【328】Academic should not entrain personal feelings
"Your tumor is growing too fast. Even though her belly is not as big as other sick children, but others were discovered late, she cannot be considered late. This is highly malignant. Why not do it first?"
Chemotherapy.”
"After chemotherapy and surgery, I checked and found that this kind of disease requires surgery first, otherwise it will be useless."
"The problem is difficult to cut cleanly. It's multiple tumors. The doctor at the children's hospital should have advised you the same way. Chemotherapy first to see how it goes, and then whether it can be operated on. There's no point in being impatient."
When Yazhi's father said this, he realized that it was useless to beg, and it was probably useless to kneel down. The male doctor in front of him was like a block of ice, which could not be shaken. He only talked about medical issues without talking about human feelings.
How can we talk about feelings for patients like this? It is useless to talk about pity. At this stage, medicine does not have the ability to save patients. We can only follow the diagnosis and treatment procedures step by step and take it slowly.
Teacher Tan was as cold as a mirror in her heart. Xie Wanying knew: For patients with this kind of disease, they cannot give the patient's family too much to expect, otherwise the patient's family members will collapse as soon as the patient dies.
However, Yazhi's father's eyes suddenly turned to her face. He looked at the intern sign hanging on her chest with hazy eyes, as if he was grabbing for life-saving straws in a dream: Who is it, even an intern, as long as he can help
He and his daughter.
Xie Wanying, who was stared at by the patient, was stunned for a moment, and suddenly a plan came into her mind. She turned to discuss with the teacher: "Mr. Tan, how about we take the medical records first and go back to the department to discuss and then give them an answer."
Delay the time and give the patient's family a buffering psychological process.
"Yes, your doctor should take a look at the medical records first!" Yuanyuan's father immediately caught her words.
What little calculations he had in his mind as a student could never escape his eyes. Tan Kelin hooked up his lower lip and thought, the previous education was useless, why not try this ready-made one?
Everyone else was waiting for him to speak, until Yazhi's father swallowed hard.
"Yazhi, thank you uncle doctor first!" Yazhi's father taught his daughter to chop first and then play.
Tan Kelin immediately said: "No need."
As a doctor, his job is to treat people, and he doesn't have to say thank you at all times.
"Doctor Tan——" At that moment, Yazhi's father was about to cry.
"Thank you, uncle." Yazhi suddenly understood what her father had taught her and opened her mouth.
The little girl in front of him was quite smart. Tan Kelin's eyes flashed and he said to the patient's family: "Leave your daughter's medical records here for now. We will take them back to our department for discussion, but the result may not be what you think.
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Seeing that the doctor relented, Yazhi's father picked up his daughter and thanked her profusely.
Xie Wanying took a note and wrote down the contact information of their father and daughter.
I finally finished watching the last patient.
Grabbing the stethoscope on the table and putting it into his pocket, Tan Kelin glanced at the student who was lowering his head and carefully writing the medical record, and said: "There will be a department discussion on Friday afternoon, starting at five o'clock. This is the patient you want to admit, you can do it first
Be prepared to express your views at the meeting."
The teacher actually gave her such a rare opportunity. Xie Wanying nodded happily: "Yes, teacher."
She really said "yes". It was obvious that the weekend education did not make her afraid of suspending contact with high-risk patients. Tan Kelin frowned, and his hazy black eyes looked like it was going to rain. There was a sigh on his lips.
Air-conditioned, he said seriously: "When you express your views at the meeting, remember that you are a doctor, and academic discussions cannot be mixed with personal feelings."
"I understand, teacher." Xie Wanying kept the teacher's words in mind.