Chapter 115 In Life, You Can't Just Indulge in Love
"Grandma, wait a minute, let me take a moment." She took a breath, calmed herself down, and began to think about this problem.
Mrs. Rong Guogong liked her very much, and she knew in her heart that she was a little surprised to want her to be her daughter-in-law, but it was not impossible.
But...but...
"Is this what Mrs. Rong Guogong meant? And the Ninth Young Master also agreed?" Xie Yixiao asked the doubts in his heart.
Mrs. Jiang frowned, and Mrs. Xie also thought of this matter.
If this matter is just the idea of Mrs. Rong Guogong, and Mr. Rong Jiu doesn't agree at all, there may be some twists and turns in this matter. It will be embarrassing if it doesn't work out, or perhaps Mr. Rong Jiu is just forced to marry him back.
, what a good look this will have in the future.
Mrs. Xie pondered for a moment and said, "Probably not. Although I don't know Mrs. Rong Guogong well, she won't deceive people like that. If Ninth Young Master doesn't nod, she won't mention this marriage."
"If Ninth Young Master is forced, how will he live his life in the future? Maybe both of them will blame her. She should not do such a mindless thing."
If you force someone to be a couple and they don't have a good life, you don't have to blame her. It's simply a thankless task and will make your family restless in the future.
Jiang thought about it, and said, "But we still have to ask the matter clearly. If it is true that the ninth master nods and agrees to marry, and Gillian agrees, I have no objection. Gillian, what do you mean?"
Xie Yixiao was a little confused and couldn't make up her mind for a while. She said: "This matter is a bit sudden and I need to deal with it. You suddenly said that the Ninth Young Master wants to marry me. You can't make me agree now, right?
I always have to think about it..."
"How come you can suddenly decide on such a big thing as getting married? Even if you want to buy a box of powder, a piece of cloth, and a flower for your hair, you have to think about it before deciding, right?"
This is also true.
Mr. Jiang and Mrs. Xie both nodded, decided to let her think about it, and then returned to their seats and sat down.
Mrs. Xie said: "I will turn around and ask Mrs. Rong Guogong what Mr. Jiu means. After all, he is the one marrying a wife, and he must be willing to do so."
"Ninth Young Master, let me tell you something about him. I heard that he was raised in a temple when he was a child. His temperament is different from other people's, and he is probably a little lonely. If you want to talk about romance and love with him, I'm afraid you won't be able to.
, these days are probably going to be ordinary.”
"But since he doesn't have those romances in his heart, he won't have so many fancy thoughts. What you asked for before is that the person you want to marry is clean, preferably without concubines, and he should be able to do it here."
"He has a very good appearance. It is rare to find a young master in Mandi City who is better looking than him."
"People can be considered calm."
"Your eldest brother and I, as well as your eldest uncle, all think this marriage is a good one."
Xie Yi smiled and nodded, indicating that he understood.
Mrs. Jiang said to Mrs. Xie: "In this case, you first find an opportunity to ask the Lord Rongguo's house what Mr. Jiu means. If he agrees, let's see what Gillian means and let her think about it."
Just think about it for a few more days."
Mrs. Xie nodded in agreement: "That's OK."
Mrs. Xie sat for a while longer, then said goodbye and left. Jiang and Xie Yixiao sent her to the door. After she left, Xie Yixiao looked at the carriage going away, still a little dazed.
The sun casts down from the sky, falls on the trees, and falls on the ground through the leaves, leaving patches of mottled leaves that sway when the wind blows.
"Go back," Jiang said.
Xie Yixiao nodded, then helped her walk back to Shou'an Hall.
Just after sitting down, Jiang stretched out his hand and pressed his forehead, feeling a little tired: "I didn't want to agree to this marriage in the first place. People like him are too cold and cold. I won't treat you well in the future, and I won't be considerate and caring for you."
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Xie Yi smiled and said: "Actually, I think it's okay. I always expect others to treat me well, but in fact it's a bit vain. It's better to treat myself better."
"If the person who is truly willing to treat you without asking for anything is often the only blood relative, as for the other half, if he is willing to treat you well, then he will continue. If he is not willing, then just don't ask for anything."
"And in life, you can't just indulge in love. If you have a great future and a lot of happiness, it doesn't mean you can't live."
I want to ask if Xie Yixiao has ever liked Rong Ci?
Of course there is.
Maybe at a certain moment, she raised her eyes and saw him.
But for her, feelings are not everything, and she also knows his temperament well, and knows what he wants and wants in his heart.
She just hopes that he can get what he wants and his merits will be perfect, instead of entangled with him.
So she didn't let herself like this person.
As she said herself, people can't just indulge in love. She is still young, has a bright future, and a lot of happiness. It's not like she can't live without a man. Wouldn't it be better to enjoy life?
As for getting married, in this era, it would be very difficult for her not to get married, so she still had to get married. As for the partner, she only had one requirement, and it was also the most difficult one. She couldn't take concubines or have intercourse with her.
Of course, you also need to have a gentle personality and not hit others.
As long as the life is passable, it will be fine.
Jiang paused slightly: "Listening to what you said, do you think this marriage is a good one? Do you know what kind of life you will live if you get married? If you spend every day alone in an empty room and sleepless, do you know...
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"How could that be?" Xie Yixiao rubbed his hands, "The bed is big enough. You can probably roll around on it. I don't know how comfortable it is. Why do you want someone to squeeze in with me?"
"If it gets cold, add an extra quilt and burn a brazier or an earth dragon. It will also be very warm."
Jiang's face turned green: "What are you talking about? Is it possible that the person you marry is just a decoration?"
"No." Xie Yixiao explained in a low voice, "I just think that the most difficult thing is like that. If I can get through it, I don't think there is anything unacceptable."
The most unacceptable explanation for her was that she had a group of wives and concubines, shared the same husband with others, and played house fights all day long.
If it's just a decoration, it's no different than not getting married. Just think of living a happy life alone. At worst, whoever meets true love in the future will just break up and get divorced.
Jiang was silent for a long time: "Listening to what you mean, do you think it's okay? Have you thought about it clearly? If you make a decision, you can't go back on it."
Xie Yi smiled and paused, lowered his eyes, and then said: "If the Ninth Young Master is willing to marry me, I think it's quite good."
If he didn't mind her disturbing him, that would be fine with her.