Dakui left the room and walked straight to the front house. It was almost three o'clock at the moment. Everyone had gone to bed, so Dakui didn't want to disturb them, so he went to the front hall alone.
There was a servant on duty at the door of the hall. Da Kui ordered the servant to hold the lamp and make a pot of tea. The servant followed the order. Dakui entered the hall and sat down in the middle of the hall. When the servant held the lamp and made tea, Da Kui
Sitting alone in the hall. I went through all the trouble to marry Huang Ying, but Huang Ying was so unruly and willful...
"Master, haven't you rested yet?" But it was Master Feng who walked into the hall. Seeing that it was Master Feng, Da Kui said quickly: "Master Feng, you've come just in time. I have something in my mind and I just want to ask for advice. Come on, come on, please sit down!" Da Kui said
Extending his hand to invite you, Master Feng went to sit on a chair on the side and asked, "What difficult things are there in your mind, sir?"
Dakui sighed and said: "My wife is unruly and willful, and she has not changed her temper. She told me to release her two senior brothers, but if I don't obey her...ah!" When Dakui said this, he slapped his thigh, and Master Feng said
Hearing this, he laughed loudly and said: "My lord has been on the battlefield for a long time and is a hero of the world. Now he is in a high-ranking official position and is prominent. But he doesn't know much about the affairs of these men and women, hahaha!"
Dakui couldn't help complaining: "You didn't help me solve my doubts, but you came to laugh at me?" Master Feng said with a smile: "No, please listen to what my subordinates say."
Da Kui poured a cup of tea for Master Feng. Master Feng took it with both hands and put it on the table. Then he said in detail: "The love affair between men and women is extraordinary. When a man meets the woman he likes, he will naturally entangle himself in every possible way, and the woman will be entangled in every possible way."
That's not the case. A woman gets to know a man a little bit before she falls in love with him. As the saying goes, it's flirting! Quarrels between husband and wife are common. I'll give you an analogy: When you see a strange woman on the street, you won't know how to do it.
It is offensive and offensive, and vice versa. However, your Excellency and your wife are destined for this life, and they are already married. It is normal to fight with each other, but I see that your wife is not an unreasonable person, so my wife's move must be to make use of the topic."
Dakui was stunned when he heard this and said: "I don't think she is faking..."
Master Feng said with a smile: "On some trivial matters, you just have to obey him!" Dakui couldn't help but get up angrily and said: "How can I break the laws and regulations for my children's personal affairs?" Master Feng laughed and said: "I have heard that I have
Your Excellency studied under the Southern Taoist Sect, don’t you know how to use it to transform it?” Da Kui was astonished when he heard these words, and he clapped his hands and said, “Master Feng is indeed my advisor, how wonderful!”
Master Feng chuckled and said: "My lord, please remember that when you get along with your wife, you must accept everything. How you adapt depends on your skill!"
Da Kui chuckled and said, "I have benefited a lot from Master Feng's words." After Master Feng said it, Da Kui understood the secret. It turns out that in daily life, it is just like the principles of Tai Chi. For example, if a woman makes a suggestion, a man will not obey it.
, but couldn't say it directly, and needed to make some twists and turns. Huang Ying asked Da Kui to release Luo Dahai and Fang Qishan, but Da Kui said no, which was a taboo. This taboo didn't mean that Da Kui was wrong, but that Da Kui was too serious about everything and didn't know how to adapt.
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Just like between a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law, there will always be friction. The husband is the wife on one side and the mother on the other, so he must be reconciled and tolerated by both parties. This submissiveness is not about being a doormat, but rather about being flexible.
Dakui stood up and cupped his hands towards Master Feng and said, "Master Feng is very talented, Zhang Dakui has learned a lesson!" Master Feng stood up with a smile and said, "My subordinate was going to the toilet in the middle of the night, and happened to see the master coming here, so he followed him.
I didn't expect that I really helped you." Zhang Dakui said a little cautiously: "It's late at night, Master Feng, please go back and rest early, I will go back too."
After saying that, Dakui happily left the hall and returned to the back house. When he came to his bedroom door again, he saw that the light was on, but the door was locked. Knowing that Huang Ying was not asleep, Dakui patted the doorway:
"Ying'er, open the door!" There was no movement in the room, so Da Kui had no choice but to say: "Then you can sleep, I'll go to another room. I heard that there was a beautiful girl named Chunhua in the house, so I kept her in the room.
Let’s make a side room here!”
After saying that, she started to walk away. The door behind her opened with a creak. Huang Ying stood in front of the door wearing only her underwear and looked at Dakui coldly. When Dakui saw him, he quickly turned around and ran over and said, "Madam, it's freezing. Don't leave."
I'm freezing." After saying that, he strode into the door and closed the door behind him.
"Are you going to get a side house?" Huang Ying looked at Da Kui coldly and asked, and Da Kui chuckled and said, "I mean that spring has begun in the house and we must plant some flowers and plants. Find pots of beautiful spring flowers and put them in the side house."
Then he came to pull Huang Ying. Huang Ying laughed and scolded: "When did you learn to talk glibly? Ouch." Dakui quickly turned around and saw Huang Ying holding her leg with one hand and a look of pain on her face, and suddenly realized.
Without waiting for Huang Ying's instructions, he stepped forward and carried Huang Ying to the bed. When he arrived at the bed, he gently put Huang Ying on the bed, and then went to close the door and turn off the lights...
The next day, Huang Ying still couldn't get up, so Da Kui had to ask the maid to wait on her and deliver every meal to her room. But Da Kui left the house alone and went to the drug store on the street. When he went to the drug store, he didn't buy medicine but asked questions.
When the doctor saw that Da Kui was actually a high official, he did not dare to hide anything and explained some things about women to him in detail. Da Kui benefited a lot and gave the doctor five taels of silver before leaving. The doctor was of course very grateful.
After returning to the mansion, he ordered someone to stew black-bone chicken and red date soup and send it to Huang Ying. He also sent someone to invite the best tailor in Yingtian and ordered him to tailor several sets of beautiful clothes for Huang Ying. There were plenty of silk brocades in the mansion, Huang Ying
After all, she was the wife of a second-rank official, so she had to dress up well. Dakui also ordered people to take gold and silver to find a silversmith to make a box full of jewelry.
Dakui was a little anxious, because King Wu once granted Huang Ying a marriage and granted her the title of Lady Gaoming. Once the reward was officially granted, how could Huang Ying wear casual clothes? Why would she have to wear silk and gold and silver to show her worth as Mrs. Gaoming?
The date was just three days after the wedding.
(In ancient times, the head wives of officials were awarded according to the size of their husband's official position. The head wives of officials of the first to fifth ranks were granted imperial orders, and the wives of officials of the sixth to ninth ranks were granted imperial orders. Dakui was of the second rank, so Huang Ying was the wife of the second rank. After receiving the title,
Mrs. Gaoming is because her husband’s family has outstanding achievements and is not as cheap as vegetables on the market)
Although the post of Madam Gaoming is empty, she has a salary but no authority. However, she still needs to be nominated by the Ministry of Civil Affairs and the Ministry of Military Affairs and the Imperial Academy, and then the King of Wu will seal and issue the letter. It is simply a lot of trouble.