With the deepening of the opening up of the domestic economy, some Western concepts and thoughts have quickly poured into this *********. In many big cities in the country, more and more one-night stands have occurred, and Zhou
Hao also knows that this phenomenon will become more common in the future.
Even though more and more people have tried one-night stands, some sexology experts even believe that one-night stands are not harmful to life and even beneficial to physical and mental health for urbanites who are under work pressure. Zhou Hao has ten years of living experience in Shanghai, and
Dark Blue Bar was used to seeing all kinds of men and women who were addicted to nightlife, but he always resisted one-night stands.
In Zhou Hao's view, one-night stands are purely driven by sexual desire. After one night, men and women who were lingering together one moment will go their separate ways the next, without any lingering feelings. These men and women are like each other's chamber pots. When needed,
Just use it once and throw it aside when you don't need it. There is no need to be emotionally attached to a chamber pot.
Zhou Hao admitted that he is a relatively conservative person. He cannot accept his woman having a one-night stand with someone else, and he will not try it himself.
At this time, Carlo mixed another cup of "Dark Blue Beauty" for Zhou Hao, and smiled at him: "I said Zhou Hao, you are not the kind of man who has a virginity complex, are you?"
Zhou Hao did not answer directly, but asked: "Oh? So it seems that you disdain people with virgin complexes."
Carlo shrugged, "It's not that I'm disdainful, it's just that I don't value this section."
"Actually, regardless of whether those who claim not to have a virgin complex admit it or not, every man and even women have a virgin complex." Zhou Hao took a sip of "Dark Blue Beauty" and let the sweet and sour taste of the wine stimulate him.
throat, "After research, it has been found that all races and tribes on the earth have love stories, and the vast majority of the protagonists in love stories are virgins. Let's put it this way, people who are obsessed with the belief in love have
Virgin complex."
Carlo held his chin and listened quietly to Zhou Hao's words. Zhou Hao said: "Many people think that foreigners do not have a virginity complex, because the concept of sexual openness originated from foreign countries. However, some scientific institutions
A survey was conducted, and the results showed that whether in □□ countries, the United States or other
In other places, the proportion of men with virginity complex is roughly the same, about 60%. In foreign countries, virginity complex will not be attacked in any way. In fact, according to their tradition, white wedding dresses only have
A virgin can wear it, and no non-virgin can take the initiative to make herself pure.”
At this time, Zhou Hao found that the two office girls over there were looking at him with disdain. He naturally knew that those two office girls were opponents of the virginity complex. But he didn't care and continued: "In our country
, society is in a period of change in technological development, and at this time, the issue of virginity complex will become very controversial."
Whether intentionally or unintentionally, Zhou Hao's voice, although not loud, could be clearly heard in every corner of the bar. The men and women who were drinking and chatting unconsciously fell silent to listen to Zhou Hao's words.
"Many women, here refers to unmarried non-virgins." Zhou Hao said: "They accuse the virginity complex of being immoral and a manifestation of feudal remnants, and accuse men with virginity complexes of being impotent, unconfident, etc. These are actually
It is related to the interest relationship involved in marriage. Usually, Chinese women are more dependent on men than Western women. They must rely on their own bodies to obtain the security of life. This kind of attack becomes an important means of obtaining benefits, especially when she does not
When you are a virgin again."
Zhou Hao said: "In fact, in many cases, men are more jealous and possessive than women. Not only do they want to get the present and future of their partner, they also want their partner's past to be pure and innocent.
.”
At this point, one of the office girls over there couldn't help but retort, "You men require others to be virgins. What about you men? Can you guarantee that you are a virgin before you get married? If you can't, then
Please don’t make too many demands here!”
As soon as she said this, many women in the bar were filled with indignation and looked at Zhou Hao with hatred.
Faced with the hostility of these women, Zhou Hao did not get angry or flinch, but smiled calmly: "Actually, this is a problem with social concepts. Although women's status in society is getting higher and higher now, it is undeniable
Yes, for a long time in the future, this world will still be a male-dominated society. Therefore, society’s tolerance of men
A little bigger than women. For example, when a man has an affair, people generally think of it as a romantic affair, while when a woman has an affair, she is often labeled as a slut, a slut, etc. Also, a woman may marry a
A man who was bad in the past and is now a prodigal, but few men would choose a woman who was bad in the past but is now good."
Seeing that the office girl was about to speak again, Zhou Hao rushed to say: "Actually, it is meaningless to argue about this issue, because everyone has different views on mate selection. But what I want to say is that since men now have no right to demand women
She must be a virgin, so what right does a woman have to require a man to provide a house and a car when she gets married?"
"Okay!" The men in the bar applauded Zhou Hao's remarks.
In the fierce debates in his previous life, what Zhou Hao disliked most were those women who kept saying that virginity complex was unfair, but required men to have houses and cars. In their eyes, it was natural for men to support their wives, but they didn't think about why men should
Such dedication without complaint.
The two office girls who argued with Zhou Hao had no way to refute, so they got up and left in anger. They snorted hard when they passed by Zhou Hao. However, Zhou Hao didn't care at all, and even shouted at the male compatriots around him.
He raised his wine glass, and the men also responded by raising their glasses to Zhou Hao and drinking.
Carlo smiled at Zhou Hao and said, "Although I am not a supporter of any party, I have to admire what you said so well-founded."
"Haha, I'm just expressing my feelings." Zhou Hao chuckled softly: "The most annoying thing is that they keep asking for fairness, but there are too many things in this world that are unfair."
"Why is it so lively? Is there anything happy about it?"
At this time, a familiar voice came from behind. Zhou Hao turned around in surprise because he recognized the voice, but he did not expect that the owner of the voice would come to such a place.
I saw that the man was tall and tall, with an ordinary face. At first glance, there was nothing outstanding about him, but upon closer inspection, I felt that he had a quiet and calm temperament. He was the kind of person who would remain unchanged despite the collapse of a mountain.
This person is clearly the head of the "First Army" - Mr. Hanmei.
"Wufeng, what brought you here?" Carlo showed an expression of excitement and joy as soon as he saw the boss, which is the emotion that would be shown when meeting a true friend.
Zhou Hao next to him was even more surprised, because Carlo obviously knew the big boss, and Carlo called the big boss "Wufeng", which may be the real name of the big boss.
"Little friend Zhou, it's been a long time." The boss was not polite and sat down on the chair next to Zhou Hao.
At this time, Carlo had already mixed a glass of red wine for the boss. Even if Zhou Hao worked here for so long in his previous life, he had never seen Carlo mix this kind of wine. He heard Carlo smile to the boss.
: "Here, your favorite drink is 'bloody tide'."
"Thank you." The boss tapped the corner of his mouth, raised his glass and took a sip.
"Wufeng, do you know Zhou Hao too?" Carlo asked again.
The boss nodded, "Well, he is not considered an enemy."
"Master, why are you here?" Zhou Hao asked doubtfully.
The boss smiled, "Can't I come here?"
Zhou Hao also felt that his question was a bit unexpected, but even in his previous life, Zhou Hao had never seen the boss come to the Deep Blue Bar, and he didn't know that he and Carlo were friends.
This big boss is the commander of "an army". From this point of view, Carlo is definitely not an ordinary person.
Carlo caught Zhou Hao's gaze and immediately smiled: "Hey, hey, hey, I'm just a bar owner, don't look at me like that."
Of course Zhou Hao knew that Carlo was not telling the truth. If he was just an ordinary bar owner, how could he recognize a person like Da Dangjia? Moreover, he seemed to know Da Dangjia’s real name.
He couldn't help but sigh in his heart. He had been with Carlo for so long in his previous life, but he didn't notice anything unusual about Carlo. But when he thought about it, he felt relieved. Who was he in his previous life? He was just a poor student with no merits.
Isn't it easy for Carlo to hide it from himself? Moreover, Carlo has no need to confess anything to himself.
At this time, the boss spoke: "You seemed to be having a great time chatting just now. What were you talking about?"
Zhou Hao smiled slightly and said, "Nothing, just talking about some gender topics."
Carlo also told the boss what Zhou Hao had just said. He saw the boss high-fiving and laughing: "Interesting, interesting. It seems that you, little friend Zhou, are very experienced in the matter of men and women."
"Don't take it seriously, don't take it seriously." Zhou Hao said with a smile: "I'm just a lost little lamb on the road of love."
Listening to Zhou Hao's funny words, the boss and Carlo couldn't help but smile.
"By the way, Boss, is there any news about the man I asked you to help me find last time?" Zhou Hao asked.