Volume VI, Section 134, Alternative Military Order
"Brother, I met Sun Yan last night." Sha Zhenggang's inadvertent words made Sha's father and mother look at Sha Zhengyang.
"Oh, she's back to the silver station, too?" Sha Zhengyang asked lightly, not even raising his eyelids.
"Well, it was a car from Audi, it should be a car from the Han Metropolitan Municipal Committee, a small car." Sha Zhenggang wiped the corner of his mouth. He didn't want to talk about this, but he thought it would be better to tell the truth about his brother and girlfriend. As for what was going on, he could only judge by himself. "Just get off the car, I met Lan Hai and I ready to get on the car, and said hello."
"Just say hello?" Sha Zhengyang asked back. If he had just said hello, Sha Zhenggang would not have been so hesitant.
"She asked me where I was now and what I was doing. I said, and she asked me if you were back. I said you were back today. I felt that she seemed a little hesitant and seemed to want to say something, but in the end she didn't say anything, she left in a hurry."
Sha Zhengyang tilted his head and glanced at Sha Zhenggang, "Nothing else?"
"That's all." Sha Zhenggang said honestly.
"My parents, don't look at me with this kind of eyes. The matter between Sun Yan and me is already a thing of the past. It's basically impossible for her and me to have anything else." Sha Zhengyang knew that his parents had a very good impression of Sun Yan, so he felt that no matter what aspect, Sun Yan was the best daughter-in-law in their minds.
The problem is that some things are not as simple as they think. Sha Zhengyang probably finds it difficult for Gu Mei and Qing Ruoli to get such high scores in his mind, family background, work unit, and aspects that may not account for as many points in his mind, but they are different in his mind.
"Zhengyang, your mother and I will not interfere in your personal life. Although we regret your affairs with Sun Yan, we also know that relationships and marriage are a big event in our life and you must make decisions by yourself. But we just hope you can make sure as soon as possible. This is not to let you choose and make decisions blindly and hasty, but we believe that our own son is so excellent, and there is no reason to find a suitable partner. Don't just treat us with too busy work, okay? I won't talk about this matter. You and Zhenggang are both responsible for it yourself, so let's have a meal."
Sha’s father’s words were straightforward, with little moisture, and his tone was very neutral and peaceful, which made Sha Zhengyang and his brothers look at each other.
Shafu's move uses retreat as advance, which makes Sha Zhengyang and Sha Zhenggang feel much pressure.
If the parents always talk, maybe the two of them will struggle to avoid it, but by opening up the topic in this open manner, people will have to pay attention to it.
The Sha family’s routine is that the reunion is on New Year’s Eve. Although today is twenty-nine, it is just a little more abundant than usual.
After dinner, Sha Zhengyang and Sha Zhenggang both consciously returned to their bedroom.
"Brother, your personal problem seems to have to be solved. I understand you very much, but you probably have to be mentally prepared for this problem, and your identity is not suitable for you to continue like this."
Sha Zhenggang knew Gu Mei, but Lan Hai also told him about Gu Mei’s family. Judging from Gu Mei’s current performance, the girl was actually mentally prepared to launch it. This is Sha Zhenggang’s judgment.
As for Bei Jinglei, Sha Zhenggang can only say that his ideas are beautiful, the reality is cruel, and there are too many differences in various factors. If both of them can come together, Sha Zhenggang really has to believe in love and fate.
According to Sha Zhenggang's idea, his brother should be down-to-earth and choose a suitable one by himself.
This suitable understanding can be very broad, like Sun Yan, who is suitable for family conditions and work, or like ordinary family work, but has good character and can take the initiative to take on the role of a virtuous man. Sha Zhenggang feels that his brother doesn't like the previous category, so the latter category should be very suitable.
Sha Zhengyang didn't want to pay attention to the other party. When was Zhenggang's turn to educate him? It was a joke.
But he also had to admit the objective reality of the other party's words. He guessed that this time Cao Qingtai and Lin Chunming would go back to Han and meet him, but he was afraid that a topic that could not be avoided and would be the highlight was his personal problem.
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"It's good that you know. I thought you really thought you could be independent in this regard and ignore traditional customs." Lin Chunming's big golden sword, his body straight, and his face looked at Sha Zhengyang with a serious expression, "Xiao Qian and you are really not destined to be together?"
"Mayor Lin, you have been young in love, right? Qian Xuan and I can talk to each other very well. Now we often contact each other, but we only talk about it. There are more topics at work, and we are also helping each other in personal life, but we really don't call us." Sha Zhengyang first stated.
"Then I remember there was a girl in Wanzhou. Well, she seemed to be a teacher, right?" Even though Lin Chunming left Hanchuan, the news was very well-informed. Although he had only been in Wanzhou for three or four years, Lin Chunming's prestige established in the past three or four years was not low, especially some leaders missed the Lin Chunming era.
Seeing that Sha Zhengyang seemed to be thinking about this question and did not answer himself, Lin Chunming became interested for a moment, "Is this girl more suitable? Is it because of a different place? You can't solve it yourself?"
Seeing Lin Chunming attaching so much importance to it, Sha Zhengyang was moved and realized that his personal problems had really attracted the attention of several leaders, and this was not a trivial matter.
"Mayor Lin, this is not the reason." Sha Zhengyang thought for a while before answering seriously: "I would say that she and I have no feelings at all, but I always feel that it is a little bit bad. Well, after being in contact for so long, I think all the conditions are quite suitable, but I just lack something. Well, to be more vulgar, the shortcomings are passionate, and there is no special feeling,..."
Lin Chunming stared at Sha Zhengyang: "Well, you probably want to talk about the feeling of love? Well, the love in your mind should be full of passion and surging. If you don't see each other for a day, it's like a second autumn, or you just see the advantages and the disadvantages, right?"
Sha Zhengyang smiled bitterly and said nothing.
"Zhengyang, I remember you had two partners, except for Xiao Sun, well, you had one at the beginning. Did that girl impress you with a very deep impression and a very good feeling, so you always want to find the same feeling as that?"
Lin Chunming's words were particularly straightforward and sharp, and he directly cut open the things hidden deep in Sha Zhengyang's heart. Is this really true? Is he unwilling to admit it?
"Then let me tell you that everyone is different. Everyone's emotional maturity at every period is different. You can't get back that feeling. You are almost thirty years old now. How can you get back your feeling when you just graduated from college and are in your early twenties? Even the same person is impossible, because you and her will never get the same again after the changes and precipitation of the past few years. The feeling you expect can only exist in your memory."
Lin Chunming's tone was very certain.
As the executive vice mayor of Jiazhou City, he took great pains to enlighten young people on their emotional problems. Both Lin Chunming and Sha Zhengyang thought it was a bit funny.
"I understand." Sha Zhengyang knew that Lin Chunming's view may not be absolutely correct, but it should be a normal and correct state. It is difficult for you to regain your original feelings, unless you can meet someone who is particularly destined to be with you, which can completely forget everyone in the past, but this is too difficult, because what you have experienced in the past and present lives is too complicated, and it is really difficult to regain the original feelings.
"Just understand, then when do you plan to solve this problem?" Lin Chunming saw that Sha Zhengyang wanted to speak but stopped, and said straight: "I won't force you, nor do you do such a bad thing as a match. What about this, what about a year and a half? Before the National Day in 1999, you must get married. Isn't this an exaggeration?"
Under Lin Chunming's burning eyes, Sha Zhengyang nodded without hesitation: "I plan to meet Sun Yan. If I still have feelings, it is her. If I don't feel it, then let's see if others can accept it. Well, in short, I will solve my personal problems next year."
"Okay, even if your personal problem comes to an end, let's talk about where you are going." Lin Chunming nodded, "I had a meal with Mao Xiangdong yesterday and told you about your affairs. There was basically no change. In early April, you may have to join the ministries and commissions, but because of the situation, he is not sure where to go, and he can't make any decisions. But I told him that it would be best if you can go to institutions such as the Development Research Center of the State Council and the Research Office of the State Council. If you can't go, you can go to the State Planning Commission, the Economic and Trade Commission, and the Ministry of Finance, etc...."
Lin Chunming obviously also knows Sha Zhengyang's strengths. In fact, going to the State Planning Commission and Economic and Trade Commission ministries and commissions seem to be very good at coming from, but you have been on duty for too short. In addition to being able to meet some connections, it is difficult for you to play a big role. Going to relevant research institutions may allow Sha Zhengyang to play his strengths on some of the most difficult or hot issues at the moment.
"Mayor Lin, it's probably not easy?" Sha Zhengyang also felt that Lin Chunming's idea was a little too beautiful and a bit idealized.
Chapter completed!