In rural areas, getting the elderly to live in nursing homes is still a huge problem.
Many old people are unwilling, and neither are young people.
The old people are unwilling because they don't believe it, while the young people are facing huge social pressure.
In society, filial piety is held in a very high position, and many people are unwilling to be accused of being unfilial.
Sending the elderly to nursing homes is a sign of unfilial piety.
Chen Yang sighed in his heart and said, "Do you think this is unfilial or something?"
"Xiaoyang!" A villager took a puff of cigarette and said, "Who dares to go here? Now our lives are getting better, but the more this happens, the less necessary we are to send the old man there, right?
?You said it’s okay if the old people are happy, but what if they are unhappy...what will you do? Then you will say that we don’t care about them, how bad that would be!”
Chen Yang remained silent and did not answer.
The villagers nodded one after another, obviously speaking what was said to their hearts.
"Okay!" Chen Yang thought for a moment before saying, "Everyone has their own opinions and I have nothing to say!"
Everyone laughed dryly again.
The next day, such news had spread in the village.
"Let the elderly live in a nursing home?" Wang Limin burst out laughing after hearing this, "It really made me laugh to death. Do you think this guy Chen Yang is crazy? He is going against his ancestors! He also sent the elderly to a nursing home.
, just mess around and see who will want to go!"
"Dad, don't talk nonsense!" Wang Manyuan couldn't stand listening anymore and said, "Now our country is aging seriously, the elderly care industry is a very dynamic industry, and the country also encourages private enterprises to solve such problems. For us
As far as the village is concerned, many young people are working now and have their own things to do. Many old people cannot be taken care of well. Xiaoyang is solving a big problem for our village. It is of the same nature as building a kindergarten.
It’s called having something to support when you’re young, and something to rely on when you’re old!”
"You know nothing!" Wang Limin was furious, pointing at Wang Manyuan and said, "Do you also want to send me to a nursing home? When I die, you will leave me there, right? OK, you are really a
You who make me worry, let me tell you, if I get old, if you dare to send me to a nursing home, see if I don’t beat you to death!"
"Dad, what are you talking nonsense about?" Wang Manyuan was anxious, "I'm just telling you casually, I didn't say where I wanted to send you, so don't talk nonsense!"
"I think that's what you think!" Wang Limin pointed at her, "I just said that having a daughter is useless. Now you are thinking of sending me to a nursing home. No wonder you are so close to Chen Yang. I think you are all
It’s heartless!”
Wang Manyuan turned pale with anger.
"What's the use of having a daughter? It's useless!" Wang Limin cursed and left.
Wang Manyuan burst into tears.
"What's going on?" Liu Yingxin had just come back and was shocked when she saw this situation. She quickly stepped forward and asked, "Manyuan, what's going on?"
"Mom!" Wang Manyuan cried even more vigorously and told Liu Yingxin what Wang Limin had just said.
"Wang Limin, that bastard!" Liu Yingxin was extremely angry. "He is so frustrated and crazy. He has nothing to do every day, but he only knows how to behave at home! Ignore him!"
Wang Limin hated to come out of here. The more he thought about it, the angrier he became. He took out his mobile phone and called Wang Lin. He roared and said: "Wang Lin, let me ask you, when I get old and can no longer move, do you also want to
I’ll send him to a nursing home!”
"Dad, what are you talking about!" Wang Lin was still a little confused and didn't know why.
"Am I talking nonsense?" Wang Limin sneered, "Am I talking nonsense? Listen to what your sister said. I don't think you are a conscientious person!"
After that, he hung up the phone.
Wang Lin thought something was wrong, so he called Wang Manyuan.
It happened to be Liu Yingxin who picked it up.
Liu Yingxin explained the matter immediately.
"I'll be back!" Wang Lin said helplessly, "I'll be back right away!"
In the evening and afternoon, Wang Lin returned home.
"Where's Dad?" Wang Lin came in and asked.
Wang Manyuan's eyes were a little red and swollen, and he shook his head to express that he didn't know.
"Oh, what kind of trouble is he making!" Wang Lin was extremely angry, "I'm very busy with work these days, what does he mean?"
"I didn't know. I was just talking about old-age care. How did he know that dad would be so angry all of a sudden?" Wang Manyuan said.
"I'll go find him!"
…
At this time, the issue of the nursing home had also spread in the village.
"No, who dares to send it there!"
"Yeah, how unfilial this is, someone will poke you in the back!"
"Old people may not be willing to go!"
Faced with such words, Chen Yang didn't know what to do.
Now he understands one thing: some things cannot be done well only with money.
It’s hard to change people’s ideas!
"Xiao Yang!" In the evening, Aunt Xiu came to Chen Yang's house and cooked for Chen Yang.
These days, Aunt Xiu will come over to cook for Chen Yang whenever she is free, and the two of them are quiet here.
"Don't take the gossip in the village to heart!" Knowing what Chen Yang was thinking, Aunt Xiu comforted her gently, "It's normal for them to find it difficult to accept such an idea for a while."
"Hey!" Chen Yang said helplessly, "I underestimated everyone's stubbornness!"
"I think you did the right thing!" Aunt Xiu said, "If I get old in the future, I will live in a nursing home."
"Aunt Xiu, I will support you!" Chen Yang's heart moved and he took Aunt Xiu's hand and said.
Aunt Xiu's eyes were full of smiles, but she shook her head and said, "That's no good. Aren't I dragging you down? You are going to get married and have children in the future, so what do you mean by raising me?"
"That's not okay. If you want to go in, let's go in together." Chen Yang said domineeringly.
Aunt Xiu chuckled.
"Actually, after saying so much, they don't count!" Aunt Xiu thought for a while and then said, "Do you know why these people dare not send the elderly in? Because everyone is afraid of what others will say. This is the concept, and it is difficult to change for a while.
Yes! If we really want to relax, we can only let the elderly people propose to live in a nursing home, so that everyone's pressure will be less, what do you think?"
Chen Yang's heart moved, yes, Aunt Xiu is right!
"But the elderly actually don't know much about nursing homes, and many bad things have happened before!" Aunt Xiu sighed and said, "They say that some nursing staff are not good to the elderly, letting them eat leftovers and so on... everyone thinks
I’m scared too!”
"So the best way is to invite the old people inside to try it out!" Chen Yang clapped his hands with a smile on his face, "Aunt Xiu, is that so?"
"Yes, letting them experience it is the best way!" Aunt Xiu said with a smile, "Only if they experience it will they know whether it is good or not!"