Wen Qiong was stunned for a moment and said nothing.
Ye Qingtian looked at her and said: "You are not very old, you are only twenty-five years old, why do you want to go back to get married?"
Wen Qiong was silent for a moment, then sighed and said: "Master Ye, you have already seen it, right?"
She paused, pursed her lips and said, "I was born in a rural area, and our hometown is very feudal and backward."
"Many girls will get married under the age of 18. They will get married and have children first, and then apply for a certificate when they are 20 years old."
For someone like her who is still unmarried at the age of twenty-five, she is a person in the village who makes her family look down upon. Everyone will say that she is not wanted.
No matter how much money she makes and how well she lives, as long as she is not married, she is inferior to others.
When she went back to her hometown in the first half of the year, an aunt in her sixties rushed to her and satirized her: "Why aren't you married yet?"
The tone was particularly contemptuous, as if it was a heinous thing for her not to marry.
When her parents heard what the aunt said, their faces changed on the spot. They kept looking down on her for several days, saying that she was bringing shame on the family by not getting married at such an old age.
Wen Qiong covered her face in pain and said: "Our hometown is such a backward and ignorant place, so I escaped at that time."
As soon as she graduated from junior high school, her family asked her to work.
Fortunately, she was lucky. In her first year of working, when she was sixteen, she was discovered by a talent scout.
The talent scout was a good person and did not trick her into the circle and leave her alone. Instead, he did his best to be her agent and arranged for her to continue her studies.
She also seized the opportunity and worked hard to get into high school and college while playing supporting roles.
And the reason why she works so hard is because she knows that if she returns to her hometown, she will definitely be forced to marry and have children before she is eighteen years old.
Then I was trapped in a backward place like my hometown for the rest of my life.
Wen Qiong gritted her teeth and said, "I have made some money over the years, built a new house for my family, and bought a house for my parents in the province."
"When my parents saw how much I earned, they didn't urge me to get married. They just complained from time to time."
"It's just that I haven't become famous yet. My parents said it would be better to find a man and get married. Anyway, my efforts in the entertainment industry are in vain."
On New Year's Day, her parents announced that she must get married next year.
When Wen Qiong thought about what her parents said, she felt uncomfortable and said, "They said I'm pretty, so it's better to find a rich man to marry while I'm young, so that no one will want me when I get old."
"They also said that I worked so hard to earn money, so I might as well rely on men."
"As long as I marry a rich man, I won't have to worry or work so hard for the rest of my life. I'll just be able to enjoy life and enjoy life."
This is the thinking of the older generation, which believes that women must rely on men to live well.
But she also heard complaints from some men in the village that their wives didn't make money, but only spent money.
But if they meet a woman who makes more money than them, they will say, why do women have to work so hard? Why don't they just get married early and marry a good man?
She felt suffocated after hearing this contradictory statement.
And her parents are also feudal parents, and their ideas are the same as those of the villagers.
Ye Qingtian looked at Wen Qiong and said, "But didn't you transfer your household registration to Wucheng and settle down in Wucheng?"
Wen Qiong's salary has been quite high these years. In addition to buying properties for her family, she also bought herself a house.
Ye Qingtian said puzzledly: "If you don't want to get married, just stay away from your parents."
"You are already financially independent. It is easy to get rid of your parents."
"Unless you are not yet independent in mind and spirit and have been led by your parents."
Wen Qiong was startled and his expression changed.
She is indeed mentally and spiritually bound by her parents.
After all, she was also born in a rural area and was influenced by backward and ignorant ideas since she was a child. It was difficult for her to truly draw a clear line between herself and her parents.
Especially since her parents are not very kind to her, and she has been using money to buy family affection, she is even more unable to break away from her parents' control.
She bit her lip and said, "Master Ye, you are right, I am indeed not mentally independent."
Ye Qingtian said nothing, just looked at her quietly, waiting for her to continue.
Wen Qiong said: "Our family is composed of two sisters and there are no boys."
"My sister is only three years older than me. She is twenty-eight this year, but she got married when she was eighteen, and her child is now ten years old."
"As for me, my parents want to keep me as a son-in-law to continue the legacy of the Wen family."
Since she had been instilled in her the idea of recruiting a son-in-law to continue the Wen family's legacy since she was a child, she seemed to have a responsibility in her heart that she must get married.
Ye Qingtian: "..."
As someone who grew up in the mountains, she really couldn't understand the idea of continuing the incense.
Maybe it's because the mythical beasts in the mountains have lived for tens of thousands of years, and each of them has instilled in her a carefree mind. They have never talked about having children, so she has no idea.
Wen Qiong: "Actually, I have thought that I can find a peer in the industry to get married, and when I have a child, I will hire a nanny to take care of me, and then continue filming."
There are many female celebrities in the industry who do this.
However, it is usually popular female stars who come back quickly after giving birth to children, while some female stars who are not particularly famous usually retire after giving birth to children.
Because it takes at least a year to have a baby, and the female stars in the circle change quickly.
Many third-tier actresses will be confused after giving birth.
So she has to face a very real problem, that is, she is not popular yet.
If she gives birth to a child and delays for a year or two, when she returns to the entertainment industry, her position will probably be gone and she will become even more confused.
That's why she wants to be famous.
Only if she is popular can she get married without fear of being confused.
Ye Qingtian saw her thoughts in his eyes, kept quiet for a moment, and said, "I saw an example on the Internet. A girl was single until she was twenty-seven. Her parents thought she was too old and urged her to get married."
"So she quickly went on a blind date with a man and got married within three months."
"But after getting married, she was not happy. She silently posted a lot of melancholy texts on the Internet. After that, she wanted a divorce, but her husband's family didn't want it. In the end, she was killed by her father-in-law."
Wen Qiong: "..."
She had actually seen this case, which caused quite a stir at the time and was very famous on the Internet.
Netizens were discussing at that time that if the girl had not been forced to get married by her parents, she would not have gone on a blind date, would not have married someone she did not know within three months, and would not have died.
Netizens are a group of young people with progressive ideas, so they are criticizing parents who force their children to get married regardless of their wishes.
Wen Qiong felt sad at that time.
Because she herself is in the same situation.
Even if she becomes a star, earns a lot of money, and allows her parents to live a good life, but she is not married, her parents feel shameless and must force her to get married.