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Chapter 231: How to deal with Chinese-style parents(1/2)

Qiao Weidong complained: "Tell me, this balloon is about a child's dream. Why do you insist on asking her to write down her test scores?"

"The most important thing for her now is the college entrance examination. What's wrong with writing scores? Besides, Qiao Weidong, what qualifications do you have to accuse me? In the future, you should stop hanging around in front of the child and distract her attention. I was here to encourage the child. You

If you keep being frustrated behind the scenes, will your child's grades get better?" Song Qian said angrily.

"You are simply unreasonable!" Qiao Weidong left angrily.

After Qiao Weidong left, Song Qian went to Qin Hao and told her what had just happened, hoping that Qin Hao could help her make peace.

"Teacher Qin, tell me what's wrong with today's children. They get angry when they don't do something right..."

Qin Hao interrupted rudely: "Teacher Song, as a parent, it is understandable that you want your daughter to succeed, but are you pushing Yingzi too hard? The fact that you and Lao Qiao divorced has caused unsatisfactory feelings in Yingzi's heart.

The trauma that has been eradicated may make you feel aggrieved, but have you ever thought that the mental state of adolescent children like Yingzi is extremely fragile. Now that the college entrance examination is approaching, so many pressures are stacked together. If a teenage child

If you can't bear it, have you ever thought about the consequences?"

Song Qian didn't know how to refute for a moment and just froze on the spot.

After speaking, Qin Hao ignored Song Qian's reaction and went straight to the teaching building to look for Qiao Yingzi.

Song Qian is a very strong person at heart. Ever since she divorced Qiao Weidong, she has focused all her attention on Qiao Yingzi. She thinks this is her love for her daughter, and she is easily moved, regardless of her daughter's preferences.

I don’t like it, this is also a typical Chinese parent.

The three words "for your own good" are really useful. No matter how excessive things these Chinese-style parents do, as long as they say it silently in their hearts, they can forgive themselves and then feel moved, regardless of their children's feelings.

When they arrived at the top of the teaching building, they found Qiao Yingzi squatting there crying. Qin Hao silently walked behind her.

Qiao Yingzi was a little surprised and stopped crying: "Old Qin, why are you here?"

"Your mother asked me to persuade you." Qin Hao handed her a pack of tissues.

Qiao Yingzi wiped her tears and hummed: "Why doesn't she come by herself?"

Qin Hao did not answer, but said slowly: "Hiding in a corner and crying alone is a sign of weakness. Do you expect that if you cry here, your mother won't force you?"

"Then what do you think I should do?" Qiao Yingzi looked at Qin Hao confused.

Qin Hao sat down next to her and smiled: "The great leader once said: If you seek peace through struggle, you will survive peacefully; if you seek peace through compromise, you will perish peacefully. Any rights must be fought for by oneself, and people must fight for each other.

The same goes for relationships. If you are strong, she will be weak; if you are weak, she will be strong."

"That's my mother, you said she was like a class enemy." Qiao Yingzi burst into laughter.

Qin Hao spread his hands and said: "In a sense, the relationship between parents and children is really that of class enemies."

Qiao Yingzi thought for a long time and finally shook her head: "I can't do that. My mother has already lost my father. If she loses me again, she will collapse."

Qin Hao secretly sighed, how could Song Qian have such a daughter?

"Do you still remember the story I told you about the twenty-four filial piety in ancient times?" Qin Hao asked.

Qiao Yingzi nodded.

Qin Hao tapped her head lightly: "Sometimes I really want to open your head and see if there is an ancient soul living inside."

"As an adult, your mother's psychological endurance must be much stronger than yours. Secondly, in modern society, there is no need to rely on clans for survival. People are independent of each other. No one can live without one. If If you still want to continue to fulfill your dream of spaceflight, you must learn to defend your dream, otherwise you will have to live according to your mother's will and live your life as she wants."

Qiao Yingzi struggled in her heart after hearing this. She didn't want to make Song Qian sad, but she was not willing to become a puppet. She had to make a choice between family love and dreams.

"But, what should I do?" Qiao Yingzi nervously pulled Qin Hao's sleeve. She had no experience in fighting and didn't know how to fight against Song Qian.

Qin Hao said sternly: "In fact, the confrontation between children and their parents is often about who is more ruthless. As long as you grasp the things that your mother cares about most and contradict her a few times, she will make concessions."

"What my mother cares about most is my study?" Qiao Yingzi asked blankly.

Qin Hao shook his head: "No, what she cares about most is controlling you. You are still underage, so if you want to get rid of her control, you need someone's help."

"My dad?" Qiao Yingzi's eyes lit up.

Not satisfied, he immediately added: "But my father is like a cat seeing a mouse when he sees my mother. Can he do it?"

Qin Hao chuckled: "Believe me, for caring about little cotton-padded jacket, dad is the most powerful creature in the world!"

Qiao Yingzi burst out laughing: "It sounds like you have a daughter."

"Perhaps, it happened in my previous life." Qin Hao said lightly.

In a restaurant box outside the school, Qiao Weidong hurried over in a hurry. As soon as he entered the box door, he said worriedly to Qiao Yingzi.

"Eiko, how are you? Are you okay?"

Qiao Yingzi held her father's arm: "Dad, I'm fine. I just want to ask you for help."

"Hey, I'm shocked. You have to tell me everything in person. If you call me, my dad will live through fire and water." Qiao Weidong breathed a sigh of relief, then patted his chest and said.

So Qiao Yingzi told Qiao Weidong the plan made by Qin Hao.

Qiao Weidong felt a little regretful when he heard this. He had just spoken too much. He was afraid of Song Qian from the bottom of his heart and had developed a habit over the years.

When Qin Hao saw Qiao Weidong starting to back off, he winked at Qiao Yingzi.

Seeing this, Qiao Yingzi shook Qiao Weidong's arm and acted coquettishly: "Dad, you just said that you would do anything to help me, but you are not willing to help me with this small favor?"

This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! "However, when your mother and I separated, we agreed that the custody rights would belong to your mother. It would be unkind to break the promise now. Besides, after all, your mother After taking care of you for so many years, am I afraid of hurting her heart?" Qiao Weidong comforted her.

Qiao Yingzi pouted and threw away Qiao Weidong's arm: "Then you are not afraid that I will be sad? You haven't seen that my mother looks at me like a thief now, and she makes me some medicinal food and drinks all day long.

It made me almost vomit, and she was so moved that I no longer even have the right to eat fried dough sticks. Dad, if this continues, I will definitely become depressed."

Qiao Weidong panicked when he heard this, and quickly comforted him: "No, Yingzi, please don't think like that. Dad must be on your side unconditionally. In this way, Dad will risk everything. As long as you give me a call, I will immediately

Come here and I will never let your mother force you again."

"That's pretty much it. Thank you dad, you're the best." Qiao Yingzi immediately smiled.

In fact, Qin Hao's plan was very simple, which was to set up a target for Qiao Weidong and let him pretend to compete with Song Qian for custody rights, in order to suppress Song Qian's growing desire to control Qiao Yingzi.

The main reason why parents have so much control over their children is that the children have no financial ability and can only rely on them to live. However, Qiao Yingzi also has a father. With Qiao Weidong's financial strength, Qiao Yingzi can completely let Qiao Yingzi live a carefree life.

The life of the rich second generation.

Qiao Weidong smiled happily when he saw his daughter, but his face was full of sadness. In fact, he still had Song Qian in his heart. In this way, his dream of reuniting with Song Qian was undoubtedly shattered.

"Well, Yingzi, please get in the car and sit for a while. Dad and Teacher Qin have something to say."

After eating and drinking, Qiao Weidong sent Qiao Yingzi away when he left, and then stared at Qin Hao with big eyes.

"Teacher Qin, we had no enmity in the past and have no enmity in the present. Why are you hurting me?"

Qin Hao laughed and scolded: "Old Qiao, don't be ignorant of good and evil. I am here to help you. Why did you divorce Song Qian in the first place? It's not that you can't stand Song Qian's control. Now you also see that Song Qian controls you.

All that energy was used on Yingzi, and the root of this matter lies with you. If it weren't for your connivance with Song Qian over the years, would Yingzi have suffered this? Are you unjustly accused of taking this blame? "

"What you said...is somewhat reasonable, but you know that I feel shorter when I see Song Qian. What if I become timid when the time comes?" Qiao Weidong was depressed.

He scratched his forehead.

This is true. With Song Qian's momentum like the Lion's Roar from Hedong, if Qiao Weidong lost the momentum at the beginning, it would be difficult for him to fight again in the future.

"Did you really cheat on me back then?" Qin Hao asked.

Qiao Weidong jumped up when he heard this: "Who cheats on the grandson? It was just a joke made by my friends at that time. I got a girl to take a photo of us, and Song Qian saw it so hard that I and I

She explained that she didn't believe her, and she had no choice but to divorce her. My current girlfriend, Xiaomeng, was also just last year."

"Then it's over. You obviously didn't cheat on her. Song Qian has wronged you for so many years. Why are you so short of her?" Qin Hao induced him step by step.

"Yes, why should I be shorter than her? I didn't cheat on her!" Qiao Weidong straightened his chest unknowingly.

After Qiao Weidong was taken care of, Qin Hao's plan began to be implemented early the next morning.

After Qiao Yingzi got up and washed up, Song Qian asked her to eat raw sea cucumber again, but Qiao Yingzi just held it in her mouth and spit it out immediately.

"Mom, what does this taste like? Can you try all these dark dishes? It makes me feel sick."

When Song Qian thought about releasing the balloons yesterday, she felt a little guilty towards her daughter, but she still tried to persuade her: "Yingzi, dear, these are supplements. Mom got them with great difficulty. You are now in your third year of high school and need to use your brain a lot.

You have to keep up with nutrition.”

At this moment, the doorbell rang. Qiao Yingzi rolled her eyes and immediately went to open the door.

Qiao Weidong arrived with a variety of breakfast items, such as fried dough sticks, soy milk, and steamed dumplings.

Song Qian became furious as soon as she saw Qiao Weidong: "What are you doing here?"

"I'm here to deliver breakfast to my daughter!" Qiao Weidong bravely met Song Qian's gaze, and he worked hard for his daughter.

Qiao Yingzi happily took the breakfast from Qiao Weidong, and pulled him to sit down, exchanging greetings and greetings.

"Wow, Dad, the buns here are hard to buy. How did you buy them?"

Under Song Qian's murderous gaze, Qiao Weidong tried his best to sound calm: "Hey, it's okay. Dad just got up a little early and queued up at the door at 5:30. It took an hour.

It's just my turn, so I'll bring it to you while it's still hot."

Song Qian was furious, pointing at Qiao Weidong and scolding: "Qiao Weidong, why are you so attentive here? I have been making breakfast for my daughter for so many years. How often do I not get up at 5:30 in the morning? What kind of fried dough sticks are you?

How dirty! Who knows if their oil has been kept overnight? What if Yingzi eats it and gets a stomachache? Take it away quickly!"

Qiao Weidong defended: "I bought this from a regular big store, and it must be in compliance with food safety. Besides, my daughter likes to eat this. How can I, a father, buy some breakfast for my daughter to show my courtesy?"

"Qiao Weidong, you are deliberately trying to get in trouble with me, right?" Song Qian didn't expect Qiao Weidong to be so tough today, which was a bit incredible. When she glared at him before, Qiao Weidong immediately gave in. What happened today?
To be continued...
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