Chapter 874: Feelings are to be managed
"Mom, do you know? What happened this afternoon made me suddenly feel that my father's previous concerns were all right.
I've taken things too simple.
I think that as long as we love each other, some difficulties will slowly disappear without overcoming them.
But in fact, I only realized now that all this is just my own escape from reality.
Problems are problems. If they cannot be solved, they will always exist in your life.”
"Oh! How could you say such things?
You kid is really.
You think your father was alarmist about you before, but it was really because of worry.
Do you two have to face many difficulties in the future?
Let me tell you, don’t be deceived by his appearance. Let’s talk about it, he just annoyed that he snatched his baby daughter away. Why can’t you even see such a thing, but you still have to take it to heart?
Although I know that you, a child, have never been an unreasonable child.
But sometimes you are really too sensitive to some problems.
In fact, some things don't need to be exaggerated like this at all.
Others don’t know what our fourth brother is like to you, but I, as my sister, knows it very well.
If he takes it seriously, he really wants to dig down all his eyes for you.
If today I questioned his feelings for you just because he said something, then I would really be unable to help but say a grievance for him.
Think about it, this tiger always takes a nap.
When you are with him, can you really guarantee that you have never said anything too much?
If people care about you like this, will you be even more angry?"
"Mom, I'll ask you to be fair, okay? I'm the one who feels most wronged now.
I've never said anything to make him unhappy."
“I’m not discussing these issues with you now.
You are telling you that everyone says the wrong thing and do something wrong, why bother to be so persistent? You may not be happy even if you suffer like this. Why bother?
You know, sometimes as long as the matter between the couple does not violate the principles, there is no need to be so petty, because it will only make both of you feel very tired."
This is the first time Tang Yuehua thinks that her smart daughter, she is really not the only one who loves to be stubborn.
Look at her here, it’s just an example. When it comes to this girl, it seems that she really hit her heart and will stop doing it immediately.
This petty girl.
She was worried that if this girl didn't know how to restrain herself a little in the future, she would suffer sooner or later.
"Child, if you listen to your mother, I will never harm you.
Don’t do this, ignore people at any time. You should know that sometimes cold wars are more hurtful than quarrels.
Listen to your mother and have a good talk with him. After all, you two grew up together.
They also know each other well.
I know that no matter you or him, no matter what you say or do, there will be no bad thoughts that should not have."
"Mom, do you know?
If there is really a couple or couple in this world.
If I feel very envious of me, that is you and dad.
Seeing you never quarrel, you don’t know how envious I feel.”
Xia Weiye even felt that in Xia Zhengguo's heart, Tang Yuehua's position had long surpassed him for so many years.
Min Siyun who never forgets.
Of course, Xia Weiye never thought there was anything wrong with this.
Mom is a good woman. She deserves to cherish it like this in every way any man in the world.
She believed even more that even Min Siyun's spirit in heaven, seeing that their husband and wife look so loving, even the love will soon be crystallized, she must have wished them a happy life.
"Silly kid, no couple in this world will never quarrel.
Of course your dad and I are no exception.
We have had many disputes, but every time we quarrel, we subconsciously avoid you."
This is a consensus they have reached since they got married over the years.
Never quarrel in front of your daughter.
It is not just about maintaining her already sensitive and effective heart.
I also hope to set an example for Xia Weiye in her future marriage.
However, now it seems that this role model has done a little too much.
"How is it possible? The relationship between you two is so loving. I think it's not enough for you to stick together every day, so why do you still quarrel?"
Xia Weiye obviously didn't believe what Tang Yuehua said. She thought she said this intentionally to comfort her.
Tang Yuehua seemed to see her daughter's little thoughts, sighed and said earnestly: "Wei Ye, everyone knows that the teeth bit their tongue, and this feeling is very painful.
But can you avoid your teeth and never bite your tongue in your lifetime?
This is very unrealistic.
There will be disputes and quarrels between the couple, as if the teeth will bite the tongue.
When cooking, the spoon will touch the edge of the pot. This is a normal reaction in life, and it is no big deal.
As I said, I never think that quarrels between husband and wife will be a hurtful thing.
Instead, I have something to hold in my heart and I don’t want to tell the other person anything.
Only by guessing each other like this will the distance between you becomes farther and farther.
Therefore, I hope that while you enjoy this relationship, you should learn how to manage these feelings."
"I have it!"
When Xia Weiye wanted to refute, Tang Yuehua smiled as soon as she said it.
“I also thought that I did manage my relationship well.
I love my husband and I will love my husband's daughter.
I have been working hard to maintain the happiness and joy of this family over the years, and I am indeed managing my feelings and family with all my heart."
"Isn't it?"
Xia Weiye became more and more puzzled by her mother's words.
In terms of running a family, Tang Yuehua should be considered a successful person.
Since that's the case, why did she say such words?
To be honest, after being with Tang Xiao, she had the idea of wanting to do a good job and manage a relationship.
These inspirations come from mothers.
After so many years, she has been maintaining the happiness of this family.
It made her feel that this is something that every woman who should have wisdom should learn.
Of course, in Wei Ye's psychology, whether it is feelings or family, Tang Yuehua is undoubtedly the wisest woman in the world.
Chapter completed!