or take drugs, the probability of your despair will also increase.

When a woman comes into contact with that kind of speech every day, her thoughts and behaviors will change unconsciously, and she will also feel that she has understood the truth of the world, becomes arrogant and arrogant.

Many women are not really sure what kind of person they like. Without getting along with others, it seems that only by following the public's thinking is the safest and safest.

Therefore, low requirements for themselves and high requirements for others become their only criterion for choosing a partner. They do not understand what intimate relationships are, and some have never even been in love.

Another reason is mainly reflected in urban women. They are lucky enough to catch up with the popularity of the saying that they have raised their daughters with wealth. Many girls are little princesses at home and have never suffered any hardships in their lives, so don’t expect them to suffer with their partners.

They don’t want to change their previous lifestyle, and don’t want to be a bad wife who works hard with their partner. They just want to find a partner who is no worse than themselves, and preferably is much better than themselves.

The current mainstream view of women choosing a partner is the worst situation for women. I can’t change the worse situation, so I want to achieve a better life by marrying.

The idea is like this. Some people just stay at the same time and don’t make it concrete. This is what I mentioned earlier, who eats snacks and watches dramas. They can only fantasize that they are God’s illegitimate daughter, and their good partners will be blind and find them accurately in the vast crowd.

Some people will be concrete, and they will take action and work hard, but most people don’t know which direction to work, and they can only bump around like a headless fly.”

Nan Yi picked up a piece of Ruyi cake from the plate and stuffed it into his mouth and took a small bite. Then he put it down, "Now, let's go back to your big list. It is actually a concrete concept of the view of choosing a partner. Everything is working hard for his daughter to marry into a wealthy family in the future.

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Wen Wan didn't understand Nan Yi's operation very much.

"Huayi has already gotten on the right track, and there will be a lot of dividends every year. Will you be too impulsive to do this at this time?"

"It's not impulse." Nan Yi waved his hand, "I'm called retiring after success. My original intention of creating Huayi was to contribute to the development of the country's semiconductors. Now Huayi is on the right track. My initial investment has also been rewarded. There will be a good dividend every year in the future. I am content. I'm relieved to hand it over to you."

Wen Wan pondered for a long time, sighed and said, "You really want to bear it."

"Haha, rich and willful."

"Do you want to hold a donation ceremony?"

"Farewell, I went into the village quietly. I don't want to shoot. Hua Yi and Nanxin, these two names are enough."

Wen Wan said: "The statement announced by Nanxin's Nan is not your Nan."

"I just think I love someone."

After chatting for a while, they communicated a major event. After Nanyi left the Taihu Golf Course, he appeared at another golf course. Ai Jia and Liu Zi were also there, and the two of them fought for the final battle on the green.

The two of them came to Jinling with Nanyi to meet Zhang Ning of Jindong Electric Appliances, but they were very particular about meeting each other and could not go directly to each other's company, which would seem too good and would easily be suppressed by each other when negotiating conditions. So the two went straight to Gusu, first played golf here for two days, adjusted their mood, and then asked Zhang Ning here to play basketball and discuss heroes.

Nanyi took a look at the green from a distance, then went to the bar in the club area to find Li Jialong to reminisce about the past.

Li Jialong left Dream Town and came to Gusu to compete for the head of the Lijiapo Industrial Park in Jinji Lake. After the competition was successful, he stayed here to be responsible for the affairs of the industrial park. He did not climb to a higher position in Temasek, but instead stood still and shifted his mind to his investment business.

Fengxin Investment cooperated with Li Jialong's Lion City Asset Management in multiple projects. Li Jialong has a reputation today, but his wealth is not large.

Lion City Asset Management manages more than US$10 billion in funds, and the funds mainly come from wealthy people in Southeast Asia. Others stay in Susu, but it does not prevent them from establishing good connections in Southeast Asia.

After the greetings, Li Jialong asked, "Are you familiar with Dog Dong?"

"You want to invest?"

"Goudong is looking for investment, and I have received an investment plan here." Li Jialong said.

"Oh, I'm not very familiar with it. I don't care about the development of e-commerce. I know Liu Daqiang a little bit. I have worked with him for a while."

"How are people?"

"It happened more than ten years ago. At that time, he was still a college student and a young man. In the past so many years, he should not be the same as before." Nan Yi waved his hand, "I'd better not mention it, so as not to affect your judgment. If you want to invest, just let your people come into contact with you and make an assessment."

Li Jialong nodded, "This is for sure, are there something wrong with you when you come to Gusu this time?"

"There is something wrong with Jinling. I came to Gusu just to see you. I haven't seen you for almost six or seven years in a flash, right?"

"It's not that long. In 2003, I went to Beijing to find Wei Jing, and we had dinner together."

"When did the capital city be lifted?"

"Yes."

"It's been quite a long time."

The two who hadn't met for a long time entered the nostalgia stage in a short while. During this period, Nan Yi met many old friends whom he had not met for a long time. He was already familiar with nostalgia. He went to a bar, had dinner, and drank tea. After a whole process, it was ten o'clock in the evening again.

Nan Yi didn't want to fall asleep yet, so he found a taxi driver to inquire about the way and came to a bar called Back Street.
Chapter completed!