In the last two chapters, everyone has been discussing Xiaoshan’s issue.

Actually, I want to say that this foreshadowing has actually been laid for a long time. I won’t list the many small foreshadowings in front of me. It was originally when Song Xue and Chen Chao first met to watch the photo album.

At that time, a reader friend told me about the relationship between Li Yanan and Song Xue. I was very surprised at that time, but in order not to understand the plot, I didn’t reply. So this plot was set a long time ago, not a temporary idea or something.

In addition, many people say that Xinxin has become a naughty child now.

I don’t know how you define naughty children, and think that naughty children are naughty children? If this is the case, I can tell you very responsibly that 95% of children are naughty children.

In my opinion, only children who cause trouble for others are called naughty children.

Xinxin is definitely not a naughty child, and she is only naughty when she is with her father. She has never done anything naughty with her mother, grandpa, grandma or others. In their eyes, Xinxin is a very well-behaved child.

In addition, it is actually a sign of loving you when your child is indifferent to you. It is the same as when you were in school. If you like a girl, you always like to fight her.

I just hope to attract attention with this. There are many such examples. For example, when some children are having fun with you, they suddenly reach out to hit you and scratch them. Many adults are very angry because of this and start scolding their children loudly.

In fact, this is wrong. This is her way of expressing love. Adults will gradually alienate children from you.

Adults usually like to ask their children from their own perspectives. This is why many children's books in China now feel like they are written by adults as mentally retarded, and they always feel strange when they read them.

When you really have children, you realize that children's wisdom is not just mentally retarded adults, they have their way of thinking.

I wonder if you have watched "David Can't" or "Babe Bear Series". In the book, David, Brother Bear and Sister Bear are probably not considered good kids.

But the former won the Cadillac Award, while the latter sold 250 million copies, making it a best-selling children's books worldwide.

Education does not rely on hitting to make children remember. Some readers in the comment section said that they can’t remember if they don’t hit, but they will remember if they hit.

In fact, there are already problems with this kind of education. Why can children remember it by hitting?

This is a manifestation of no education, so education is in a worse way.

Among them, the problem of Xinxin running out privately is a big problem. Yes, the child has a problem, but is there no problem for adults?

When I ran out, the child was ignorant, so I came back and beat her up and told her that this was wrong and let her have a memory. What about adults? Do adults also have problems with improper care? Do you also have to beat her up?

A child who can reason with you can also tell her the truth. If she doesn’t need to be beaten, she will also know what can be done and what can’t be done, instead of relying on hitting to tell the child right or wrong.

Also, I will reply to the Jamie Family readers in the comment section.

Xinxin started out with timidity and introversion caused by her father and grandparents, and gradually became extroverted by her father, grandparents. This was actually because the environment changed her personality.

In addition, why is it written like this? It is also for the plot to unfold. Have you always written that she is a good baby? Every day, she gets up, eats, and reads books there. She repeats so much that she can’t write the book anymore?

I'm afraid this book will not be able to continue writing anymore, at least I will have less writing skills in children and become a commercial article.

As a novel, there are no conflicts in the adult world. No matter how dull the child’s world is, can it be written?

The most successful writing of children is probably Shin-chan and Maruko. If both of them were well-behaved and sensible children, they would have finished writing them long ago and would never have been serialized for so many years.

Are there any other people who write about children well-behaved and successful? I mean, I'm afraid there aren't people who write about children simply? Even if there are, there are some short stories.

Usually, they sell dog meat under the guise of sheep, write about their parents' love, their career, etc. If they really want to reduce it, how much content is written about their children?

There are actually many roads. Which one cannot be done or which one can be done is not what I think of, but is summarized.

In addition, I don’t agree with Xinxin’s naughty child, and I’m very dissatisfied with this. I’m just naughty child with my father? I can only say that those who say such things probably don’t have children or those who don’t have the patience to take care of the child, so I think so.

As long as the children who do not cause trouble to others are all good children, they are just like the adult world. If they do not cause trouble to others, they are the best education.
Chapter completed!