All I can say is that I pity the hearts of parents in the world.
The doctors looked at each other in shock after hearing this.
Chief Yang, who used to be a surgeon, has never changed his humorous style after moving from surgery to the logistics department. He put his hand on Tao Zhijie's shoulder, patted him, and said with sincerity: You are not bad, you are a surgeon.
I'm so charming, why don't I show it off usually?
Tao Zhijie maintained a calm and smiling face in front of the leader.
Section Chief Yang turned back and pointed at him to the patient's family members: "We all want to introduce him to a girlfriend so that he can get out of his single life as soon as possible. I think Dean Wu also wants to do that."
Mother Lin, who was crying until she was in tears, suddenly heard what the doctor said was beyond her expectation, and she was confused. You would think that her motherly love was preparing her daughter to go through fire and water.
She wanted to be scolded, and she was prepared to beg even after being scolded. How could she know that the doctor would not scold her at all?
Father Lin was anxious to explain a few words to his wife: "Doctor, we know that our request is too much. But there is really no way, no one can convince her. Don't worry, Dr. Tao, we will never pester you. Wait until she is done.
Surgery, we will explain the truth to her immediately. Let her leave you no matter what, so as not to cause you any trouble."
"You didn't understand what Section Chief Yang meant." Dean Wu, who was sitting behind his desk, criticized Section Chief Yang for speaking half-sentences and causing misunderstandings.
Section Chief Yang accepted Dean Wu's education and said to the family members: "If you really want to do this kind of thing, just give them two a red line. Why lie? They are both alone, and there is no moral issue involved in being together."
It would be a good thing if we can really get married."
"But -" Lin's father and mother Lin hesitated.
"Look, you all think it's inappropriate to do this, don't you?" Section Chief Yang said.
The leader's speech is very artistic. That's why Tao Zhijie was silent all the way. He didn't need to appear on stage himself. The leader took care of it.
Dean Wu and Section Chief Yang are not only cunning hospital leaders, but also experienced doctors who have practiced medicine for many years. They have very reliable philosophy of life on how to deal with clinical interpersonal incidents. It is enough to talk nonsense to others.
, no need to be angry and harsh.
You said that the requirements that Father Lin and Mother Lin put forward for their daughter may sound out of touch with reality at first and may seem excessive. But doctors are doctors, and the professional requirement is to have the benevolence of a doctor. The essence of a doctor's benevolence is to be able to clearly understand that the disease itself is
A tragedy.
Father Lin, Mother Lin are very pitiful, and the patient Lin Jiayin is very pitiful. As a doctor, you must have basic sympathy for the patient and the patient's family. As for the other party making unrealistic demands, the appropriate approach is to take care of the family's temporary emotions and then talk slowly.
Understand the medical issues involved.
Section Chief Yang would make a joke first, and then Dean Wu would add to the drama to defuse the other person's emotions first.
Every powerful doctor is also a powerful psychologist. Otherwise, he cannot be a good doctor and may get into trouble first. In clinical practice, there are many demands from the families of patients who are more extreme than this.
"Why do you think it's inappropriate? Do you think your daughter is not worthy of Dr. Tao? Your mentality is incorrect," Section Chief Yang said.
Father Lin sighed, and Mother Lin seemed to be calmer.
The problem for this family is that it is understandable for the patient to be pessimistic when he gets sick, but the family members become more pessimistic and are even more pessimistic than the patient himself. This is a serious problem.