After coming out of Liu Mansion, Fang Yingwu still didn't understand what Liu Ji meant. If he couldn't figure it out, he would stop thinking about it for the time being. One day would be a year, and the situation would become clear sooner or later. However, compared with his own marriage, Fang Yingwu felt that
His father's future is more important, or more worthy of his attention.
In any case, at least as far as the current situation is concerned, I am quite popular, and it is expected that the marriage will not be too bad. It is just a matter of choice. With my own "vision", I will not run into trouble with Lao Taishan, but my father's future
But it is a bit unpredictable and the uncertainty is greater.
After arriving home, Fang Yingwu did not go back to his west courtyard. After asking the doorman, he went to the study in the east courtyard to look for his father. He asked insinuatingly: "Did your father have any heartache with Xie Qian? Someone took it.
Have you two compared it?"
Fang Yingwu had already learned the inside story from the bachelor Liu Ji, but he still came to ask his father, mainly to compare with Liu Mianhua's words and to verify what Liu Mianhua said. The ancients said that if you listen to it, you will understand.
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Fang Qingzhi sat upright, put down his book, stared at Fang Yingwu for a moment, and then said: "Stop thinking nonsense, and study hard to prepare for the exam. Next spring is the most important thing, and you shouldn't let you think about other things."
His father still refused to admit it or speak frankly? Fang Yingwu sighed secretly. There was clearly something going on between his father and Xie Qian, but he refused to say it outright. He didn't know why? It was probably because of his status as a gentleman and his face.
Don't you want to talk about this in front of us? This kind of mentality is that a gentleman is ashamed to talk about profit.
Fang Yingwu suddenly realized that it was not just his father. I am afraid that many decent gentlemen have this mentality. Because they are gentlemen, they don't talk about utilitarianism. They only talk about morality. If it involves things that are not on the table, it really doesn't matter.
When it comes to morality, it can only be a few hints at most.
But Liu Mianhua was different. He had no scruples and talked about the struggle for fame and wealth as a common matter like eating and drinking water, and did not think it was a shameful thing. Of course, he wanted Liu Mianhua to say whatever he wanted.
To cover up, the premise is that the relationship between each other is so familiar that they should be in harmony with each other.
Fang Yingwu couldn't help but secretly compare in his mind, and found that he felt more comfortable talking to Liu Mianhua... As a person who had traveled through the era of the collapse of rites and music, Fang Yingwu still had the imprint of his previous life, although he was not counted
He is a bad person, but he is indeed more accustomed to dealing with Liu Mianhua. It is too unrealistic for a person in the 21st century to be ashamed of talking about profit!
For example, today, Liu Mianhua told him straightforwardly, "Your father is qualified to compete with Xie Qian for the leadership of the Zhejiang Party, and I also want to profit from it." However, his father Fang Qingzhi was embarrassed to admit this possibility.
As if admitting it would tarnish his reputation.
There is a sharp contrast between these two completely different personalities. It is obviously the father's kind that is highly praised by today's mainstream public opinion, and it is difficult for Liu Mianhua's kind to gain the reputation of being a scholar.
When he thought of this, Fang Yingwu suddenly realized something, slapped his forehead suddenly, and shouted loudly: "That's it!"
Fang Qingzhi coughed heavily. "Speak carefully, what is your name?"
The reason why Fang Yingwu screamed was because he finally wanted to understand the meaning of Liu Mianhua's seemingly abnormal words when he talked about marriage. This doubt had been lingering in his mind and he couldn't figure it out, but it suddenly became clear just now.
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What should be consistent with the woman's personality and temperament? What should be carefully considered... The woman Liu Mianhua mentioned was not a woman, but an old man in the woman's family. She even meant him himself.
What Liu Mianmian really meant was to advise himself - "With your father-in-law Fang Qingzhi's communication, the marriage partner I find for you will probably be someone from the same profession. In other words, if there is an old-fashioned and upright gentleman who becomes your father-in-law, I will give you one word."
If you don't deal with anyone in your profession, and if you still confront you in the officialdom, can you bear it?
And I know your nature very well, and I don’t mind it. You and I can talk about problems very well, but what would happen if it were someone else? Can I still understand you like I do? "
Even though Fang Yingwu had lived two lives and had a lot of experience, he had to admit at this moment that Liu Mianhua understood the problem very deeply, and what he said was really to the point and pointed directly at people's hearts.
Marriage really cannot only focus on material things such as family, power, money, and fame. The most important thing is love... If you meet a husband who doesn't get along with you, you will often fight over ideological issues.
No matter how powerful or high-status the other person is, so what? I'm afraid it will have a negative effect, so it's better to find someone with a more harmonious character.
Fang Yingwu thought back to the people he had met since time travel. If he could talk to anyone who he could talk to most freely and least needlessly, it seemed that only Liu Mianmian was the one. Besides, even if Mr. Shang was in person, he would still have to speak.
Be careful, think it over in your mind first, and don't dare to say it out casually.
Presumably the so-called compatibility refers to himself and Liu Mianhua? Fang Yingwu continued to think, in the past Liu Mianhua's biggest advantage was his position of power, but today Liu Mianhua deliberately reminded himself that he had another one.
Competitiveness and personality issues should indeed play a large role in marriage.
Unknowingly, Fang Yingwu's inner balance once again tipped towards Liu Mianhua, and the advantage was huge. At the same time, he had to admire Liu Mianhua's skills at the pinnacle, and he could easily change his state of mind without making a move.
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From another perspective, if they really become relatives, Liu Ji can probably not follow principles and support himself even if he is scolded for forming a party for personal gain; if his father's comrades become his father-in-law, then he can only ask the other party not to treat him as his father-in-law.
It would be nice to use it as a stepping stone to build a reputation for selflessness.
Of course, he also knew that if he chose Liu Mianhua to be his father-in-law (if Liu Mianhua did not regret the marriage), it would not be without its shortcomings. Fang Yingwu, as a slightly famous young man, married Liu Mianhua's daughter as his official wife.
It seems difficult to explain to public opinion.
If you are not good enough, you will be labeled as selling yourself for glory or coveting wealth. What is more serious is that the positive image you have created before will most likely be in vain, and it may even damage your father's reputation.
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However, the other choice of Li Dongyang is not bad. If he really gives up Li Dongyang and chooses Liu Ji in the end, then it shouldn't be considered that he dislikes poverty and loves wealth. Fang Yingwu lowered his head and thought about it.
You should also be careful not to offend anyone in this matter. It is not easy to offend Liu Mianmian, nor is it easy to offend Li Dongyang. You need to plan carefully in this process, and the first thing you have to pass is your father.
Fang Yingwu left his father's study, looked up at the stars on the way back to the east courtyard and sighed. He thought that when he first traveled through time, he was an innocent and good boy, but now he has become more utilitarian. This is because he has grown up and matured.
, or was it born out of entering the fame and fortune circle? (To be continued...)
ps: It’s Monday today. The unit is busy with miscellaneous affairs. I can’t do double updates. I can barely guarantee the bottom line and fight again tomorrow! In addition, yesterday I recommended a friend’s book, and it turns out that this emperor’s thief seems to want to be a eunuch. I really didn’t mean it, it’s all the moon.