When Chen Ruolin gets married, it is equivalent to raising a grandfather who is paraplegic.
Enlightenment is enlightenment, but every parent is selfish when faced with their children's problems. They don't want Gu Yahui to be dragged down by Chen Youde in the future.
His hospital work is very busy. If he still has to take care of Grandpa Chen Ruolin, it will inevitably affect his normal work, not to mention that as a doctor, he needs a lot of time to study, further improve his professional level.
The family has high hopes for Gu Yahui, hoping that he and Lu Hao can develop well in the field of orthopedic surgery, become leaders in this field in the future, and contribute to medical research.
Benefit patients.
The family must be his support, not a drag.
Moreover, in Nie Yuhua's view, Chen Youde was unworthy.
Gu Yahui was immediately shocked, "Mom, didn't you agree? Why did you change your mind again?"
Nie Yuhua said, "I want you to think carefully."
Nie Yuhua and Gu Changan would not directly oppose or interfere in their son's personal issues.
However, they have a responsibility to disagree.
Gu Yahui's attitude was firm,
"I am an adult and I will be responsible for my own choices. You just need to respect and bless me."
Gu Yahui said that for this reason, others could no longer object.
Since Gu Yahui's attitude is so firm, the best way to deal with it now is to find a way to treat Chen Youde. As long as his health improves, the pressure on the two young people will be reduced in the future.
Mr. Gu said to Nie Yuhua,
"Yuhua, ask your dad if there is any way he can cure Grandpa Ruolin's condition. If it is cured, Grandpa Ruolin will suffer less, and Yahui and Ruolin will have a lighter burden in the future."
Nie Yuhua still refused without hesitation, "My dad won't treat him."
Mr. Gu was really angry this time. He asked them to go to the Chen family to propose marriage, but they didn't go. Now he asked the in-laws to treat Chen Youde, but his wife refused.
What does it mean?
Mr. Gu said angrily, "Why don't you treat him? What kind of doctor is he if he doesn't treat his patients? Besides, that is the grandfather of Yahui's partner, and we will all be relatives from now on."
"Dad, now we don't hide it from you and my mother. Chen Quede doesn't deserve to be treated by my father."
Nie Yuhua was afraid that her parents-in-law would have objections to her and her father, so she would definitely tell the truth.
She finally figured it out. If she didn't tell the truth, her father-in-law would think that she was an irresponsible mother to her children, and she would go to her father to treat Chen Quede privately.
When the time comes, when her father gets angry, the in-laws will definitely be unhappy, and her father-in-law will know the true situation sooner or later. In this case, it is better for her to take the initiative to speak out, so as not to harm the peace between the family.
Anyway, I've already been to Chen's house today, so there's no harm in telling the truth.
"Dad, Mom, I have to tell you something. After listening to it, you can decide whether you should let my dad treat Chen Youde."
When Gu Yahui realized what his mother was going to say, he was so frightened that he said, "Mom!"
Nie Yuhua glanced at Gu Yahui and said in a serious tone, "Yahui, don't talk. Your grandparents have the right to know the truth."
Otherwise, she will have to take care of the bad guys.
Later, Nie Yuhua talked about the grievances between Chen Youde and her father, as well as the relationship between Chen Youde and Lu Hao.
After hearing this, the second elder of the Gu family turned to stone with shock on his wrinkled cheeks.
"Yuhua, what are you talking about?" Mrs. Gu came to her senses first, "Is Chen Youde Lu Hao's grandpa?"
Nie Yuhua nodded, "Yes, he did countless immoral things for his own career. The reason why Lu Hao became a motherless child is all thanks to him."
"Lu Hao's biological mother is my father's goddaughter and my best friend. Not only did that cruel guy Chen Quede break up her marriage, she was also driven to an unknown place. There has been no news for more than 20 years." Nie Yuhua gritted her teeth.
Cursing, "How could my dad treat that kind of immoral thing? I'll be damned if he dies."
Nie Yuhua was so angry that Mrs. Gu expressed her confusion, "Yuhua, why didn't you object to Yahui and Ruolin?"
Nie Yuhua snorted coldly, "Is it useful if I object? It's not like I'm going to live with you anyway."
Nie Yuhua was very satisfied with Chen Ruolin, and for Chen Yazhi's sake, she was willing to agree to let Chen Ruolin be her daughter-in-law.
But when her father-in-law and mother-in-law mentioned Chen Youde's physical condition, she couldn't help but start to worry, "Yahui, we can be open-minded about your marriage, but we must be responsible for your future. With Chen Youde's behavior, he will not be able to do it for a while.
He can't die either.
After you get married, you will definitely be reluctant to let Ruolin work hard. When the time comes, all the work of bathing and wiping the old man's butt will be yours. You must consider it carefully now. Love will also be in those days of hesitation.
It was quickly worn away.”
She reminded him as someone who has experienced it, "The reason why your dad and I are still so good now is because our families and parents have never given us any problems. Marriage is really a matter between two families.
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If Gu Changan had to face a hemiplegic grandfather as soon as he returned home and take care of his daily life all day long, how would he have time to be with her? How would he have the time to pamper her?
Love requires sincerity, time and money to manage.
"Mom, I've thought about it very clearly. You don't have to worry about this matter. I'll handle it myself. You just need support."
Gu Yahui left home with a heavy heart.
I have to say that his grandparents and parents are considering very practical issues.
But he firmly believes that two people who love each other should face all kinds of trivial problems in life together.
He is a man and he has the ability to face everything.
Marriage is never about two people getting tired of being together all day long, being close to each other.
Rather, we face all the beauties and tests in life together.
When Gu Yahui passed by, Qin Feng was not there, so he simply went to find Sun Cheng.
Sun Cheng's love for Weng Ying can give him strength at this time.