Chapter 333: At least fall in love first

Author: Tang Juyi

Chapter 333: At least fall in love first

As soon as Chrissy's mother finished speaking, the scene immediately became quiet for a moment.

Soon, Chris smiled and said to her mother: "Mom, it's okay, Qiang and I just had a little conflict before, and he was upset, so he said that on purpose.

In fact, our relationship has always been very good, right?"

Speaking of this, Chrissy looked at Hu Qiang and glared at him, obviously asking Hu Qiang to come back quickly.

Hu Qiang was a little hesitant, not knowing whether to follow Chris's words or stick to his own opinion.

In fact, what Hu Qiang said just now was just impulsive after being forced by Chrissy's mother.

Of course, from the bottom of his heart, Hu Qiang really didn’t want to continue playing, but he also didn’t want to irritate Chrissy’s mother.

Now Chris wants to get back together on her own, and Hu Qiang doesn't know what to choose for a while.

"Qiang, talk!" Seeing that Hu Qiang kept frowning and not speaking, Chris urged, "You were just talking in anger, right?"

Speaking of this, Chris came to Hu Qiang and whispered to him: "Don't forget my mother's situation, help me!"

Just when Hu Qiang started to feel embarrassed, Chrissy's mother suddenly said: "Okay, Xiaojie, don't embarrass him. It's already this time, what kind of lies are you telling? Do you really think that we are old fools?"

"Mom!" Chris looked at her mother, "Actually..."

"Okay!" Chrissy's mother waved her hand, and then pinched the bridge of her nose with the other hand, "I don't want to hear your lies anymore, tell the truth."

"Yes." Chrissy's father also spoke at this time, "Xiaojie, stop insisting. To be honest, I can't stand it anymore."

Speaking of this, Chris’ dad added:

"Don't worry, your mother is not angry yet, because when we came here, we had already considered the matter of you finding someone to pretend to be your boyfriend, and we were mentally prepared for it. But if you continue like this, let alone your mother, I will be angry.

Got it!"

Chris's eyes widened: "What, when you came here, you already considered that I would find someone to pretend to be my boyfriend?"

Chrissy's father nodded and sighed: "More than that, we suspected that the boyfriend you told us in the video was fake, but we were just not sure, so we took this trip to Shanghai.

"

Chris frowned, then looked at her mother: "Mom, you just said that when I sent you the group photo last night, you noticed something was wrong. What was wrong? Where was the flaw?"

Chrissy's mother shook her head and was about to speak when she suddenly remembered something.

Chrissy's mother turned to her wife and said, "Lao Yuan, take Xiao Hu out for a walk while I talk to my daughter alone."

Chrissy's father smiled, and then said to Hu Qiang: "Xiao Hu, why don't we go out first and find a place to have a cup of tea? Let's chat by the way?"

"Okay, no problem." Hu Qiang immediately smiled and nodded, "I know the cafe here is quite good. It not only has coffee, but also a lot of good tea. How about we go there and have a seat?"

"It's my wish, but I don't dare to ask for your attention." Chrissy's father chuckled, "Then let's go and leave this place to them, mother and daughter."

After saying that, Chrissy's father and Hu Qiang left the room hand in hand.

After they left, Chris's mother smiled slightly and said to Chris:

"Daughter, they are all gone, and I want to tell you something heartfelt.

In fact, if you had ever been in a serious relationship, you would know what the problem is, but you haven't, you have no experience in love at all, so you made some basic mistakes."

Chris was stunned: "What do you mean?"

Chris's mother continued: "It's very simple. When people get along with each other, they must follow a certain social distance. Different relationships have different distances.

This sense of distance is often a subconscious manifestation. Unless you realize it and perform it deliberately, you will often subconsciously keep a certain distance from the other party.

For example, between you and ordinary friends, you will subconsciously create a social distance and not get too close to each other.

And I am your mother. When I am with you, I will subconsciously feel closer to you. For example, if I subconsciously touch my hands and pat my shoulders, it will not be a problem.

But the relationship between family members is not the closest. The most truly intimate relationship is actually the relationship between lovers.

Just like this photo!”

Speaking of this, Chrissy's mother took out her mobile phone and pulled up the photo of her and Hu Qiang that Chrissy sent yesterday.

"Look." Chris's mother pointed to the photo and said, "Although you two are sitting together, there is a big gap between your bodies and you are not right next to each other. This shows that your relationship is not too close.

.

If you had just met, you would have subconsciously distanced yourself, but you have known each other for half a year. Normally, this should be the best time for your relationship.

But even so, there is still a subconscious distance between you, which is very problematic.

Of course, just this photo cannot explain the problem. After all, couples are also more restrained. Otherwise, there would be no such word as treating each other as guests.

But the way you looked when you walked in today, I knew you two were a fake couple."

Chris frowned: "Is there anything wrong with the way you looked when you entered?"

Chris's mother smiled faintly: "When you entered the door before, you were in front and he was behind. Then when you walked in one after another, you were half a body apart from each other. This was obviously an ordinary social distance, and

It’s not the distance between lovers.”

Chris frowned and said, "Isn't this nothing? Among many couples, when the man meets the woman's parents for the first time, it's normal, right? It's normal for the man to be more restrained and restrained? He can't kiss me in front of the parents, right?"

Chrissy’s mother was stunned for a moment, then immediately shook her head: “This, of course, is not just visible from this, but also from observing your movements, demeanor and micro-expressions.

From your movements and expressions, I can see that Xiao Hu's movements are a bit stiff and unnatural, and you are a bit uneasy."

Speaking of this, Chrissy's mother sighed: "Xiaojie, you are my daughter, I have watched you grow up, and I know all your subconscious actions.

When you are nervous, you will subconsciously brush your hair around your ears.

This time when you brought Xiao Hu in, you subconsciously stroked your hair by your ears, which clearly showed that you were nervous.

If it was normal nervousness, that would be fine, but you deliberately behaved naturally and even grabbed Xiao Hu's hand on purpose.

When you grabbed Xiao Hu's hand before, I saw Xiao Hu shrinking back subconsciously before he was held by you, and his subsequent behavior was also very unnatural.

It’s just one thing, so many unnatural things add up to make it very abnormal.”

"So you just deliberately pushed for the marriage right away?" Chris asked, "Actually, you wanted to make a final verification to see if we were serious?"

"Yes!" Chris's mother smiled, "If you were real, then Xiao Hu would be fine, but his expression changed at that time, and he was evasive. At that time, I knew that you were fake.

.”

"Awesome!" Chris clapped her hands, "Mom, it would be a shame if you didn't become a detective."

Chrissy's mother shook her head: "I didn't want to either, but you lied to me again and again, and I had to suffer from a long-term illness."

"Mom." Chris stopped pretending this time. She walked over, sat next to her mother and held her hand. "I didn't mean to lie to you, but you kept urging me, urging me.

, it made my head hurt, so I came up with this strategy out of desperation."

Chrissy’s mother sighed and patted the back of Chrissy’s hand:

"Xiaojie, Mom also knows that it's not good to rush to get married, and I don't want to keep pushing you to get married. It's annoying for me to see this kind of thing.

But there are some things that are often confused by the authorities but clear by those on the sidelines, and the words of the old people are often reasonable.

I know that you young people now like to be independent women and single aristocrats.

But Xiaojie, just listen to those poisonous chicken soups, but you must not believe them yourself.

This woman should fall in love in a serious manner, find a partner in a serious manner, get married in a serious manner, and then have a baby honestly. This is true happiness.

You are still young now and do not feel the importance of family and relatives.

But if you are as old as us, unable to do anything, and still sick, you will know the importance of family.

When you get old, our old couple may have left long ago and can no longer take care of you. At that time, who can be by your side to take care of you? Isn’t it your wife and your children?

Don't listen to the idea of ​​entering a nursing home. That kind of thing is totally unreliable.

Do you really want that kind of life when you grow old and be alone, without a wife or children?"

Chris bit her lip and lowered her head: "Mom, to be honest, of course I also want to find a serious boyfriend, have a good relationship, get married and have children, but, in this kind of thing, there has to be some fate.

?

I can't feel that I've reached my age and just go to the street and pull someone over, right?

When looking for a partner, you have to make sure you are pleasing to the eye. Otherwise, if two people are arguing together all day long, it would be better to be alone.

So, it’s not that I want to be a single aristocrat, nor that I don’t want to find one, it’s just that I’m too busy with work and don’t have time to look for someone everywhere, and even if I look for someone, I can’t find the right one.”

Chris' mother frowned: "Then what do you want? Are there any standards? If you don't have time, I can help you find it."

Chris sighed: "Actually, I don't have any standards. I'm a man. I don't have bad habits. He can't be shorter than me. My education level can't be much lower than mine. At least I have gone to college. Then, just be nice to me."

"That's all?" Chris' mother asked.

"That's all." Chris nodded and said, "By the way, it has to be pleasing to my eyes. If I feel uncomfortable looking at it, that's not okay."

Chrissy's mother shook her head: "Oh, your requirements may not seem high, but they are actually very high! Let me tell you, you have never been in a serious relationship until now, so it turns out that your requirements are too high."

"Am I still asking too much?" Chris said flatly.

"I don't think it's high! I didn't ask the other person to have a higher income than me, nor did I ask the other person to have a house or a car or give him a bride price.

He's shorter than me anyway, so I don't want to be embarrassed by taking him out.

Not to mention those with bad habits. Such people will never be reliable.

Not even those who haven't gone to college. For this kind of person, after we get together, we have nothing in common and we quickly run out of things to talk about.

You see, my requirements are actually not too high, they are all the most basic.

I'm looking for a boyfriend, not a father. If the other person doesn't even have these conditions, it's better not to look for him.

In short, I will not force myself to be with someone I don’t like just to get married.”
To be continued...