It's different after reading. It turns out that her father seems to be relatively indifferent to her affairs at home, and her mother is more anxious. It's really not that her family's situation is special. In most families, men's reactions are different from women's, and they behave more calmly. And obstetrics
Dad agreed.
"The second most important thing is loneliness."
Isn’t it surprising that family members can also be lonely? If the patient’s family members are not sick, how can they be lonely?
"Family members accompany the patient, and they need to support the patient. But if no one supports the family member, the family member is actually fighting alone in society." When Li Yaxi said this, he thought about how his mother used to avoid the reality of her hospitalization, so she didn't come.
She stayed with her in the hospital, fearing that this was the reason, plus the third psychological characteristic of the family members, which will be discussed below: panic.
Don't think that only patients are afraid of life and death. The fear that family members feel when facing the death of their family members is unimaginable to outsiders. It's not that you will die, but watching your family members die is like a soldier seeing his comrades dying in front of him.
It can be said that life is afraid of loneliness, and loneliness and panic coexist.
Another common clinical emotion among family members is the "hostility" displayed by Zhang Li and Liu Jinyin today.
Isn’t it even more surprising?
Hostility is a common psychological characteristic of family members in clinical practice. No wonder clinical teachers have long been ignorant of this, because they understand science.
First of all, hostility must be related to cognition. People who are not studying medicine have a relatively one-sided understanding of medicine, and some inexplicable rumors are spread and smeared. Some family members themselves have weak ability to withstand stress. Combining the above three other factors, it needs to turn into hostility.
It is too easy to get emotional. Moreover, hostility is not necessarily directed at medical staff.
Analyzing these psychological states is helpful for humans to see themselves clearly like looking in a mirror. Researchers believe that humans are not unconscious, but are often confused in a maze.
"Dr. Xie, have you seen other striking psychological characteristics of family members in clinical practice? Your doctor has many contacts with patients, so he should be more aware." Li Yaxi asked. Her research goal is to dig out more clinical psychological problems of family members. Problem discovery
The sooner, the sooner we can intervene and avoid tragedies similar to hers.
The patient's family members have a great influence on the patient's mentality.
I chose to do research in pediatrics because my instructor said that in pediatrics, both patients and family members are more likely to express their emotions and expose their psychological problems than in the adult ward.
The other party's question reminded Xie Wanying of herself immediately. She was also a patient's family member, and a reborn patient's family member. Her biggest psychological characteristic was: guilt.
Is she the only patient's family member who feels guilty? Definitely not. It is always seen in clinical practice, and in pediatrics, it is common to see parents of children crying and saying that they are sorry for their children.
"Yes!" Li Yaxi was awakened by her words and said, "I met a child's mother in the ward today who said she was sorry. I thought she meant she was sorry for the child, but it turned out not to be the case."
The family members feel guilty not only for the patient's illness, but also for other family members, and even feel deep guilt for the "stranger". Who is this "stranger"? He is the donor.
Don't think of all the family members as the Zhang family. The Zhang family is a minority among the minority. Most people have kind hearts. They are not only grateful to the donors but also deeply ashamed. They think that they have not taken good care of their families and have left others in need of donations.