Chapter 563 I told him to go east and he didn't dare to go west
Although the Xie family was reluctant to leave, it was common sense for a man to marry a woman, and Xie Yixiao was married in the Imperial City, so he could see her if he wanted to, and he felt that she was indeed a good marriage, so he was mostly happy.
The one who is most reluctant to leave her is probably Xie Yiling. After a long time, her sister came back, but she will get married in a blink of an eye.
Xie Yixiao and Xie Zhuji Danshu drank two glasses of fruit wine together, smiling as they watched everyone bully Xie Yu, thinking to themselves, my third nephew has worked really hard for everyone's happiness.
After the banquet dispersed, all the female relatives in the house went back to the courtyard to take a bath, and then came to Chunxueyuan one after another.
As the sun sets and the moon rises, a bright moon hangs in the sky, and the bright moonlight shines on the courtyard.
The night wind blows, the branches tremble, the red lanterns under the eaves emit quiet light, and the four-cornered palace lanterns painted with lotus flowers on the lampstands in the room emit soft jade-white light.
Tonight, Ming Jing also rested in the courtyard. After Xie Yixiao finished bathing, she was wearing a begonia red brocade dress embroidered with golden lotus. Ming Jing took a towel to wipe her hair, looked at the person in the mirror, and smiled.
"Tomorrow the girl will get married." Recalling the events from childhood to adulthood, Ming Jing was really happy. Although she was called master and servant, sometimes she just regarded the person in front of her as her sister, especially this time
Over the past two years, the relationship has become more and more entangled.
Although she had many misfortunes, she met her wife and grew up with the girl and Mingxin, which was another kind of luck. She always hoped that the people around her could be happy.
Xie Yixiao looked in the mirror. The sixteen or seventeen-year-old girl was like a shy flower waiting to bloom. She was young and beautiful. She asked: "Ming Jing, have you ever thought about who you want to marry in the future? I just heard from the people in the building.
People said that someone recently hired a matchmaker to help you." But she refused.
"I never thought about it." Ming Jing smiled softly, "I'll wait until I meet the person I want to marry. Now I just hope to take good care of Jiangshang Qingfeng Tower."
Xie Yixiao knew that Mingjing might not want to get married because of her mother. She sighed: "Mingjing, although I don't say that you must find someone to marry, you are different from me. I come from the Xie family. If you don't
When I get married, others will criticize me and even the Xie family."
"I just hope you can understand that there are many people in the world, whether men or women, there are good people and bad people. Some people are unlucky or blind, so they meet bad people. If you meet the person you want to marry,
Don’t miss it.”
"But no matter what, happiness is more important. I hope you can be happy."
Ming Jing paused and said "Hello".
Not long after, the female members of the Xie family arrived one after another, all smiling around Xie Yi, like stars holding the moon. Xie Zhu and Ji Danshu, who were not yet married, sat aside and watched.
road.
Mrs. Wen said: "As a wife, my husband is busy outside and needs to take care of things at home. Don't learn from those who only know how to recite poems, compose poems, appreciate flowers and make moonlight, and don't care about anything else."
In families like theirs, most of the husbands will join the officialdom. Even if they don't join the officialdom, they will still help take care of the family affairs. He is busy outside, and his wife will take care of the family affairs for him. The male is responsible for the outside and the female is responsible for the internal affairs.
That's all.
Xie Yihui said: "But as a wife, you can't be too virtuous. This reputation of being virtuous and generous is meant for outsiders. You always understand his difficulties. In the beginning, he was indeed very grateful to you, but as time goes by,
, he took it as a matter of course."
Xie Yihui twisted a piece of lotus seed cake: "Sometimes you should be angry when you should be angry. There are some bottom lines that you cannot give in. The more you give in, the more the other party will push. For this couple, either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overwhelms the east wind."
Everyone laughed, Jiang Zhaoling covered her mouth and laughed: "I dare to ask the third aunt, are you and your uncle the east wind overpowering the west wind, or the west wind overcoming the east wind?"
Xie Yihui glanced at her: "What do you think?"
Jiang Zhaoling exclaimed: "Then the west wind must prevail over the east wind, and you are the one." After that, he gestured with his thumbs.
Everyone laughed again.
"Don't laugh. She is almost a virtuous wife. Don't be too virtuous. The most important thing is to feel comfortable. Don't imitate those people who swallow all the hardships and tears in the name of virtuousness."
Xie Yihui was also here, and the sisters who grew up with her lived various lives, and many of their husbands took concubines and gave birth to concubines and concubines.
She was able to let the member of her family stay with her all these years, firstly, because she was from the Xie family, secondly, because she was so virtuous and generous, and thirdly, because the member of her family still had a conscience.
Xie Yi smiled and said, "Yixiao will definitely remember what you said, and will learn to be his wife." After that, she smiled again, "When we get married, I will definitely let him listen to me."
If she doesn't understand the affairs of the court, then he should make the decision on his own. If it matters at home, then he should listen to her.
Xie Zhu raised her eyebrows and teased: "Doesn't it mean that you asked my uncle to go east and he didn't dare to go west?"
Xie Yixiao couldn't help but laugh when he heard this: "Yes, yes, yes, I asked him to go east but he didn't dare to go west."
After hearing this, everyone laughed again.
The Rong family has been busy for a day, and they have prepared everything for tomorrow. After nightfall, Mrs. Rong Guogong and Ming family went to Chuntingyuan to check again. Rong Ci was visited by Rong Guogong and Rong Xun.
I called him over, probably because I wanted to teach him how to be a husband as someone who has been there.
Mrs. Rong Guogong sat in the bright hall of the main room of Chuntingyuan for a long time. At this time, the bright moon outside was bright, the candles were brightly lit inside, the inside and outside of the house were decorated festively, and everything was red.
Mrs. Rong Guogong was so happy that she couldn't help but think back to the past: "I remember when he was just born, he was always sick, weak and pitiful. Many people said that they were afraid that he would not be able to feed him."
"It was difficult in the early years. Later, he was given to Master Huiyuan to raise, and things got better. Now he is getting married, which I never dared to dream about before."
When the child was young, she was worried that she would not be able to feed him. When he grew up, she was worried that he would get used to living a quiet life in Yunzhong Temple and would never want to return to this mortal world.
Although she wanted him to come back, as a mother, she would not force him if he persisted.
If he hadn't met Xie Yixiao and had various fates later, he might not have come back.
Mrs. Rong Guogong really likes this girl, and she is really grateful for her.
"Has Master Huiyuan made all arrangements?" Mrs. Rong Guogong couldn't help but ask.
Mingshi nodded: "Don't worry, mother, everything has been arranged, and Master Huiyuan will definitely live comfortably."