Therefore, He Shupingping takes a very open-minded view on the marriage of her children.
No matter how hard you struggle, you can't escape the hand of fate.
So the two children could get married whenever they wanted, and she never forced them.
Her son, Shu Yanxiu, is now thirty-five or six, and He Shuping is not in a hurry, since being anxious is basically useless anyway.
That night, He Shuping had the rare opportunity to invite Shu Yanxiu, Schumann, and Xu Yizhe to have dinner together.
In He Shuping's luxurious villa, Xu Yizhe was a little restless.
He knew that his family's conditions were poor, so he was lucky that Schumann was willing to marry him.
When their wedding day was approaching, He Shuping actually asked Schumann to go back to his hometown with him and bring her parents over to meet them.
After working for more than a year, Xu Yizhe has never been back home except to send money home.
The reason why he didn't go back was because he wanted to save travel expenses and send more money home.
He usually stayed with Schumann, and Schumann paid for most of their expenses.
Xu Yizhe felt very guilty about this. The only thing he could do to Schumann was to be twice as kind and considerate to Schumann.
Xu Yizhe knew that these were actually the least valuable.
At the dinner table, He Shuping asked: "Manman, Yizhe, when will you leave to go back to your hometown and bring your parents-in-law over.
We are all in-laws. When you two get married, we parents should meet each other."
Schumann was still worried that his mother would not want to meet Xu Yizhe's parents. After all, their family conditions were very different.
Schumann said: "Mom, Yizhe and I have decided to go in two days."
He Shuping nodded, looked at Xu Yizhe and asked, "Have you called home?"
He Shuping had never been to a rural area and had no idea that the conditions in rural areas in recent years were still very backward. There was no telephone in the whole village, and even if she wanted to make a call, she could only go to the city.
Seeing the luxury of Schumann's house, Xu Yizhe blushed slightly.
"Auntie, we don't have a phone at home, but I sent a telegram to my mother."
As soon as Xu Yizhe finished speaking, He Shuping realized that she had not thought carefully enough.
Xu Yizhe, a young man, was honest and honest. The more this kind of person, the stronger his self-esteem. He Shuping was worried that her words would hurt Xu Yicheng's self-esteem.
But having said that, if you can't handle even this little thing, then you probably won't be able to handle it correctly when encountering big things in the future.
"That's good, it's time for you and Manman to go back."
He Shuping was actually very easy to get along with, but his inferiority complex sometimes prevented him from looking directly at He Shuping.
Shu Yanxiu on the side didn't say much. He just felt that Xu Yizhe was not confident enough. He also asked people to investigate. Xu Yizhe, a young man, came from a clean family background, but he was a little poor. Of course, he was still very good to Schumann.
Shu Yanxiu is also a person who has experienced things, and his way of looking at things is also more open-minded.
At the end of the meal, Xu Yizhe felt even more stressed.
Shu Yanxiu said: "Notify me when you go, and I will drive you back. When I come, I will pick up your uncle, aunt, and your family."
Xu Yizhe was a little nervous, and Schumann could tell that Xu Yizhe actually didn't want his brother to follow them.
Schumann said: "Brother, no need, the two of us can just take the train back.
We took the train together on the way here, which was also convenient for uncle and aunt."
Shu Yanxiu hesitated and said, "If you think it's inconvenient for me to follow you, then I'll ask the driver to drive you there."
"Thank you, brother. It's really no need. You can just wait at home until we come back safely."
He Shuping said: "Manman has said that she is going to take the train, just let her figure it out."
"Okay then, just take the train yourself."
After Schumann and Xu Yizhe had dinner, they sat there until dark before leaving.
Xu Yizhe was shy. Schumann was worried that he didn't have enough to eat, so he pulled him and said, "Let's go, let's go to the night market to eat wontons."
Xu Yizhe looked at Schumann's smile and couldn't help but feel guilty.
"Manman, I'm sorry, it's because I'm not capable enough.
You are really wronged by marrying me."
Xu Yizhe's words immediately stopped Schumann's steps.
"What are you talking about?
We are two virgins who want to fight Zhou Yu, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. If you suddenly say that, I feel uneasy."
Xu Yizhe took Shuman's hand and said: "Manman, I am just a person who earns dozens of dollars a month. I can't afford a house for you. I can't even give you a stable home.
Your family's conditions are so good. If you follow me, I'm afraid you will be wronged.
Do you really not regret it?"
Xu Yizhe felt very sad. He was not afraid that he would be poor, but that he would never be able to give Schumann a stable life.
Maybe he thinks marriage is too simple.
Getting married costs money, and it costs a lot of money.
So far, after they decided to get married, all the money had been spent by Schumann's family, and he could count it on his fingers.
"Yizhe, why did you suddenly talk so much today?
I don't quite understand it.
Don’t you want to get married?”
Schumann felt faintly uneasy.
Xu Yizhe shook his head and said.
"No, Manman, I dream of marrying you.
I love you, love you very much.
I don't know why, I always feel very uneasy.
I'm afraid you will be wronged if you follow me."
Schumann hesitated and said: "Yizhe, if you haven't thought about it well, we don't have to get married for the time being.
Marriage is a matter between the two of us. If you are hesitant now, I still hope you will calm down and consider it carefully.
What I want to say is that when I decided to marry you, I was not afraid in many aspects.
You only live once in this world, so you don't have much time to think about anything else.
Didn't you ask me if I would regret it?
I think I won't regret it.
People have to move forward and look forward. If you stay where you are, it will be useless no matter what others say."
Schumann knew that Xu Yizhe just thought too much.
Schumann felt depressed. After saying these words, she turned around and wanted to leave, but Xu Yizhe chased after her.
"Manman, listen to me, are you angry?
I just..."
Before Xu Yizhe finished speaking, Schumann said: "What are you just? Are you just having low self-esteem?
Yizhe, I never thought of relying on my mother.
The two of us have no worries about food and clothing in Haishi, and your salary has been subsidized to uncles and aunts. I have never said anything because I think this is what we should do.
But now that you are hesitating, I really don’t know what to say.
I think maybe you're not ready to marry me yet.
If you haven't decided yet, wait until you decide."