When he heard that he was going to the hospital, Hu Zhifan changed his attitude: "Actually, I have something to do in the afternoon and need to go back to the city bureau."
A group of doctors sitting here can see everything clearly.
This patient is a typical patient who avoids medical treatment.
It is the most difficult to manage such patients. As a policeman, it is impossible for Hu Zhifan to be afraid of death. He is not afraid at all when fighting gangsters. However, he is really afraid of seeing a doctor.
How terrible the disease is to human beings. It can be described as the enemy inside your own body. You can't do anything about it, but the enemy can directly destroy your body and mind.
"Were Brother Hu afraid of seeing the doctor when he was a child?" Xie Wanying interjected and asked.
Huh? Hu Zhifan was stunned when he heard her question.
Many adult behaviors are closely related to their childhood education. For example, Xie Wanying is not afraid, which has a lot to do with her mother's education when she was a child.
Many children can smell the irritating disinfectant smell of the hospital and see the dazzling white color as soon as they walk through the hospital. These external stimulations give people an uncomfortable feeling, which can be said to have buried a deep hatred for hospital doctors in the children's hearts.
The seeds of fear.
Sun Rongfang’s education to her daughter is that the white of this hospital is as white as the white walls at home. The white coat worn by the doctor can also be worn by her daughter. The stethoscope the doctor holds is because Sun Rongfang bought one when she went to the countryside to study medicine, so she keeps it at home.
Daughter playing. As for the disinfectant in the hospital, Sun Rongfang bought similar disinfectant from outside and sprayed it on her own toilet for regular disinfection.
After letting your daughter get used to this, let her realize that the hospital is the same as at home. Don't let your daughter have the idea that hospital doctors are people from another world. The reason why most people are afraid of hospital doctors is because they subconsciously associate hospital doctors with diseases.
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If you only think of being tortured to death by the disease when you see the hospital, you will not be afraid.
"Brother Hu, you can think about this question carefully for yourself, what exactly are you afraid of?" Xie Wanying said, "Perhaps, you can also talk about the process of going to the hospital when you were a child to release your emotions."
When I was a child, I saw a doctor. Hu Zhifan's face showed a sluggish look. Maybe it was too long ago to remember, or maybe it was too scary. In short, I couldn't explain why.
The development of pediatrics in China is relatively backward. It only focuses on treating diseases and forgets to respect and pay attention to the psychological state of children. In children's education, education in this area is completely absent. Most domestic research on child psychology cites foreign experimental data, and its own
The survey projects we did were too superficial and not in-depth. In a word: there is no money to study these things that seem to have little relevance to life apart from treating diseases. Another underlying reason is that the people of the country have no money, so they can only spend their money wisely.
Parents are only anxious to cure their children's illnesses and fail to take into account the feelings of their children. Children have poor expressive skills and cannot express their deep-seated fears to adults.
Domestic pediatricians and pediatric nurses are so busy that they cannot have time to take care of the psychological needs of each child individually.
Xie Wanying thought of Teacher Nie. Teacher Nie was different from abroad. He believed that treating children was something that would have a long-term impact on their lives. In any case, he would not increase the speed of medical treatment just because he could not see all the patients.
Although medicine is not a mass-produced commodity, it is limited by factors such as capital and population. It is impossible to enjoy high-quality, people-oriented medical services in China.
