Li Zhongxin didn't worry about the contact between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law like his mother and Haruko, as well as family management.

Li Zhongxin believes that their family does not have to consider the food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea now, nor does it have to consider making money to support the family, let alone who cares about the money, who spends the money, and the differences between the family management basically do not exist. Whether it is Haruko or his mother, Li Zhongxin believes that they will not have conflicts over such a thing.

However, Li Zhongxin knew that there were great differences in the living habits between his mother and Haruko, which was easy to cause conflicts.

If you haven’t lived together for a long time, it’s all good. If you live together for a long time, your living habits will be different, and then there will be some things.

According to the thinking and understanding of most people, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law originally live in different families, each with their own life background and habits. When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live in the family, there is a process of gradually understanding and adapting to each other. If they are not adaptable and cannot accept each other, they will have tension and conflicts.

Li Zhongxin felt that in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son plays a very important mediating role. If the son's intermediary role is played well, it can strengthen the emotional connection between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Otherwise, it will easily become the focus of contradictions and a dilemma of being attacked on both sides.

Despite the deep love between mother and son, it is difficult to avoid the fact that such relationships become complicated after marriage. Because couples have more common ground in activities, plans, expenses, and relationships.

On these issues, the consistency of husband and wife's views often exceeds the consistency of mother and son's views. This is because the son and mother are separated by a generation and there are psychological differences, which can easily lead to an imbalance in the role of son mediation.

If the mother does not understand, she will develop the mentality of marrying a wife and forgetting her mother. She mistakenly believes that her son’s feelings for her have been taken away by her daughter-in-law and takes her anger on her daughter-in-law.

In short! The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very difficult relationship. It is definitely not the kind that mother sees and imagines now. Even if Haruko is very well-behaved and sensible, as long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are together for a long time, there will always be some conflicts.

My mother has been a strong person all her life. It can be said that she is the kind of person who is unreasonable. Even his father cannot stand up in front of her. This shows how strong his mother is.

And Haruko! She grew up with Masako Mitsui since childhood and was spoiled as if she was a little princess. Basically, it can be said that everything needs to be given up to her, and she has never been angry since she was a child.

No matter how good Haruko has to do with her mother now, it is estimated that problems will arise after he gets married. Now his mother is too optimistic.

However! Li Zhongxin had long had an idea about such a situation. As long as he and Haruko got married, they would spend a lot less time at Jiangcheng's home, especially Haruko, so they should not wander around at home all day and have too much time with their parents.

Li Zhongxin thought this way in his heart, and this is what he should do between Wang Yaqing and Haruko.

First of all! Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must admit that the other party has an independent personality and economic status. The relationship between the two parties is an equal interpersonal relationship, rather than a relationship in which one party must follow the dominance and dominance of the other party. It is important to realize this. If both parties or one party lacks a correct understanding of this relationship and believes that the other party must or should obey and obey themselves, and thus regard this equal interpersonal relationship as a relationship of dominance and obedience, it will inevitably be manifested in actions and attitudes, which leads to the disorder of the relationship between the two parties.

Secondly, mutual respect between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law requires that the whole family negotiate and handle matters when both parties have any problems, such as economic expenses and family affairs involving the whole family, to develop a democratic family tradition; while private matters that belong to individuals should not interfere with each other and individuals enjoy autonomy.

The last point is the most important thing. As a daughter-in-law, Haruko should respect her mother-in-law more because her mother-in-law is old and has rich experience in the housekeeper. Wang Yaqing should not always put on airs in front of her daughter-in-law. She should see her daughter-in-law's strengths and respect her daughter-in-law's opinions more. In other words, both parties should cooperate and respect each other. When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together for many years, some incongruous things will inevitably happen, and at this time, both parties need to understand each other.

The so-called understanding means to consider the problem from the other party’s standpoint, to put yourself in the shoes of others, to judge others by yourself, and not to do to others what you do not want others to do to others.

Li Zhongxin said something like that when his parents said and began to abandon him optimistically. Li Zhongxin was speechless, but he couldn't say anything in such a thing, and now he can't offend his parents. If he really offends his parents, he will be the one who will suffer at that time.

Where is Haruko! Li Zhongxin feels it is easy to communicate with. After all, Haruko is now an optional person in the Chuanxin Mitsui Group. Even Masako Mitsui and Keika Komura are like this now. If there is no major action, they will just approve the documents. Almost everything is left to the people below to deal with, and they don’t care about the matters there at all.

This situation was also actively promoted by Li Zhongxin. Li Zhongxin always believed that what the highest leader should do! Not everything should be done by himself, but to leave all the things to the people below to do and pick people out of the heavy work.

Only by picking people out of the heavy work can this person have good time to think about business development, etc., instead of doing everything yourself all day long and doing everything yourself, and then there will be no ideas or ideas.

There is another saying about this matter, which means that the authorities are confused and bystanders are clear. Only by looking at the operation of their own companies outside and the development of companies outside can we have different ideas.

It is precisely for this reason that Li Zhongxin believes that as long as he talks to Haruko and Masako Mitsui, Masako Mitsui and Masako Mitsui will agree to this matter. Even Masako Mitsui will lead Meeka Komura and Rihara Hatano to China to celebrate the Chinese Spring Festival with Li Zhongxin and others during the Chinese New Year.
Chapter completed!