Jiang only hopes that Xie Yixiao can marry someone who knows both coldness and warmth, and live a safe and smooth life. The husband and wife will live in love and harmony for a long time.
Rong Ci was not a suitable candidate in her mind.
It's too deserted.
It is foreseeable that such a man does not have much affection between men and women in his heart, and even little care can be given. No one tells or knows about his concerns, and he stays alone in an empty room and sleepless nights.
the result of.
Mr. Jiang has also suffered the hardship of holding on to an empty house, and knows how difficult it is to live like that.
Jiang refused: "He can't do it, he can't do it."
Mrs. Xie didn't expect Jiang to object, and was stunned for a while. After all, in her opinion, Rong Ci was indeed a perfect match, and others couldn't find her even with a lantern.
"I understand Madam Tai's concerns. You just hope she can live a good life." Madam Xie advised, "But you also need to understand, which man in this world is perfect?"
"Although Mr. Rong Jiu is a little more deserted, this desertedness has disadvantages, but it also has advantages. In this case, he should not have the idea of bringing back another concubine. If there is no concubine, there will be a lot missing in this inner house.
Things are going well, and life will be more peaceful."
When a woman gets married, if her husband has no concubines, her life will be half easy, and the other half will depend on her own abilities.
"Those ungrateful young men you mentioned, there are a lot of them in the imperial city. Some of them have one sister today and another sister tomorrow. They are very good at coaxing people, and they can coax the girl into ecstasy, but it doesn't matter.
usefulness."
"You are romantic and passionate. There are rotten peach blossoms everywhere. If you marry such a person, you will be angry to death."
"Moreover, Mr. Rong Jiu has become a little more quiet. No matter in appearance or character, he is first-class. And I heard from Mrs. Cao Guogong that your Majesty also agreed to this matter. Mrs. Rong Guogong then asked Mrs. Cao Guogong to agree with him.
I mentioned it."
This surprised Jiang: "Your Majesty also agrees?"
Mrs. Xie said: "To tell you the truth, if Mrs. Cao Guogong hadn't said this, our Xie family would not have dared to agree to this marriage."
Jiang was a little silent.
Mrs. Xie continued: "Mrs. Madam, I know what you are looking for. It would be best if both parties are in love with each other, and then the couple will love each other till the end of their lives and be happy for the rest of their lives."
"But you also know that such a person is actually very difficult to find. Even if there is such a person, you should also know that this person's heart will change."
"Even if they are a loving couple today, it's hard to say how much friendship they will still have when they grow old. Most of them fall in love with younger and more beautiful girls, and then take them one by one as concubines."
"At that time, the love of the past will be like a passing cloud, and only one person will be left to reminisce and resent it alone."
"Sometimes love is the most important thing. If you want it, you lose, because it may not always belong to you. It is the most painful to get it and lose it again."
"I have been married for 20 years and have never asked for any love. As long as my life is okay and there are no such messy things, I feel good. The man in my family is always busy and may not be able to care much about me. The whole family is full of people.
I take care of everything big and small."
"But I have never felt that life like this is difficult."
"Different, different..." Jiang shook his head, "I know what you are talking about. You feel that relationships are unreliable, and you want to give her stability, so that she can be stable in this life. Of course, there is no love.
But it would be great if we can live this day and live with glory and dignity."
"But me, when I think of letting her live in such a deserted life, I feel that I can't accept it. People's hearts are fickle. What you said is true, but it's just possible. Maybe it won't change?"
"But Mr. Rong Jiu's temperament will never change. In days like that, you can tell at a glance. I..."
Mrs. Xie asked her: "But where can I find the person you said 'maybe he won't change'?"
Jiang was stunned by her question.
The two drank a cup of tea and calmed down.
After a long time, Mrs. Xie said: "There is no way for you and I to hold our own opinions, and it would be a pity if we missed this marriage. In this case, why not ask Yixiao what you think?"
Jiang paused slightly: "Ask her what she means?"
"Let's see what kind of life she wants to live. If she thinks it's okay to be like Mr. Rong Jiu, we will agree to the marriage. If she thinks it's not okay, then we will reject it."
"Since it's her life she wants to live, let her choose it herself."
Jiang hesitated for a while, then reluctantly nodded: "In that case, let's ask her what she means."
Mrs. Xie smiled: "Then I'll ask her when I get back."
Jiang stopped and said, "No, no, you ask her to clean up and stay with me when she comes back. There were a lot of things in the house before, but now they have calmed down, so let her come back and stay for a few days."
"And she's about to get married. She might get married in a year or so. She won't have many days to spend with me. You have to pity me, this old lady."
Mrs. Xie's mouth twitched slightly, and she could only say: "You want her to come back. There is no problem with us here, but I'm afraid Yiling is not willing. He really likes this sister, and the two siblings are also in love recently.
, you also hope that the two siblings will have a deep relationship in the future, right?"
Jiang said: "Then let him come with me. At least he can call me grandma, and he can be regarded as Qin Se's child. This child is too reserved. When he comes to grandma's house, he can come as he pleases."
As soon as these words came out, Mrs. Xie was speechless: "Okay, I'll send someone to ask her to clean up and come back here."
Only then did Jiang feel satisfied.
Xie Yixiao was counting some medicinal materials she bought in Qingshan Garden. When she heard about this, she was stunned for a moment: "You want me to go back to Changning Marquis Mansion?"
"That's what Madam means."
Xie Yixiao felt strange: "What are you doing in the Changning Marquis Mansion?"
The maid shook her head when she heard this: "I don't know."
Since Mrs. Xie sent someone to notify her to return to Changning Marquis Mansion, presumably it was an agreement between the two of them, so she had no choice but to comply.
She asked Ming Xin Mingjing and the maid in the yard to help pack her things, then went to Tangyuan and told Mr. Xie that she was going back to Changning Marquis Mansion.
Mr. Xie gave up and just asked her to come back and see more when she had time.
Finally, she was worried that Xie Yiling would be angry if she left suddenly, so she wrote another letter to him, telling him that she would go back to Changning Marquis Mansion to stay for a few days, so that he could visit her at Changning Marquis Mansion when he had time.
After packing up the boxes and cages, she boarded the carriage and went to Changning Marquis' Mansion.