Yang Qiuru's words sounded contrary to Tao Jianzhi's opinion, but the two of them were on the same front at this moment! Tao Jianzhi quickly commented with her daughter on the topic of "women are too difficult", and she sighed while talking.

Yang Jing listened next to him. Although he didn't speak, this was the first time he was directly facing the pressure of tradition and the first time he understood the true reactions of his family.

No wonder Sister Xiaoyun is so pessimistic and has always been unwilling to accept herself. It turns out that she already knew that such an ending would be...

No wonder Ning Meng and the others are not optimistic, because they understand very well how the traditional concepts of small cities are deeply rooted...

No wonder my brother-in-law Xiong Yichao has repeatedly advised him tactfully, hinting at the complexity and difficulty of this matter...

It's really too difficult!

Yang Jing was silent. He began to think about his plan B. If he didn’t need the recognition of his family, he didn’t need to get a certificate. Just like now, it would be better to get along with Sister Xiaoyun Wuming and take practical actions to take care of her and Wanwan than to spread these out and tell her family?

The recognition of family members is tradition, isn’t that marriage certificate also a continuation of tradition?

Isn’t it enough that he truly loves Sister Xiaoyun and gives her real happiness?

Just as Yang Jing was thinking about it, Xiong Yichao spoke again.

"If that's the case, Xiao Xu and his girlfriend can't become a success? How do you think I should give him advice? I always feel that he and his girlfriend are in love with each other. If they didn't have the previous events, they would be a perfect match." Xiong Yichao touched the beard on his chin and said with great worries.

"Don't give others advice!" Yang Qiuru quickly persuaded her husband, "If this kind of thing is not easy to give advice, it is wrong no matter what you say!"

"Well, if you say you want others to break up, the young couple will definitely blame you in the future! If you suggest that they continue, if Xiao Xu's youth is delayed, will the family be happy? If Xiao Xu understands it himself in the future, he will still blame you." Tao Jianzhi also added.

"What is the key?" Yang Qiuru said, "The key is to know people and not the heart. You have never known Xiao Xu's girlfriend. You don't know her character. She gave her opinions randomly, but instead harmed Xiao Xu."

"What do you mean is that Xiao Xu's girlfriend may not be good at character?" Xiong Yichao asked thoughtfully.

"It's hard to say." Yang Qiuru shook her head, and she spoke in a more tactful way.

"Hey, what's there to be something wrong with it? She also knows her identity. She has been married, has given birth to a child, and has to be with this Xiao Xu with a stern face. How scheming is she!" Tao Jianzhi's analysis was even more straightforward.

After hearing this for so long, Yang Jing finally couldn't help it and said, "Mom, you can't say that either. People have the right to pursue happiness. What does this have to do with having been married?"

"Ah, haha, Yang Yang is also a young man, and his views are indeed different." Xiong Yichao quickly helped Yang Jing to smooth things over, haha, "But that's true. The ideas of young people are still a little different from those of our generation. Xiao Xu told me that his girlfriend is a very good person. She got married before just because she was young and ignorant."

"I think so. We can't deny a woman just because she has divorced or given birth to a child, right? Isn't this just kidnapping a woman with a marriage? If she had met a bad person before and could not divorce, wouldn't this be a bigger tragedy?" Xiong Yichao said with emotion.

"That's what I said..." Tao Jianzhi hesitated for a moment and did not continue.

Tao's mother was out of compassion for both women and could not bear to judge too much, but from her perception, women should be honest and tolerant of marriages, rather than clamoring for divorce because of a little conflict.

Everyone's marriage will have friction, and it cannot be smooth sailing. Without persistence and tolerance, those who have divorced and regrets may not be counted!

However, Yang Qiuru and her mother are not of the same generation. Although she is still traditional, her thoughts have changed a little.

Yang Qiuru said, "It's not that she denies her. She can pursue her own happiness even after she divorces. There are no regulations that women must get married and cannot get divorced. The key is to look at the person. Hey, like the colleague of our unit, Xiaoyun, mom, do you still remember it? She is not easy for her..."

Obviously, Yang Qiuru was also chatting, and as she talked, she thought of Liang Xiaoyun.

"Your colleague is different. She had to divorce her, and her character is fine." Tao Jianzhi heard her daughter tell Xiaoyun's story several times, and she immediately reacted and said with a smile.

"Yes, it's just like your colleague!" Xiong Yichao was trying to find some excuse to draw Liang Xiaoyun as an example, but he didn't expect his wife to cooperate so much.

However, Yang Qiuru frowned and said, "How can we be the same? People are different! Xiaoyun's situation is quite special, and I know her personality more well, so I dare to say that she is a good woman. We don't know Xiao Xu's girlfriend, so how can we compare it?"

"That's right, even if you are a human being, you have to depend on the opinions of Xiao Xu's family! It is said that the forced melon is not sweet, and the family has such a big objection. Why do you have to persist?" Tao Jianzhi said.

"Mom is right! This situation is too complicated and it is really hard to give advice. And to be honest, I don't think so, just like Xiaoyun. If she encounters such a difficult family, I have to advise her to think about it carefully! It doesn't make sense at the beginning. Do you still expect the man's family to be able to speak in the future?" Yang Qiuru sighed.

"It's also anger to marry. I think she shouldn't stick to it if she considers her and her children." Tao Jianzhi said.

Yang Jing was full of words and was about to refute him, but Xiong Yichao kicked his leg under the table.

No matter what they said today, Yang Jing cannot get involved. This is the condition Xiong Yichao had negotiated with Yang Jing before.

After all, Xiong Yichao was just a test today. If Yang Jing frequently expressed his opinions, Xiong Yichao could not guarantee that they would not be suspicious. Women's sixth sense is very sensitive.

So, after being kicked, Yang Jing held back his words.

"This is too difficult. After a woman gets divorced, her choices become so narrow. She can't get along with a man who has never been married. When she gets married, she is worried that she has a bad personality and is not good to her children." Xiong Yichao shook her head and sighed, "Like Xiaoyun you just mentioned, she wants to find a good family to reorganize her family, so where is there any hope?"

"So, you should not act randomly when getting married, you should think clearly. Now young people regard marriage as a joke." Tao Jianzhi said.

"I don't know how to introduce Xiaoyun to someone else. I'm afraid that others will not look down on her conditions. I can't bear to have a bad introduction. Xiaoyun is a pretty good girl. She just came out of a fire pit, so she couldn't jump into another fire pit." Yang Qiuru said helplessly.

That's why she introduced Liang Xiaoyun to work. If a woman can't find a support, she has to be self-reliant and self-reliant.
Chapter completed!