Chapter 118 If you promise to give her love, then give her love
Rong Ci was really unsure. Ever since he agreed to this matter, he felt as if he was suspended in mid-air, unable to reach his destination.
Wondering if she will agree?
She also thought about how they would get along with each other in the future if she agreed. How could he not annoy her with his temper?
He felt that being a husband was much more difficult than being a prince.
After all, he only needs to be a good servant, make those people surrender, and then set up the rules. He should reward and punish those who deserve it. He should not treat those who have meritorious service badly, nor let off those who rebel.
Rong Xun coughed twice: "I know you want to marry Miss Xie. I congratulate you here. As for getting along, you can't just copy others. People with different personalities will naturally get along differently."
"You have a temperament like yours. If you talk more enthusiastically or say sweet words, it's really difficult for others to do. Just get along with each other normally."
"You should have gotten along with Miss Xie before, and she never thought there was anything wrong with you or felt impatient, right?"
Rong Ci recalled that the two times he had contact with Xie Yixiao, one was at Yunzhong Temple and the other was at Chuntingyuan. The conversation seemed to be quite good, and she seemed to be in a good mood, and did not feel that she was alone with him.
Not happy in one place.
"We get along with each other how we should get along. When we have free time, we play chess and drink tea together to find some entertainment. Then we just talk about some topics that the two of us find interesting. That's pretty much it."
"If you don't understand, just keep silent and listen quietly. Don't feel impatient." Rong Xun learned from the past and warned this carefully.
"But you must always care about her, ask her for her welfare, give her more gifts, and give her whatever you see that is good. No amount of good things is too much. No matter how much you say, you will never do it in earnest."
When Rong Ci heard what he said, he felt a little enlightened at that time.
Personality is not the key, he is not very good at coaxing people, nor can he say sweet words, but he can care more about her, buy her more things, stay with her more, be patient, and what he does is always more honest than what he says.
Mr. Rong Jiu felt confident and secretly breathed a sigh of relief. He felt that he had found a way and knew how to take the future.
"Thank you, brother, I understand."
Rong Xun wanted to laugh a little, but he couldn't laugh at him. After all, it was the first time for anyone to be someone's husband, and they had to figure out how to do it. He himself had to go through many pitfalls before he understood it.
It was said that he was aloof. He still remembered that he had to learn how to treat others after marrying a wife. He wanted to make others happy, but many people just married one and that was it. As for whether the other party was happy or not, and whether they lived well or not, that was all.
No matter.
"It's good that you think so." Rong Xun took a sip of tea and said, "In the past, when I married your sister-in-law, my mother told me that some marriages are for love, and some are for profit."
"If you promise her love, then you must give her love, and you will never lose it in your life. If it is for profit, just for the good relationship between the two families, then give her the position of wife and respect, and then you will accept her.
Several concubines are considered appropriate as long as they do not favor concubines and destroy wives."
"The former is not allowed to take concubines, the latter is free to take concubines."
"Although your sister-in-law and I can't be said to have a deep relationship between a man and a woman, we have grown up together since childhood. Compared with the relationship between a man and a woman, it is more of an inseparable family relationship. So as far as I am concerned, she is also the same
It cannot be ignored."
Therefore, he has never thought about taking a concubine in his life. He is extremely lucky to be able to stay with her and live a good life with her.
As for love and love, he may not understand it very well.
Rong Ci nodded: "I understand what brother means."
Rong Xun smiled again: "That's all, what's the use of telling you this? It's not easy for you to marry someone back, let alone concubinage."
"But having too many women is troublesome. There are too many wives, concubines, and concubines. Just look at the fights in the inner house. It's so annoying. If you have the energy, you might as well do more things."
Rong Ci nodded again: "What eldest brother said is absolutely true."
He thought to himself that this one would be worried. If a few more came, they would all be worried to death. It would definitely not work.
And what should I do if Miss Xie is unhappy?
Therefore, whether it is for yourself or for the girl Xie, you must not take a concubine.
The two brothers had a conversation about how to treat their wife. After Rong Ci calmly found this place and left, he relaxed a lot. He felt that the leaves were green and the sky was sunny, as if the stone that was weighing on his heart had finally been lifted.
On the way, he met Rong Ting again. Rong Ting was a little depressed and not in good spirits.
The last time Liao Wanxi stopped Rong Ci halfway, the news reached the ears of Mrs. Rong Guogong. Mrs. Rong Guogong called Mrs. Liao and Liao Wanxi to scold her. Mrs. Liao turned around and took Liao Wan with her.
Xi returned to Liao's house.
If Mrs. Rong Guogong hadn't asked someone to stop Rong Qing, Rong Qing would have been taken there by her.
And it has been almost a month now. Rong Ting has gone to invite him three times, but he has not been able to pick him up.
"Third brother."
"Ninth brother."
The two of them said hello and then went their separate ways. Rong Ci glanced at his back and didn't think he was pitiful. Maybe he was a little unlucky.
Thinking of the grievances between the Liao family and the Xie family, he paused again.
Maybe the relationship between him and this third brother will not be good in the future.
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Two days later, Mrs. Xie met with Mrs. Cao Guogong again and said that both the Xie family and Marquis Changning wanted to know whether this was the intention of Mrs. Rong Guogong alone or whether Mr. Rong Jiu also nodded.
Mrs. Cao Guogong simply asked Mrs. Rong Guogong to come over and let the two people talk on their own.
Mrs. Rong Guogong was most concerned about this matter right now, so she came quickly.
After hearing what Mrs. Xie said, she smiled: "Of course he nodded. Although the parents ordered the matchmaker to do this important matter of marriage, since they are going to be husband and wife, they cannot be forced to be together by their elders. If this is the case,
, where is the peaceful life?"
"Don't worry, although I like your girl very much, I can't harm her for the rest of her life just because I like her."
After hearing this, Mrs. Xie felt relieved immediately: "That would be great. Earlier, Yi Xiao said that if it was the Ninth Young Master who nodded, if it was the Ninth Young Master who nodded, then
We agreed."
Mrs. Rong Guogong also laughed when she heard this: "That's a coincidence. They thought of going somewhere. Our Xiaojiu also said that we need to ask Miss Xie what she means. If Miss Xie agrees, this deal
Things can be done.”
Mrs. Cao Guogong smiled and said, "Is this considered a match made in heaven?"
The three of them looked at each other and then laughed.