Looking at the empty house, Xie Songhua realized that he was still a little reluctant to let go.
Obviously I have never had any feelings for this place, but I just waited until all the things were moved, and then I felt a little empty.
The desk that had been with him for more than a year and was always filled with messy manuscripts, medical books and messy medicinal materials was now clean except for some traces that could not be wiped off.
Looking at it now, it feels like it was yesterday that she and Yu Ruzhuo sat across from each other.
She sat on the chair and said softly to the air across from her: "Yu Ruzhuo, I'm getting married, and I probably won't even come to this place in the future."
The setting sun passed through the window lattice and fell on the ring between her fingers. She suddenly lost her mind.
It wasn't until Shen's mother smiled and invited her to have dinner at Shou'an Hall that she came back to her senses.
"For such a thing, we can just send a little maid here. Why bother mother to go there herself?"
Mother Shen smiled very kindly and said, "This is the only time I'm going to ask this old lady to ask for a favor and invite the girl."
These words brought a certain sadness to the separation between the two.
When they arrived at Shou'antang, the family sat together to eat. Although it was lively and lively, they inevitably mentioned her upcoming marriage.
A meal becomes tasteless and tasteless.
After eating, we sat there for a while. After all, the old lady was afraid that her sleeping late would affect her makeup tomorrow, so she waved people away.
Xie Songhua then left with a smile, and Xie Tu sent him out with a lantern.
The two sisters were speechless all the way until they reached the banquet terrace. Seeing the empty room, Xie Tu sighed, "As soon as the third sister left, the fourth sister will be gone soon. I'm afraid Sister Lin won't be able to wait."
How soon, when the Shensi Museum starts school next year, only Sixth Sister and I will be left."
Seeing the sadness in the girl's eyebrows, Xie Songhua didn't know how to comfort her for a moment.
After being silent for a long time, Xie Tu suddenly said: "Third sister, why do people have to get married?"
She didn't expect her to ask such a question suddenly. Xie Songhua was confused for a moment. She also wanted to know why she had to get married!
Xie Tu said in a low voice: "My eldest sister was born with poor health and chose not to marry for the rest of her life. Now it seems that I am quite envious of her.
The second sister’s husband was chosen by my grandmother herself, and he seemed to be a good family at first, but..."
She pursed her lips and her voice became lower and lower, "But it just looks good! Not long after we got married, there were two more aunts in the house. When something happened to our family before, I gave the second sister good care at home.
A shameless meal.
Sister Shu may be able to say that she brought it upon herself, so I won’t go into details. What about you, Third Sister? With a person as high and aloof as the prince, I find it hard to get close to him just by looking at him. Can we be happy as a couple in the future?
And the fourth sister... I don’t know what Mr. Su is like. Every time the wife of the Su family comes over, her shining eyes make me panic, as if she can tell the hairpin on my head with her mouth.
How much is it worth?"
Xie Songhua told her that she couldn't help but laugh, "How can it be so exaggerated! The Su family is a business family, that's just their way of thinking, it may not really mean you will be weighed."
Xie Tu shook his head gently, "I don't know about that. There's also Sister Lin. Although my aunt won't tell us more, we all know the situation of the Lin family. The other party agreed to Sister Lin's marriage in private, and I'm afraid even my aunt won't be able to resist it.
"
This is Xie Wenyuan's temperament. She doesn't want her mother's family to get involved, and now she is fighting with her husband in one breath.
She didn't speak, and it was hard for Xie's family to interfere.
What's more, in this era, it's hard for a married daughter to hide in her parents' home.
Xie Songhua patted Xie Tu's hand gently and motioned for her to go out for a walk with him.
Tomorrow is a big event in the house. At this time, everyone is still busy. The garden is quiet, but lights are lit everywhere, making it look particularly peaceful.
"Tu'er, this world is always a little unfair to women. If you ask me why I have to get married, I don't know how to answer you.
, because I also don’t understand why.
But when we live in this society, we must abide by the rules of this society. Marriage between a man and a woman must be decided by the parents or the matchmaker, regardless of whether it is a man or a woman. But this does not mean that we should just close our eyes and follow the trend. We can also choose.
"
Seeing his sister's serious eyes, Xie Songhua pulled her to sit down in the pavilion, "You can choose your attitude towards marriage, choose to draw your safe distance, and the most important thing..."
She touched Xie Tu's heart with her hand, "Here!"
"here?"
Xie Tu thought about her words.
"A man, even if he is your husband, if you have not expressed his true feelings to you, then he will not be able to hurt you emotionally. As for other aspects, there will be no difficulty in doing anything and you will never encounter problems? For example, if you are a woman
Red, if the embroidery reaches the key points, the material will be stained, and the thread will be broken, won’t it be difficult to achieve the desired result?
The key is to see how you face such dissatisfaction and how to avoid such dissatisfaction. There are rules to follow.
Only feelings are unreasonable. Before you confirm that your feelings can be safely handed over, protect your heart and clearly understand the goals you want to achieve. This marriage will not be so difficult." ap.
Coming to this era and the Xie family, Xie Tu was the first friend Xie Songhua made and the only one among the sisters in the Xie family who treated each other sincerely.
This was the first time they talked about marriage and relationships.
After Xie Songhua finished speaking, he actually felt a little uneasy. After all, in this era, his remarks seemed a bit shocking.
She didn't know if Xie Tu could agree or digest it.
After a while, Xie Tu nodded slightly, but still a little confused, "So, the third sister also treats the prince like this?"
So, third sister, you are not afraid that the prince is unattainable, and you are not afraid that he will not treat you well, because you have not imagined him as a husband, thinking that he will definitely love you and protect you, so you are not afraid, right?"
"Yes!" Xie Songhua did not deny it.
Xie Tu immediately asked: "Then...is the third sister planning to stay like this with the prince for the rest of her life? Wouldn't such a life be too boring?"
Xie Songhua suddenly remembered the notebooks that Xie Tu had read during the break in the Shensi Museum.
She said seriously: "Tu'er, what I just said is not set in stone. Maybe after you get married to the other person, you find that he is indeed a man you can trust for life, and he really loves you and values you, so you might as well go for a love affair.
But what I want to remind you is that in this world, love that completely matches the soul is very rare. The words of perseverance and admiration in the story books you read are all people's good wishes.
It is precisely because it is too rare and rare that it becomes a wish, so don’t treat it with a complete attitude. If you can find someone who meets your imagination more than 60%, you will be considered very lucky.
Trying to be perfect in everything will lead to ruin. If you don't have a more open mind from the beginning and don't have complete hope in the beginning, the person you should love first must be yourself."
Xie Tu pursed her lips, finally showed a smile, then gently hugged Xie Songhua's waist, burying her face in her arms, "I know, it's just Fourth Sister, I really can't let you go!"