Su Lingfeng looked at Su Zhanyan and said slowly: "What if I don't accept the family master's arrangement for my marriage?"
"This...sister's idea is too bold..." Su Zhanyan couldn't figure out how his sister could have such bold and rebellious ideas?
"Bold?" Su Lingfeng curled her lips disapprovingly. Is this called bold? "Third brother, sister, I just don't want to ruin the rest of my life."
Su Zhanyan still didn't understand, "Why would you ruin the rest of your life by accepting a marriage arranged by your family? The marriage partner our family chooses for us must match us in all aspects. Isn't that bad?"
Although he sometimes regretted that he could not choose his own lover, he never thought there was anything wrong with this.
Su Lingfeng secretly sighed, listening to what this child said, he was a person without any experience in love. Although she didn't have much experience in love, she was just trying to accept Mo Wenchen in this life.
However, after all, she came from the era of information explosion in the earth world. She doesn't have much experience. There are many stories about love in novels, Internet, TV, etc.
Su Lingfeng was not too repelled by Su Zhanyan, her biological brother in this body, so she would sit here with him and have this exchange.
Su Lingfeng decided that she had to brainwash this third brother, and it would be best to make him dissatisfied with the Su family and rebel against the Su family.
"When the elders make the decision for our marriage, the first consideration is what kind of benefits our marriage can bring to the family. Third brother, don't deny this, right?" Su Lingfeng said calmly.
Su Zhanpeng was stunned for a moment, lowered his head and thought for a moment, then nodded.
Although Su Lingfeng said it very directly, it is true that marriage between families is a means to consolidate family power. In fact, it is the benefit that Su Lingfeng mentioned.
"Third brother, do you think this kind of marriage that is united by interests can be sincere and happy?" Su Lingfeng asked again.
"This..." Su Zhanyan frowned and thought for a moment before saying, "But everyone's marriages are decided by the elders. The same is true for other families. Aren't everyone living a good life?"
"What the third brother saw was the superficial calm and the helpless resignation of most people. If a family united in this way is really so harmonious and happy, why did those noble children go there one after another after marrying their first wives?
The second wife, the third wife, the fourth wife in the family...? If the relationship between two people is really so strong, can it still tolerate the intervention of a third or fourth person?"
"This..." Su Zhanyan, a newbie in love, was a little confused by Su Lingfeng.
Su Lingfeng kept up his efforts, "Take father and the ladies in the mansion as examples. From my observation, which lady does father have the deepest relationship with?"
"Father, he..." Su Zhanyan thought for a long time, and finally sighed: "I don't know, I can't see..."
As Su Zhanyan grew up, he didn't spend much time with his parents. After reuniting with his parents in the past two years, based on his observation, he couldn't tell which lady his father had the deepest affection for.
My father seems to care less about his wives than he and Yu Min, his children. However, his concern for them is only about their studies, cultivation, etc., and he never asks about their inner thoughts and opinions.
Feel.
It seems...my father is a very self-centered person. To put it bluntly, he is a person who only loves himself.
Su Zhanyan was very reluctant to evaluate his father in this way, but the feeling his father gave him was that he was such a person.
"Then, who do you think among my mother, your mother, and the third lady is the one who loves my father wholeheartedly?" Su Lingfeng asked again.
Su Zhanyan felt a little inappropriate and embarrassed about talking about their parents' love or not before talking to her sister about it. However, seeing Su Lingfeng's generous and matter-of-fact approach, Su Zhanyan admired this sister's magnanimity and can't help but also
I secretly despised myself for a moment, I was not even as good as a girl!
After finishing the self-contempt, Su Zhanyan's expression looked more natural. She thought about Su Lingfeng's question again, finally sighed and replied: "My mother, she has placed all her hopes on me. Yu
Min's mother seems to put her daughter first in everything. As for Lingfeng's mother, the Second Madam... She has been in Shengdu for so long, and she has always been stoic, as if she doesn't care about anything.
Until you came back, yesterday was the first time I saw her looking so happy..."
At this point, Su Zhanyan suddenly realized, "What does my sister mean? Between my father and several mothers, there is no love between men and women, but only a combination of interests and acceptance of fate?"
Su Lingfeng said calmly: "Maybe, I'm not married, and I don't know much about their previous problems, but I only know that I will not accept such a life!"
"I still have a question I don't understand," Su Zhanyan said tangledly: "My mother and father married because they were well-matched and accepted the arrangements of both families. Yu Min's mother, the Third Lady, was not from a very noble background and wanted to be attached.
Su family, it is understandable to marry your father, so what does your mother, the second wife, want? She is the only daughter living in Lingyun City, and she married her father as the first wife. Her father had set her up, so why would she be willing to marry her father?
What about being the second wife?"
"Before I left for Lingyun City, my mother once told me about this issue. She married my father because she had love for him in her heart at that time, so she followed him at all costs, but... after she found out about his father
The reason why the Lord married her was because of the power in Lingyun City, and he gave up."
Su Lingfeng's narrative tone was very calm, and there was no trace of injustice or sympathy on her face. In her opinion, everyone must bear the consequences of their own choices.
But when Su Zhanyan heard what Su Lingfeng said, she felt very uncomfortable. For his own benefit, his father deceived a woman's feelings and ruined her life...
"Third brother, Lingfeng will not become a victim of the family for the so-called family interests." Su Lingfeng looked at Su Zhanyan and said seriously: "My sister also advises third brother, think carefully, for this father and son are ruthless.
, siblings are merciless, grandfathers and grandchildren are merciless, husband and wife are merciless, a family that puts interests above all else, is it worth sacrificing the rest of one's life?"